11dpo thread 🧡

[Sparkle2020]

A thread for anyone who’s 11dpo. Mine was a bfn today so kind of counting myself out, anyone else either bfn or bfp? X

Same here 11 DPO took a early detection test (wondfo from Amazon ) got a BFN

Been feeling crap all week mood swings , so boobs back ache all usual signs my AF is on the way so I'm pretty sure I'm out this month again .

I hate this TWW!!

I'm also 11dpo today and did a cheap boots one this morning and bfn. Had really sore boobs for about 4 days now and they have got bigger but this does happen to me before AF just not as early. Had a dull achey feeling in my lower tummy from yesterday so I think it could be AF coming.

@Donnat89 ah no! Gutting isn’t it. Think I’m out this month too I’ve had AF cramps since ovulation which I thought was a good sign but I’m not sure anymore. When are you due on? Sunday for me.

@biscuit13 ah bless you! I wish af symptoms and bfp symptoms were completely different it really is so frustrating for us all! Are you testing everyday or going to wait until af day?

I'm day 11 today too, have been exhausted and feeling faint for the last few days, convinced it was bfp. Then this morning af has appeared 😒 annoyed at myself for getting excited lol x

Hey hun ,

Sorry I just re checked today is 10dpo for me , like you I've had sore boobs feeling tired all that stuff but can be signs of my AF for me .

I will re test tomorrow at 11dpo possibly with a FR test so then I won't question it !

I'm due on on Wednesday ! Although my periods can be a day or so either side . Apart from the back ache I've had all week o cramps yet but they should start next day or so !

I literally feel like a mad women at the moment as it's all I think about during this wait ! X

@Twitchett22 ahh I'm sorry to hear this it's gutting it really is ! I think I would rather by AF just show now tbh least then I know ! It's crap when you let yourself believe and then AF shows it's such a punch to the stomach ! X

@Donnat89 i didn't think I'd be too bothered as only been trying for a couple of months but I've been crying all morning lol. We were very lucky to get pregnant straight away with dc1 so i think subconsciously i was expecting the same. I've never done the whole monitoring ovulation and checking when to test and things so its a minefield to me! I think next month I'm gonna try and just wing it and hope that works haha x

@Twitchett22 yea I've got 2 from a previous relationship and fell quickly with them . So I do find this taking so long painful and frustrating.

I do track my ovulation on flo and input stuff into that , so I have a pretty good idea as to when I ovulate , I don't do the ovulation tests .

I think next few months I'm gonna try not obsess so much as I don't think that helps and try keep more busy too !

@Twitchett22 aw no way, is that early for you too? Shitty feeling isn’t it :( I think it’s also like you imagine announcing it each month don’t you. Like you get attached to the idea. So I’ve decided for my mum who is desperate for a grandchild that my goal is an Easter egg hunt and end prize will be a positive test lol, cheesy but keeps me hanging on til April 🥴😂

@Donnat89 good luck with that not obsessing plan

@Donnat89 its so annoying that TTC is a monthly thing, a month feels like sooo long when you're waiting! If only we could just try one day and know the next then try again if negative 😂 hopefully next month will be better for both of us

@Sparkle2020 I know kidding myself aren't I ? I like you make plans on how I will
Announce it etc , and keeps me going a bit longer but I always dread this wait !

@Sparkle2020 yes AF is 4 days early and its never early which is what's confusing me! But its defo more than implantation bleeding. So frustrating. I was looking at due dates and how old baby will be at xmas and when i can finish work 😂 can't help it can you. Next month I'm just going to tell myself I'm not pregnant regardless of any symptoms until af doesn't show. Defo having a glass of wine tonight

@Twitchett22 lol it's literally like I don't even see dates any more just what phase me cycle is In , the first part of the month goes quick but the last 2 weeks are so slow ! Then you've got PMT deal with it's even worse as your never sure if it's PMT or a sign of pregnancy! X

@Twitchett22 I promised myself the exact same thing last month .... and now here I am again !

@Donnat89 haha yes I’ve decided to make a really good announcement plan suitable only to each month e.g. Easter announcement or Christmas so that every months announcement is better than the last 😂 and yes absolutely kidding yourself lol, if you’re like me you’ll be on the OPKs by cd6 hahah

@Twitchett22 omg feel you on the checking due dates thing. At one point I even got a baby app and set what the due date would be just in case so I could see what variety of fruit it would be the size of lol. Didn’t last long when af showed up a week later 😂 yes get on the wine!! Wish it was easy to just say no tests until missed af. Really don’t know how people find the willpower

I ordered 2 tests yesterday and they've just been delivered... I have literally 0 willpower so I'm defo going to test even though af is here. Closure maybe?

@Twitchett22 why not ? Not gonna
Lie I have done this before and did find it reassuring .

@Sparkle2020 I feel you I too have many great ideas on announcements seems
To help a little . I still have some hope this month as only 10 DPO will test again tomorrow if still a BFN I will just prepare for AF (pretty convinced it's on its way due to my lower back ache today which seems to be worse !)

@Sparkle2020 it would be so much more helpful if they were different! no not every day, I think i'll wait until sunday now and use my first response then as i'll be 2 days from AF then so should be quite reliable. if that's a no i'll probably just wait to see if AF comes.

Bfn no suprise really. Looks like my usually reliable cycle has now changed so no clue now when to try. Probs a good thing then i might not obsess about days too much. Good luck to you who have still got hope this month! I'll be back on a new thread next month 😂 xx

Hi, first post so I'm still learning all this. I'm currently 11dpo but thought it'd be too early to test? I was trying to find out when is the very earliest you can test.. is this it?

Couldn't resist and did one anyway and it was negative

@mini84 yes you Can test a early as 11DPO but if you neg at a negative may still be too early , I am 10DPO today (thought I was 11) tested and got a negative . I am going to test using a FR tomorrow morning . I'm still pretty certain I'm not preg tbh but hey can't rule it out completely until AF shows so those still waiting fingers crossed .

@mini84 try again in a couple of days when testing early should always use the first wee of the morning tooxxx

Thanks @donnat89 I bought a double pack of FR at lunch so will do the other one first thing in the morning one day next week. Tbh I don't think I am just hoping I am!
Good luck with yours tomorrow xx

@mini84 thanks I've just bought a double pack too , I'm trying to remain hopeful! But feel like I do every other month before AF arrives so as much as I want to see a BFP I'm doubtful like you I just want to be ! Good luck ! Xxxx