TTC after miscarriage - end of January 2020 testing

[MilsCookie]

Hey @Anny27 @ChampooPapi @BS9790 @Cruiser1 @mlax @ELM7 @SweetpeaOrMarigold !

I don’t think I’ve got everyone so please tag anyone else who is still in TWW/planning on testing from now - end of the month.

This is for when we run out of space on the other thread! Then from here we can move to the Feb group set up by @terribleimagination or hopefully a pregnancy thread 😊

On CD28 currently and did a test this morning - BFN. AF due CD33-34 so hopefully was just too early 🙈.

Baby dust to all! 💫🍀💖

So a BFN for me today at 14dpo. Guess that's my out :/ I saw a faint line in past few so dont know if faulty tests or chemical but I WILL NOT test early next time. Its not worth the stress and squinting:(

@champooPapi sorry AF arrived lovely! I am with you, had so much bloody sex this month and not even worth it haha

@MilsCookie whens your AF due lovely? You are almost our last hope for a bfp

@StephyRose good look with your ttc journey beautiful! I am with you, no temping or OPKs or obsessing tracking for me next month!!!!

@lavenderlove welcome lovely. It might be better to join the February thread we have set up as only a few of us are left kn here waiting for our AF too arrive in the next few days. When AF arrives we move to the Feb thread with the other ladies still trying. I will link the thread in my next message :)

How is everyone else getting on?

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/3796903-TTC-after-miscarriage-February-2020

There we go @lavenderlove I will probs be joining that thread tomorrow when Af arrives....

@Anny27 ahhh nooo so sorry you got a bfn 😞 I was so hoping you'd see two lines today! I also did another IC this morning and really stark white bfn too. I am still 1-2 days from AF so I'm assuming I'm out too. I woke up with slight lower back pain so I assume she's on her way (on CD32 today). I just want her to hurry up now if she's going to show so that I can move on to cycle 2!! Long cycles are so annoying 🙄. Can't believe how we hardly got any BFPs in this thread! Maybe January was just not the best month. Oh well. It will happen for us sooner or later!!😊

Gonna have a month off MN I think but will post here to let you know when my AF has arrived 😔

Lots of luck to everyone 🍀💖

Ahh no @Anny27 and @MilsCookie sorry not the positives you were hoping for but no AF yet so FC it’s just late ovulation so longer for BFP to show!

@MilsCookie would love to join you on a WhatsApp chat please.

AF arrived just now so I am out! Onto the next month :(

Sorry @Anny27 hope you are feeling ok.

Let’s hope Feb is our month! x

Oh no @Anny27! Sorry she came. Can’t believe the low numbers we have had. FC for next month! Xx

Sorry to hear that, Anny

Take care of yourself

Is anyone else not due to test until the end of the week? I might need to move to the February thread if I'm all by myself on here..

To say how many of us started on the thread, there's really not many who've had a BFP!

@FireflyGirl hey lovely, I'm still here. On CD32 and AF due tomorrow or Tuesday. So far had 3 BFNs (on CD28, 30 and this morning). Not sure what dpo I am. I still feel like I'm having symptoms (nausea, some on and off cramps, milky cm, and now my boobs and nipples have started to hurt but that could be AF related), so we'll see! I just want to know either way! How are you feeling? Xx

@FireflyGirl p.s. I know 😞😞😞 I wanted to make a lucky thread. I'm sorry to everyone who got af! 😞

Hi everyone, and so sorry to all of you that have experienced or currently going through a loss.
Little bit of my story...I’m 37 and have 3 children (9, 7, 5).
No longer with their dad but have been with my current partner for 2 years. I came off the pill at the start of September 2019 and we started TTC (trying to conceive).
I don’t chart or temp etc. We just DTD (doing the deed) when we want (which is a lot anyway).
I got my BFP (big fat positive) on 25th November 2019 and we were over the moon.
Unfortunately on 18th December I started lightly bleeding. Had multiple scans where there was a visible pregnancy and over the course of the following 2 weeks it even had significant growth. But no heartbeat ever became visible. Finally on 1st January I miscarried naturally at home suffering the most horrendous contraction like pains for 3 hours before passing the pregnancy.
My bleeding had stopped completely by the very next day.
My doctor had said we could begin TTC (trying to conceive) as soon as I felt ready.
So we did. We’ve been DTD (doing the deed) as normal ever since. But in all honesty probably not enough this month.
I’ve no idea when af is due, I’ve no idea if or when I ovulated (the only thing I noticed was some EWCM (egg-white cervical mucus) on 13th).
I’ve tested the last 2 days, and today and all bfn so confident I’m out this time.
Just need af to show so I can start my next cycle and TTC (trying to conceive) properly. I feel slightly nauseous but think I may be coming down with something.
Sending hugs and lots of luck to all of you xx

Im still here!
I'm now 10dpo, bfn this morning on ic, I've ordered some frer & will test again 12dpo.
I have no idea when AF is due, should have been 24th but this is my 1st since MC, no idea if I'm late or if my cycles have changed.

I'm still here too. I'm really hoping for a bfp as I didn't start spotting on Saturday but then there could be other reasons for that, and I'm scared to test so I haven't yet. I think I will tomorrow....but I've said that before! I'm a bad flake!

Ah I’m so glad there’s more Ladies still to test. Hopefully this group is still in with a chance of a BFP. I’m not testing now until early Feb. Probably around the 4th. But I’m waiting to see if anyone gets their two lines on here 🤞🏻🤞🏻

Only just popped on this after a crazy weekend. @GemLou88 @MilsCookie I'd love to stay in touch too xx

I'll be sticking around to see a few more bfps hopefully!! :D

Cycle day 2 feeling really depressed about it all, I know 1 month is unrealistic haha! But it feels so much longer obvs because took 4 cycles before getting pregnant and then the miscarriage and now the wait.

Hopefully I can get over myself soon and focus on enjoying my life as it currently is

@mlax hope you're okay lovely. I've just PMed you.

@Anny27 sending you a big hug 😘 I cried so much last night as my DP told me it was all getting on top of him as it's all I seem to talk about. I was like FINE I WON'T TALK ABOUT IT THEN and we had a bit of a tiff 😔 I got so upset because I feel like I NEED to talk about it. He then said of course I can talk to him about it but I need to try and find things to take my mind off it because he's worried about me. 😞 I'm feeling a bit better today but wow I can't believe how much of an emotional rollercoaster this all is!

@Moominmiss hey hun, so sorry to hear of your loss, it's such a traumatic experience to go through. Sending lots of hugs 😘 you might be better off in the Feb 2020 TTC after miscarriage thread, I will try and link it here in a sec as most people are chatting in that thread now. But sending lots of love and luck to you in your TTC journey xxx

@Moominmiss here's the link to the other thread 😘 but do keep us updated here- fingers crossed you get a bfp this month! 🤞🍀💖

TTC after miscarriage - February 2020 www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/3796903-TTC-after-miscarriage-February-2020

Thank you @MilsCookie I found that thread and posted in there too. I wasn’t sure at the time which was the main thread.
But thank you. It’s so comforting to speak to other ladies in similar circumstances, although I wouldn’t wish it upon anyone. X

@MilsCookie it is just so all-encompassing. Feel free to DM me if you want to chat.

I'm just stuck in limbo now, and that's the hardest part. I'm usually very pro-active so the waiting is awful - especially as I'm behind most other people on the thread! I'm just hanging around to hopefully move onto the graduates thread, or else the February thread...

Tried poas this morning, but it's a 20miu stick so unlikely to pick anything up at this point anyway. 4 more days...

I got a bfp this evening. Cautiously happy but those lines don't mean much to me anymore which is so sad!

Yayyyyyy @Zoey36 :D

Do you have a picture? Congratulations lovely xxx

@Zoey36 That's great news!!!! I'm so happy for you. I've got everything crossed this is a happy and healthy pregnancy for you. That's made me so happy ☺️☺️

congratulations @Zoey36 how many dpo are you?

14dpo on a £1 Asda one.