TTC after miscarriage - end of January 2020 testing

[MilsCookie]

Hey @Anny27 @ChampooPapi @BS9790 @Cruiser1 @mlax @ELM7 @SweetpeaOrMarigold !

I don’t think I’ve got everyone so please tag anyone else who is still in TWW/planning on testing from now - end of the month.

This is for when we run out of space on the other thread! Then from here we can move to the Feb group set up by @terribleimagination or hopefully a pregnancy thread 😊

On CD28 currently and did a test this morning - BFN. AF due CD33-34 so hopefully was just too early 🙈.

Baby dust to all! 💫🍀💖

11dpo and having trouble sleeping tonight.....hence the 3am replies haha.

I am testing on Friday morning when I will be 12dpo 🤞🤞🤞🤪🤪🤪

@champoopapi thank you 😘 how are you getting on?

@milscookie yep it's a constant battle between whether I am making my symptoms up or not haha

@kkr168 good luck :) my first cycle after MMC was 2 weeks longer than usual so dont get disheartened xx

@Anny27 oh bless you waking up at 3am!! You're only one day away now eeeeek! But remember if you do get a bfn it might still be too early... don't be disheartened until af shows. But keeping all my fingers and toes crossed that tomorrow you get a bfp!! 🍀🍀🍀

Oh man.. AF has come today and wow is all I can say. I'm in that much pain with my backache and cramps I want to cry. Never has it ever been this bad before. Roll on when I come off! 😅😅

I'm so sorry to hear that @mlax

Can you hunker down with painkillers, hot water bottle and ?

Fingers crossed for you tomorrow @Anny27

When are you testing @MilsCookie?

@mlax ohhh I'm so sorry 😔 that's so shitty. Not sure what you take but I usually get horrendous period pain and ibuprofen lysine is the thing that works for me. And a hot water bottle and chocolate!! Hope it passes soon for you 😘

@FireflyGirl I keep toying between the idea of either sat/sun or wait till AF or the day after it's due. I'm due on Monday so might test then?! What about you?

Thanks ladies!

Unfortunately I'm one of those weirdos that can't take tablets 😩😩😩 so I've got my elephant hot water bottle with me today at work. I pray this isn't how my AF will be every month!!!

Cramps and bleeding here too 💁‍♀️

@BS9790 @mlax sorry AF showed. Take the time to rest, indulge and look after yourselves. Sorry I can't remember if this is the first AF since for their if you. I know my first one was more painful and heavier than usual. Hope your cramps ease up soon xx

@GemLou88 this is my 2nd but more painful as in backache but I've not had much bleeding at all with the 2 which I've found odd..!

Wishing if AF is going to come it hurries up as am really struggling today with period pains without the period. Due in 2 days but don’t normally struggle before it arrives but I just want to curl up with a hot water bottle today. 😩

I really feel for you @ELM7 I've been like that for the last week (I'm late by 8 days but finally made an appearance today) but before then, I was still having AF/pregnancy related symptoms.

I started spotting 2 days ago and now I'm bleeding but the pain is too much. Never been like this before so I feel you x

Yep first AF for me, quite crampy and feel sick. Only 9dpo so wasn't expecting it yet, came as a bit of a shock!

Awwh sorry @BS9790 and @mlax that AF arrived :( take it easy today! It's always so rubbish when she turns up :(

@MilsCookie I got my bfp at 12dpo last time and I know i will feel i am out if I dont get positive tomorrow haha

@MilsCookie who actually ended up with a bfp from our other thread? Because of a couple of chemical pregnancys I feel like out of everyone it was only like one poster 😬

Surly the odds are for more then that by the end of the month!

I'm feeling very negative about our Saturday testing (resisted the urge to call it a pee party for obvious reasons).

But I've brought my first ever first response, never done one before so might as well then if I go on to February I'll go cold turkey on the tests and back to the old fashioned conceiving life .

Also I've now watched so much coach trip this week that when I was out all day today everytime I saw anyone I thought they were from it 😆

Thanks @mlax and sorry that AF arrived for both you and @BS9790. It’s just so rubbish that we have to go through this.

@champooPapi I think you are right that so far it’s just one BFP from the original thread with a few of us still to get our results one way or another so FC there are some BFPs still to come!

Just about to watch the Coach trip I’ve missed. Love the thought of walking down the street and seeing Brendon or Mr Motivator!

@ChampooPapi you'd have thought more than 1 of us especially as there are so many of us who have had to go through what weve gone through 😔

Hopefully February is our months 🤞

Not gunna lie, I didn't give it my best shot at all this month, but this time round I am. I'm looking forward to it weirdly...

@ELM7 Mr motivator is quite something isn't he 😆

@mlax January has been a very very long month for ttc and a very unlucky month for pregnancies generally. Especially as there are a fair few just a month or two post miscarriage, the body does need time to regulate which is very normal.

Bloody pain in the arse though!

I think it was just didslysquiddlydoo and Cruser1 from our thread so far with bfp 🏳️‍🌈👣

And there's probably like one other person who popped up one day and then posted a bfp the next, there's always one of those 🙄😅

Hahaha @champoopapi always one of them 🤪🤪🤪

Or never seen them before on a longstanding thread and the first message is "just wanted to let you know here is my bfp just wanted to Give you hope " 🤣

Becster had her bfp too :) she made a pregnancy thread but I couldn't find it

@Anny27 absolutely, no thread is complete on the conception boards without one of those 🙄