TTC after miscarriage - February 2020

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Hi to anyone reading 👋🏻

This is a thread for anyone TTC / testing in February, after a miscarriage.

I’ll start off with intros! I’m 37 and my first pregnancy ended in miscarriage at 5 1/2 weeks in December. I TTC straight afterwards, but AF found me, so here I still am on this crazy, frustrating, rollercoaster of a journey!

I joined the January thread after my miscarriage and it’s been amazing to go there and chat to other women who know how you feel.

So for anyone joining this, I’m so so sorry you find yourself here, but you’re in good company ❤️

@Moominmiss Congratulations!! I'll be due 28th October... still doesn't feel real to me so also still lurking! I feel very positive though. My gut is telling me it's going to be all ok 🙏🏼 I need to not let worry consume me xx

Here is the thread for BFPs. It's a bit quiet, but hopefully now more of us have a bfp it'll pick up a bit.

@FireflyGirl thanks for the link. I’ve head over 😬

Hi all, just a quick question. How do you work out your weeks following a miscarriage? Just my last AF would January if not counting the miscarriage bleed?

Thinking of you today @StephyRose!

@savethewales do you know ovulation date? Otherwise it will date from last AF e.g miscarriage

AF arrived for me today 😭
Don't understand what I'm doing wrong 😢

Sorry @Nuggetlover27 :( it's hard when each new period comes! We are over on the march thread if you wanted to join xx

@moominmiss do I see an update???? 😱

Thanks @Annny27 it's so devastating 😢 what's the link to that thread? xx

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/3828966-TTC-after-miscarriage-March-2020

Here you go :)

I think I've had my first bfp after my February miscarriage. I am 8 dpo, and due for my period in 6 days. They're very faint lines and trying to not get too excited.

Hello Everyone, I am really sorry for everyone loss . I am lying down ,reading comments just to satisfy myself. I have 5 years old daughter . I have miscarriage 3 years ago . Since then no luck . We did all the test ,even private . All comes normal . We had no problem with the first pregnancy.After two years of gap ,I fall pregnant but miscarriage after 7 weeks and since then just waiting for the luck .The time is real killer .I even buying ovulation test from the past one year but still no luck . I am still hopeful for miracle, Doctor suggested IVF ,I said if everything is normal then why IVF ? I am 50 kg and hubby is 77 kg. Our weight seem fine . I am still hopeful. I pray everyone who is struggling have a healthy baby ,amen .

Hi everyone 🤗 sorry about your losses 😓😭

Mu name is Andzelika im 25 years old . I have lost my baby at 6 weeks i had a natural miscarriage , very upsetting and the worse experience ever as me and my partner really want a baby :(

I did pregnancy test on 27/02/202 thats when i found out im 2-3 weeks pregnant few days after i had a bit of spotting i went hospital they have told me i have miscarried with out doing any test etc i was devastated :( ... and the way they went on about it like they didn’t care very heartless was horrible experience. they referred me to early pregnancy unit i had to be there every week although since then i was very stressed every day .. when i was about 6 weeks they seen the heart beat but wasn’t very strong a week after had to go back to see if the heart beat is there unfortunately there was no heart beat 😭 was the worse news ever,i have spent 2 weeks in bed just crying and sleeping couldn’t get my self up. Im feeling a little bit better as in i get on with the day but theres no day i dnt think about it and cry for a bit. All this process of miscarriage finished about 2 weeks ago and i have already got my period yesterday which i think its a bit quick but hopefully a good sign.. had anyone experienced similar?

I really want a baby with my partner, doctors advised to wait 3 months so i have my 3 periods and then start trying... im really scared i dont know what i will do if it happens again although im trying to stay positive 😭...

Have any of you had similar story and got pregnant after and had a healthy pregnancy or know anyone who had ?

I think hearing from someone or knowing someone who experienced similar and then had a healthy pregnancy would give me more hope ..

I hope all of you are keeping well 🤗
Thanks guys, looking forward to some chats x