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TTC after miscarriage - February 2020

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TerribleImagination · 16/01/2020 09:35

Hi to anyone reading 👋🏻

This is a thread for anyone TTC / testing in February, after a miscarriage.

I’ll start off with intros! I’m 37 and my first pregnancy ended in miscarriage at 5 1/2 weeks in December. I TTC straight afterwards, but AF found me, so here I still am on this crazy, frustrating, rollercoaster of a journey!

I joined the January thread after my miscarriage and it’s been amazing to go there and chat to other women who know how you feel.

So for anyone joining this, I’m so so sorry you find yourself here, but you’re in good company ❤️

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Whiffle77 · 29/02/2020 14:32

Really sorry to hear you are having a tough time @StephyRose we will all keep our fingers crossed for you. Try and take it as easy as possible and be kind to yourself.

FireflyGirl · 29/02/2020 16:09

Hugs @StephyRose. We've got everything crossed for you, I'm so sorry you're having these worries.

Have you spoken to GP/anyone about if there is anything wrong, or you've just been unlucky. I think it's something that crosses all of our minds Flowers

Leok83 · 29/02/2020 18:36

@StephyRose you poor thing having to go through this. I really hope for you that’s it’s not bad news. Can only imagine how ur feeling right now. Hugs.xx

Anny27 · 29/02/2020 19:29

@StephyRose all my thoughts are with you. Please update us after your appointment and I'll be putting positive vibes out for you!

You definitleu are not draining on anybody especially not your DH 💗

ChampooPapi · 29/02/2020 19:39

@StephyRose thinking of you, please remember we are all here for you whatever is happening. One day at a time lovely 💜

Whiffle77 · 01/03/2020 08:25

How are you today @StephyRose ?

AlviesMam · 01/03/2020 08:53

@StephyRose hope your ok. This is the place to vent and talk you not draining anyone. We are here for you. Xxxx

Ibaadsmummy · 01/03/2020 11:42

Quick update ladies had scan I am about 4 weeks 3 days and they saw the tiny sac. Thank you for all ur support will take one day at a time from today and see how its goes. Best of luck to everyone xxxxx

BS9790 · 01/03/2020 12:54

Had my scan this morning, saw a sac and a yolk. Said I'm measuring around 5.5 (impossible as first day of last AF was 5.4 and I have a 31 day cycle) but its not very accurate at this stage for dating (clearly...)

Got to go back for another scan a week tomorrow to see if its progressing and hope that they can see a bit more x

Moominmiss · 01/03/2020 15:08

@Lbaadsmummy and @BS9790 congratulations! Keeping everything crossed for you both that things progress perfectly!

Whiffle77 · 01/03/2020 17:03

Great news @Ibaadsmummy and @BS9790 you must be really pleased!

Ibaadsmummy · 01/03/2020 19:14

Thank you sooo much xxx

Anny27 · 02/03/2020 09:40

Congrats @Ibaadsmummy and @bs9790 :D

Thinking of you today @StephyRose 💗💗

SweetpeaOrMarigold · 02/03/2020 15:55

I'm sorry @StephyRose Sad, agreed it doesn't sound good. Thinking of you xx

I'm out. AF arrived yesterday. Gutted.

Anny27 · 02/03/2020 16:05

@SweetpeaorMarigold sorry :( my AF is on the way (started spotting today) after I had a faint positive so either a dodgy test or a chemical. Also gutted 😪

SweetpeaOrMarigold · 02/03/2020 16:11

Its not fair @Anny27. We don't want much.

Whiffle77 · 02/03/2020 18:37

I'm out too. First AF since MC. Super painful already, great! Sorry you are here too @Anny27 and @SweetpeaOrMarigold

SweetpeaOrMarigold · 02/03/2020 21:52

@Whiffle77 Flowers

Anny27 · 02/03/2020 22:13

Let's hope March is our month 💗💗 @sweetpeaormarigold @whiffle77

Snowflake2020 · 03/03/2020 11:20

Hello all, I’ve miscarried twice, the first one was in end of 2018 and the second was 7 months ago :( so I got pregnant quite quickly but unfortunately lost them both around the same time which is about 8 and half weeks, feels awful, I’m so sorry for all your losses.
I’m 42 and TTC naturally I know I’m crazy to think I can do this naturally! But I’m so scared to take the IVF route :(, Too many meds, just changed doctors I’ve been asked to take 5mg of folic acid, I did take this dose before but had bad side effects, any one experience this ? My previous doctor said not to take 5mg after doing some blood test, he says excessive Folic acid causes autism in children, any thoughts on this ?

SunnySideUp2020 · 03/03/2020 13:14

Just checked updates here (it’s Michette i changed my name)

@BS9790 @Ibaadsmummy congrats ladies and i hope it’s smooth sailing from now X

@AlviesMam congrats on the strong positive( i missed it!) do you know how far along you are?

@StephyRose hope you are feeling ok x

AlviesMam · 03/03/2020 14:38

Hey everyone hey again @SunnySideUp2020 🥰

Soooo had my blood work back and they have came back positive and high. She said my levels were at 1800... I really don't understand this hcg business can someone explain lol according to my last period I am 6 weeks today but I didn't get my BFP until 9 days late which makes me think I could be a week behind. Can I work it out based on my hcg results of 1800?

TIA! X

Moominmiss · 03/03/2020 17:40

@AlviesMam I found this online. Going by your levels it could put you at 5 or 6 weeks which sounds about right!

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AlviesMam · 03/03/2020 18:06

@Moominmiss thank you!

Have we got another thread for BFP I feel awful asking advice on my news when some of you are TTC ? Don't want to be annoying but probably have more questions along the way as I'm so nervous xxx

Moominmiss · 03/03/2020 18:29

@AlviesMam I’m not sure if there’s a new BFP thread. I got my bfp over the weekend but can’t bring myself to to believe it’s going to be ok, so I’m still lurking on this thread and the March thread.
I did head over the pregnancy forum and there’s a thread for November 2020 due dates (which is where I’d be) but I don’t feel I fit in yet 😕
When would you be due? As there’s also an October due dates thread