End of November, jump on board pt 3!

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All ready for when we reach 1000 on the other thread!!

@FutureMrsSmith that's crazy! The body is pretty amazing...
Stay strong! I totally agree with not testing early for the same reason I want a real BFN if that's what it is to be.

@ciaraj01 scared me after the other great night I had 😂 6dpo we did it 🤦‍♀️😬 like we don't have to worry about enough 😩

I know!! totally unfair 😣😣

FRER ordered will be here tomorrow probably be a BFN. Pack of 2 so if it's a BFN tomorrow I'm waiting for AF.

Oh dear lord. Straight after fertile period I'm sticking this over my nana. 😂

@nt1992 Ahhhh the anticipation. 🤞🏽🤞🏽🤞🏽🤞🏽 everything crossed for you, we need to end this year well!!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 God of you hear me, please let us all get BFP's!!

@mellymoo86 @nt1992 yes!! Plz! atleast ONE bfp this month before ending the year.

@CiaraJ01 exactly!!! How strange and distressing. My DH is never going to believe this. Will definitely get mad at Google. Lol!

A friend of mine who recently got a BFP advised me not to dtd on the ovulation day. Rather try a day before. Should i believe her?
She says she got pregnant when she dtd a day before she o'ed and says she didn't do the deed during implantation. I wonder how she managed without dtd

@mellymoo86 @PrettyGirl5545 fingers crossed girls! I'm nervous!

😂😂 @mellymoo86 I was thinking ooh look at your little profile pic as a padlock 😂😂🙈 Baby brain?!

@prettygirl5545 exactly! My OH will think it's all a big conspiracy to save his men 😂😂

@CiaraJ01 😂😂😂 Thats not baby brain, that's called go to spec savers lol.

@FutureMrsSmith I would agree with her. By ovulation you might have already missed your chance so it's best to have those little swimmers up there and ready to pounce on the egg. I tend to ovulate day 15-16 so I dtd day 13 and 14 and sometimes 15 mainly.

I second the 'before OV'

@mellymoo86 my excuse is much better 😂

Very big long shot. Is anyone here a tech whiz?? Or have a big strong man that is a little more IT savvy compared to us mere women folk?! I'm looking for a laptop for my OH and I have not used one from my college days 😂

@Blondeandbroody - oh no, nothing worse is there! :(. im not actually sure, went to walk out of it and it sort of 'flung' back and got me on the back of my hand, it hurt SO much haha.

noo, nothing makes me think i know you! just cropped into my head! be so odd wouldnt it.

i have a clear blue fr at home, keep looking at it but i am so determined to wait until next week!!!

Hi ladies

Just checking in. I've had a crazy couple of weeks. My little one had an operation (very minor procedure and he's absolutely fine), I've been away with work, and just generally busy with getting ready for my sons birthday and Christmas.

So sorry for those of you who have had a rubbish time the last couple of weeks.

I'm 2 dpo. We only managed DTD once on the day of O and we may have missed it so I'm not holding out much hope. I didn't get my usual O cramps so I couldn't tell when I actually did. We DTD within 24hrs of my peak OPK so technically still within the window. I'm hoping it will chill me out seeing as I've got my sons birthday party at the weekend and loads on at work before I break off next Wednesday. The last 2WW DRAGGED so I'm hoping it will fly by this time.

Despite the minimal chance of it working this month I can't help but get excited at the thought of writing a tag on one of my mums presents from baby no2

Hi ladies, I had a week or so off here and just been reading through everything to catch up! Had a chat with DH and we decided that being as obsessive as we were wasnt goodnfor either of us. So this month I am not using opks. We are just going to DTD when we want to. I'm enjoying the more laid back attitude, but at the same time I'm thinking this is not going to get me a BFP!!!

@mrsC89 and @mrsio welcome back! Sometimes you need a break from all the planning. It stresses you out and then is counter productive. Me and my OH had the same chat last month and it's made such a difference...Fingers crossed for you @Mrsio that sounds like you've ticked the boxes anyway!

I'm still in two minds about having a drink during the ovulation stage. I've read a billion articles and what confuses me is that how has studies shown that it has affected IVF success drastically and not conceiving normally? Surely the same is happening inside your body no?

Ovulation or 2WW @mellymoo86?

@CiaraJ01 Ovulation period (fertile week)

I keep taking these silly little strip tests, I keep telling myself I can see lines when it's drying but once it's completely dry I'm struggling to see anything. I'm going crazy all over again😂

@CiaraJ01 basically what i read is that drinking at any stage during IVF including right at the start affects your ability to get pregnant and increases the chances of early miscarriage. My understanding is that during ovulation nothing is actually happening in your body but during the 2ww there could potentially be. There are a lack of studies done on women within 2-4 weeks pregnant and I think because of that they don't actually tell you accurately when and how much to have. 🤷🏽‍♀️

@nt1992 I can imagine you're going nuts. Hopefully the FRER will be more reliable tomorrow.

My white hairs are starting to show!! If I conceive this month I won't be able to dye it 😩😩😩 I'll need to buy those colour sprays.