Anybody 3DPO..?

[Lolastanley]

Anybody 3DPO that wants to ride the TWW together?

Those outfits are super cute! I'd love one of the cutting machines.

For tests, my first got darker but not on the third day. Think they say like 48-72 hours for HCG to double so wouldnt worry too much

Yes I read somewhere it says it doubles every 48 hours. Please try not to worry (I know, easier said than done).

Thanks both! Still feeling very surreal. I made the t shirt during dd lunch nap so hoping to tell the hubby later. I feel like it might be a let down as I've had two false hopes before and not sure he will believe it now!

Aww I understand why you are worried but I'm sure it will all be fine. What does the teeshirt look like? When are you planning on doing telling him?

It's darker this morning so I'm much happier! Going to book a private scan later as id rather find out bad news there than at thre EPU, feels like it's going to be a long 2 weeks!
Told him yesterday, he guessed something was up as I was acting strange apparently but little one decided she didn't want to walk to him then had a paddy so took him a while to actually see the t shirt. He was happy though :) still feels crazy!
Btw I found ovia and the bump apps good for pregnancy last time, I like seeing what changes week by week!

She's absolutely gorgeous @Sammyclaire22

@Sammyclaire22 she's gorgeous and the teeshirt looks amazing! Have you told her she is to be a big sister? So glad your line is darker this morning. I'm using the app what to expect, will try the ovia one.
@Quiffy glad to hear your blood works are improving. Is it due to morning sickness? Good luck with the midwife appointment this afternoon

@Lilice my GP got me to have bloods as I've been so sick, I think he thought I was being over anxious and that it would reassure me. He then called me saying I needed urgent bloods again as I showed an enlarged liver, he wouldn't comment why it would be enlarged but Dr Google led me to a few scary things (like babies growing in livers!). Thankfully it seems better so not that. At least he's taking my "I feel like a massive pile of poop" very seriously now haha.

One of the things that came up was Pregnacare max conception where the high iron can cause liver problems and increase sickness in some. So, I've switched to just folic and vit d since last weekend. I have been feeling better this week so might have had something to do with it. Who knows!

Ahh thanks guys! I've told her but she's only 18m so wouldn't understand what it means. Saw the gp today who is referring me for early scans and got my midwife appt in 3 weeks (but think she will put it back if I've been referred already- too early to check much)

I liked bump as it has a 3d image of th4 baby you can zoom around. I will try what to expect as I think we used their book last time!

Sorry to hear you've been so sick @quiffy... hopefully it's the tablets so you get it sorted quickly.

Are any of you on Facebook? Was wondering if you fancied making a private group?

Definitely felt a lot better over last two days for sure

Glad you feel better @quiffy, it doesn't sound fun at all poor you.
@Sammyclaire22 that's great you'll be see quickly, things are going forward. I think what to expect is all right but I hate the forums lol American people have such a different system to ours.
Yes I'm on Facebook too, I like the idea of a private group

That's good to hear @quiffy, it's hard enough with the tiredness without feeling rubbish on top.
@lilice I know what you mean about American stuff.. a lot of their advice can be different too!

I will dm you with a link to the fb group. I've never been an admin of one so if it doesn't work let me know! I've made it private and hidden x

Hey guys, how are you all? Sorry I’ve been MIA sickness really has taken over and I have zero energy to function! That’s a nice little idea @Sammyclaire22 except I don’t have a Facebook account so I’ll have to bail on that.

Hi @lolastanley1 my bfp turned into a chemical had a few days of stressing it was another ectopic but pretty sure it isn't now. Just waiting for AF to finish so we can start it all again.
Sorry to hear you are feeling so rough, hopefully it will pass soon! Xx

Hey everyone, hope you're all doing ok and sorry to hear about your chemical @sammyclaire88

I had an ectopic confirmed on the 21st Feb, luckily (I suppose!) caught early so treated with methotrexate which means that we can't try again now until the end of May. Absolutely heartbroken but glad that it was discovered early.

Good luck to everyone with your BFPs! X

So sorry to hear that @whambam89 I've been thinking of you x

@whambam89 I'm so sorry, positives in the early but absolutely heartbreaking for you both.

@sammyclaire22 how are you feeling?

@LolaStanley1 hope your sickness isnt too bad

@sammyclaire22 just realised I got your tag completely wrong 🤦 I think I've come to terms with it now and on the plus side it's now unlikely we will have to get a double pram and DD1 will have her free nursery hours before DC2 comes along. Trying to think of the positives!

How are you feeling after your chemical?

@whambam89 don't worry! I didn't even notice.
I'm ok, had a tough week as we've all had a bad cold, I've got an infection in my wisdom tooth and my husband has been working away so not had much sleep! But dd being ill has meant I havent really had time to dwell and had lots of cuddles.
Im gutted, but its been easier to deal with than my ectopic. When I didn't bleed for a couple of days I worried as I struggled to get anyone to agree to scan before 6w which was too late 1st time so when Af came it was a relief.
Looking to positives too... at least I won't upstage my mum's wedding now!

Is the sickness still better since stopping pregnacare @quiffy?
@lilice how's this week gone?

@whambam89 I'm so sorry, what a tough journey. I hope you're ok and recovering well. It's good to see you can see the positive sides of it. Double buggies do suck.

@Sammyclaire22 I hope you're ok, and that you will get a chance to rest and relax when your man comes back from work. The week's gone so quickly. I had the harmony test on Wednesday and now every time the phone rings my heart stops. Hopefully I'll get the results very soon.

@lilice good luck with the test, did they say when you might hear?

Did anyone sign up for femometer prime? They have an offer on today and I'm tempted.

@Sammyclaire22 they said 7 to 10 days so should be next week really

Did you get your results @lilice? X

Yes I got them yesterday, all normal. Big relief. How are you @sammyclaire22? Is your wisdom tooth ok now?

@Sammyclaire22 how you doing? I used the femometer paid, it was okay but was starting to freak me out as it was telling me I had luteal phase deficiency and on the month I got BFP it was really concerned over my temps.

@lilice that's brilliant on the results!