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Anyone in the TWW???

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RoRosmama · 15/06/2019 14:16

Hi everyone,

So as the title says is there anyone in the TWW?
DH and I said we would try for number 2 after summer but whoops we've had a couple of slips. I looked at my ovulation app (which has never failed me before to get pregnant) and both times it was in my fertile days.

So here's the confusion.. I apparently was in my fertile days from 8th-13th June.
13th June being the day of ovulation. We DTD 8th June and 11th June. The last couple of days I have had very bad cramps low down. This can't be implantation yet so was it ovulation pains? My CM was snot like some of it thick but also some of it was slippery too sorry TMI!! am so confused, feeling I've missed the boat.
This TWW is stressful. I've never temped or taken OPK's as it's always been quite easy for me to fall pregnant (I've had a lot of miscarriages Sad)
We are lucky enough to have a DD though.
DH is actually quite excited that we could be pregnant but I just don't know and feeling quite impatient!

Love to hear from you guys and your stories too!

Liv x

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RoRosmama · 29/06/2019 00:17

Hey, how's everyone doing?
@Treaclepie19 so pleased you had a good time and few drinks!! You deserve it 😬
@MrsHufflepuffMS fingers crossed for tomorrow.
@Abi58 Did you manage to get an appointment? Mine didn't go great, because I have had one successful pregnancy they won't do an early scan 🙄 basically need to get on with it and stop worrying. Easier said than done eh!?!

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Abi58 · 29/06/2019 00:25

@Treaclepie19 glad you had a good time 😁

@MrsHufflepuffMS 🤞🏻 good luck let us know how you get on!

@RoRosmama yes I did 😁 ...they wouldn't do anything? I asked for bloods and dr said they don't offer that, didn't realise quite how worried I was as I've only spoken on here so talking out loud about it was more real and I got a 'bit' emotional but then he looked and said he would do it 🤷🏻‍♀️ had 1st blood test at lunch today and got 2nd Monday morning 🤞🏻 it shows an increase.

Will you go private? You can pay to get bloods and early scan? I think k I want to get an early scan but it's something to talk about with my husband when I finally tell him 🙈

Treaclepie19 · 29/06/2019 06:59

Oh my days. So I test, walked out the room in a huff. Came back and saw a very faint (but there) line.
Now I'm not so sure 🙄 I think I've gone crazy. Also, if I'm pregnant I should not have drank that much yesterday 😮😳

Treaclepie19 · 29/06/2019 07:01

I've sharpened it but I know you can't see it still.

Anyone in the TWW???
MrsHufflepuffMS · 29/06/2019 09:09

@Treaclepie19 I think I can see a shadow ?

People do all sorts though their pregancy. If you are, I think you'll be ok.

I've just thrown my test in a huff. Still nothing showing. I thought I might have seen something yesterday but hormones double each day so I should see something now...

Treaclepie19 · 29/06/2019 09:12

@MrsHufflepuffMS ugh its so frustrating.
I'm still just waiting for AF. They must be dodgy tests or something.
I can't stop myself testing though.

MrsHufflepuffMS · 29/06/2019 09:14

@Treaclepie19 me neither. It's so frustrating.

Treaclepie19 · 29/06/2019 09:35

You know I think it's an indent line. Ah well. I need to stop. Its going in the bin.

Kiza · 29/06/2019 11:37

@Treaclepie19 @MrsHufflepuffMS with you both, I've not tested since Wednesday night as worked late and then had my mum over last night so luckily have been occupied. Still getting that very faint brown spotting but no symptoms of pregnancy or AF- grrrrr just want to know!!
Are you both going to wait to test again tomorrow or leave it till AF? I have a feeling I may be tempted before Tuesday but only have 2 tests left so don't want to waste any 😫
@Abi58 that's great news that your Dr tested you for bloods and the results were good- when do you think you're going to tell hubby?

@RoRosmama sorry to hear you didn't get the tests/scans you wanted, on the flip side it's a positive sign though that they don't feel the need to. Hopefully you can relax and start to enjoy it ☺️

MrsHufflepuffMS · 29/06/2019 11:40

I think AF has just arrived. Its light but it's there .

Treaclepie19 · 29/06/2019 12:34

@MrsHufflepuffMS I'm sorry :( That's just cruel. I'm sure I won't be far behind you.

@Kiza I'm not sure. I'll probably test tomorrow and then maybe not bother again.

LA89 · 29/06/2019 13:45

Hi all,

Just an update that it was definitely AF for me. I've had a day or two to be sad but have pulled myself together now. Had to give my head a shake as it was cycle one and I'd only taken my pill for 2 weeks the month before so think my cycle was a bit whacky anyway.

I've out my big girl pants on and going to try and be less obsessive next month and try and just enjoy it and see what happens. Going to try the SMEP I think and the OH is excited about all the sex 😂.

Sorry for all of you that didn't get the results you were hoping for. For those that did I'm wishing you allllll the luck in the world and hope to hear more good news soon!

MrsHufflepuffMS · 29/06/2019 14:57

@LA89 It was cycle one for me too so I understand. You sound positive now though :)
I'm half way there, pretty bummed, but have a practical out look. I'm going to know a bit more what to expect next born and I have a lot less stress going on. Like you say it's a good excuse to have lots of sex :)
Good luck everyone! Thanks for all your support xXx

LA89 · 29/06/2019 15:25

@MrsHufflepuffMS

We should totally be cycle 2 buddies then!

I think it's hard not to obsess particularly month 1 but we have to remember that our bodies have had no time to even settle into a normal cycle.

We just have to remember there's no reason at all to think there's any problem and to enjoy the excitement of deciding to try.

Fingers crossed for both of us next month and let's definitely keep in touch! X

RoRosmama · 29/06/2019 18:04

@MrsHufflepuffMS @LA89 loving your positivity 😊 as you both say it's only cycle 1!!
You get to have lots of fun trying now 😬😬😬.
@Kiza good luck hun and let us know how you get on.
@Treaclepie19 hang in there lovely!
@Abi58 so pleased you had good blood results. Let me know how Monday goes hun. I don't think I'll go private. TBH I'm feeling more relaxed and I can't stop bad things happening, if it happens it happens but all I know is I feel utterly crap constantly so I'm sure that's a good sign. I'm grumpy, exhausted and bloated oh and Uber hungry 🙄😂
Have you told hubby yet? How are you feeling about it? X

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Abi58 · 29/06/2019 18:56

@Treaclepie19 I feel like I can see a shadow! 🤞🏻 for you!

@kiza @RoRosmama
I dont have the results yet I should be able to get the 1st result Monday/tues and then Mondays result to check rising on weds id guess 😁

@RoRosmama yeah I'm thinking the same💕 oh I'm so bloated as well I look about 6 months!! 😩
Not yet 🙈 we've been out all day I was debating whether to wait til tomorrow but I've decided I'm going to do it tonight 😁 got him a thermal colour changing mug so I'll get him to make us a tea and him use that later 😁🙈🤞🏻

@MrsHufflepuffMS sorry to hear about af 💕 make sure like you look after yourself

@LA89 sorry to hear about af💕 lookafter yourself. Smep is meant to be good 😁🤞🏻

Treaclepie19 · 29/06/2019 20:10

Thanks ladies ❤
I just want to know now either way.

Sorry to hear it was AF @LA89
Good luck with the July group :)

Kiza · 29/06/2019 23:16

@Abi58 that's a cool way to reveal the news!
@MrsHufflepuffMS @LA89 sorry to hear AF has arrived for you both, I think I may be with you both too... spotting has now turned to a bit more but not full on AF.... think it'll be full blown by tomorrow. Had a little cry and hopefully feel better tomorrow.

@RoRosmama that's a really good outlook to have, difficult to manage at times but great if you can keep on going back to that way of thinking.

Treaclepie19 · 30/06/2019 06:37

I'm out ladies. Af has come. Cruel since I can still see something on these tests. Maybe they're not so reliable anymore.
Good luck to those of you still to test Flowers

Kiza · 30/06/2019 17:11

@Treaclepie19 sorry to hear that, I'm out too. AF made a full appearance when I woke this morning 😞 going to take a couple of months off from trying as the last 10 months have been making my partner and I feel quite down

Treaclepie19 · 30/06/2019 19:47

@Kiza I'm sorry :(
I hope your bfp comes sooner than you expect.

RoRosmama · 30/06/2019 20:48

@Treaclepie19 @kiza I'm so so sorry guys. Sending massive hugs and lots of love. Xx

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Abi58 · 30/06/2019 21:03

@Kiza thank you he loved it 😁
Sorry to hear about af arriving 😩💕Make sure you look after yourself and each other 💕

@Treaclepie19 sorry to hear af has arrived 😩💕

@RoRosmama how are you feeling?

Treaclepie19 · 30/06/2019 21:30

Thank you ladies Flowers

This period is seriously harsh 😭😴

Wishing you both all the best :)

RoRosmama · 30/06/2019 22:03

@Abi58 Aaaahhhhhhh you told him! How did it go? Is he over the moon?
I am feeling OK quite moody 😂
We booked an early scan today privately. 20th July. I should be around 7 weeks and 5 days by then. I just need reassurance. I remember having an early scan with DD and I remember how much better it made me feel. That scan was through the NHS though as I had 4 miscarriages before her.

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