TTC FIRST BABY - Thread 14!

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As our previous thread is full to the brim, let's get going with thread 14. Good luck everybody!

cupcakesandglitter 23 Cycle 8
Jessikka 28 Cycle 1
starkid 29 Cycle 6
MrsAW2018 24 Cycle 9
TTC34 34 Cycle 1
ttc12019 29 Cycle 1
19Bee2 27 Cycle 2
Ember25 34 Cycle 4
BlueArtemis 24 Cycle 7
MrsH497 32 Cycle 4
Tinag18 36 Cycle 2
MrsR16 26 Cycle 8
Random2468 28 Cycle 2
Jessikka 28 Cycle 2
BostonFern 34 Cycle 2
Lola871 31 Cycle 2
ValidUser 28 Cycle 7
Lozzlepop 35 Cycle 2
DayDreamer1707 28 Cycle 5
Trashkitten10 27 Cycle 2
OhMarnie 28 Cycle 1
DuchessofPemberley 32 Cycle 7
KittieKath 34 Cycle 6
KatBeCool 40 Cycle 10
MrsMcNtobe Cycle 6
BabySquid 29 Cycle 10
PeacockingAbout 29 Cycle 3
Chanel05 29 Cycle 7
Sleepyquest 28 Cycle 1
Granddesigns 32 cycle 2
Pinkfizz19 33 cycle 2
Kennyholiday 32 cycle 10
Catlady31 31 cycle 1
LikeTheFruit 30 cycle 3
Jooloo11 32 Cycle 3
Daisiesandpeonies Cycle 9
MrsRLM Cycle 1
Lilana Cycle 1
LuckyPenguin 34 Cycle 2
LokiCat 28 Cycle 4
Lizzie198 30 Cycle 2
Rachel59pink 26 Cycle 1
Orangeloo 31 Cycle 2
Babytrain89 29 Cycle 5
Lemonysherbet 30 Cycle 1
Fuiseog 31 Cycle 2
NKB88 Cycle 2
Wildrabbit Cycle 2
Essjayycee Cycle 1
Hannah192 Cycle 2
JellyBaby666
LoMoon Cycle 6
Hiddenfigure Cycle 1
Jc88146 Cycle 18

TTC#1 Grads.....
https://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/pregnancy/3488730-catching-up-with-those-from-ttc-thread-2

Hello ladies, is it too late to join?

Congrats to the successes! And lots of luck to everyone else :)

I'm 33, ttc#1
Cycle 14 and losing hope.
9DPO currently
Negative test today

Thought this would be my month as we even went on hols for my peak days! And have had what I think are symptoms... and I guess I just 'had a feeling', you know? Anyone get that?

Expecting AF thurs 14th x

@MotherOfShihTzus - Have you been to the doctors at all yet? Sorry you're struggling :( xx

I hype myself into possibly being pregnant each cycle unfortunately!

Hey ladies. Hope you're all well! Have had a break from MN for a couple of weeks but I'm back now!

Congrats to all those who have got their BFPs since I've been away!

I'm currently on CD24 and 6dpo. Due AF on 18/03.

Going to hold off testing until the weekend- for the first time ever I'm not desperately wanting to test early which is weird! Not sure why!

I can't believe how fast the thread goes... I hope it's a lucky thread for us all!

Congratulations @Toka beautiful line.

So I suddenly realised that the 16th is my 10 anniversary of being a 👮🏻‍♀️ don't know where that time has gone!

Got awful heartburn today probably about 7/8 dpo i think.
Went looking at houses on Sunday which was a bit

Congratulations @Toka! Fingers crossed for you.

@Hannah192 I fink opks so hard too! I stopped using them in the end because I felt it was making me dehydrated and you're meant to stay hydrated to help ewcm. My cycles are regular so I'm pretty sure were timing it right anyway.

Hi @MotherOfShihTzus. I only just joined so hope it's not too late. Fingers crossed for you in the next few days.

Hi @MrsH487. My dh wants to start looking at houses. I've been talking about it for ages but now with ttc it feels like tempting fate, because we'd be looking specifically near good schools etc. Did you see any nice ones?

So AF came today, after I spent most of yesterday convinced I was pregnant. I had a really pressured work meeting and it showed up right before, so great timing too. I managed not to cry in the meeting though! I had such a good feeling this cycle as well, I was suddenly exhausted around 8 dpo, I was noticing smells more, felt like water tasted different ... it's amazing how I can convince myself of these things and then AF comes like clockwork. Onto cycle 8 now, and losing hope of it happening.

@starkid I have been yes; as soon as I hit 12 months. Bloods came back fine, I'm waiting for the fertility clinic to get in touch which takes at least 6 months apparently - wish I'd known that! My OH is getting sperm tested this week... I just know it's me though - it's always been a niggling feeling/ my biggest fear and sure enough, I seem to be right. Only used the digital OPKs last 2 months.

How's your cycle going? Best of luck!

@RosettaR

So sorry about AF - I feel you. It's soul destroying - but all we can do is try and gear up for the month - stay strong . Best of luck. We must have similar cycles as I'm on the lookout for AF this week - or more precisely- hoping to avoid x

@MotherOfShihTzus I know, on to the next cycle. I had 21 day bloods done this month as well so we'll see if that shows anything. That's all the doctor would do before 1 year.

Sooo ... AF decided to show this afternoon and I'm out this month :(
Was only on cycle 2 but going to have a 3month break now (timing not quite right for holidays and sisters wedding etc)
I'm going to use this next 3 months to lose some weight, get more active, and keep inputting data into clue app so gets more precise.
Good luck to all !! Xxx

@MotherOfShihTzus - shit really, another 6 months of waiting?! That's pants :( Sorry to hear it

Congratulations @Toka ! Hope you have a happy and healthy nine months.

@Hannah192 I know what you mean about OPKs- I teach so the lack of drinking and toilet breaks isn't too tricky most afternoons 😂 I do my OPKs when I get home from work normally.

Good luck @LikeTheFruit!

Hi @MotherOfShihTzus Sorry you're having a tough time.

Welcome back @MrsAW2018 👋🏻

@MrsH497 did you see anything you liked?

@RosettaR sorry she's shown up.
Sorry to hear that too @Soda123x

CD15 and 4dpo here-not symptom spotting yet, but not sure how long that will last! Once I get to 6dpo I know I'll start wondering if implantation could happen.

Please can I ask a question that is too TMI even for a place that is TMI safe 😂

For you ladies who have a handle on their AFs and use pads so physically see their AF...

Have you ever noticed you produce EWCM looking mucus whilst bleeding?🙈😳
I know it's NOT fertile EWCM but it's the best way to describe what i saw last night.

The internet says it's from oestrogen which is fine but the reason I'm asking is that I'm still adjusting from bc pills and I've not seen it before.... and I'm hoping and praying that I'm starting to become "normal" for me and this may be the month I go on to make fertile EWCM 🤞 as my logic says maybe if I'm able to produce it now... i may be able too in a few days. (Short cycle)

Thanks!

@MotherOfShihTzus welcome to the thread, sorry about your neg but 9DPO is still super early to test at. Hold out a few days and you never know. I know what you mean about always having a niggling feeling about it though as I've always had the same. I'm currently on cycle 11. I've always said to my husband "if we couldn't have kids" and I think it's coz deep down that's how I feel.

Massive congratulations @Toka what cycle are you on? Has anyone taken on responsibility on updating the stats? If not I may as well, feel like I'll be on this tread forever!

@RosettaR and @Soda123x sorry the bitch showed up for you.

I've been off today with a migraine, finally got my sight back a couple hours ago, I've been taking my temps for a couple of days now and from when I stopped in November they're really low for this time of month. I'm on cd14 due to ov Sunday and my temp this morning was only 35.92! It used to be around 36.3/4 at this point. Not sure if it's the soy iso's, the pregnacare conception vits or just me!!

Thank you @BostonFern @RosettaR @BabySquid! X

I am/was second cycle officially trying (the cp in January was a wee bit unexpected) and am 30. Good luck to everyone still in this month 💕

We did a lovely new build but when we've looked at the mortgage monthly payments it's not doable 😔

@RosettaR they are! I’ve said to the OH that I may give them up after this month so at least we have a good idea on ovulation date. That’s what I thought. It can’t be very good for you! That’s good that you have the timing about right.
@BostonFern 😂 helpful in some ways then! I’m based in an office and the drinks tend to keep flowing but managed to say no today 🙄 are you in your tww? Good luck!

@BabySquid thank you for offering to do the stats.

@Hannah192 @RosettaR if you are struggling with the OPK's and afternoon wee. Clear blue advanced digital OPK you can use FMU which takes away that problem. I know they are more pricey but from what I've heard ppl go through loads of the cheap internet ones so may even out a bit and u haven't got to keep doing the clear blues. Just a thought.

@Jessikka I can't say I've definitely had that exactly but I would say it is a good sign. FX you get some next cycle, if you don't maybe look into getting some pre seed.

Can I do a roll call... please update if needed.

cupcakesandglitter 23 Cycle 8
Jessikka 28 Cycle 2
starkid 29 Cycle 7
MrsAW2018 24 Cycle 9
TTC34 34 Cycle 3
19Bee2 27 Cycle 2
Ember25 34 Cycle 4
BlueArtemis 24 Cycle 7
MrsH497 32 Cycle 4
MrsR16 26 Cycle 8
Jessikka 28 Cycle 2
BostonFern 34 Cycle 3
Lola871 31 Cycle 2
ValidUser 28 Cycle 7
Lozzlepop 35 Cycle 2
DayDreamer1707 28 Cycle 5
Flapjackered 30 Cycle 9
DuchessofPemberley 32 Cycle 7
KittieKath 34 Cycle 6
KatBeCool 40 Cycle 10
MrsMcNtobe Cycle 6
BabySquid 29 Cycle 11
PeacockingAbout 29 Cycle 3
Sleepyquest 28 Cycle 2
Granddesigns 32 cycle 4
Pinkfizz19 33 cycle 2
Kennyholiday 32 cycle 10
Catlady31 31 cycle 1
LikeTheFruit 30 cycle 3
Jooloo11 32 Cycle 3
Daisiesandpeonies Cycle 10
MrsRLM Cycle 1
Lilana Cycle 1
LuckyPenguin 34 Cycle 3
Lizzie198 30 Cycle 2
Rachel59pink 26 Cycle 1
Orangeloo 31 Cycle 2
Babytrain89 29 Cycle 5
Lemonysherbet 30 Cycle 1
Fuiseog 31 Cycle 2
NKB88 Cycle 2
Wildrabbit Cycle 2
Essjayycee Cycle 1
Hannah192 Cycle 3
JellyBaby666
LoMoon Cycle 6
Hiddenfigure Cycle 1
Jc88146 Cycle 18
Kay98 Cycle 16
Lottiepink 29 Cycle 11
Bec18x Cycle 4
Soda123x 32 Cycle 2
Aimingfor2019 28 Cycle 3
Lifesforlivingandloving 32 Cycle 1
Dottydaily 24 Cycle 1
Toka Cycle 2

Thank you for the role call @BabySquid. Just checking in to say I got my BFP on a FRER on Saturday, confirmed on a CB digital yesterday. I'm completely gobsmacked! It's early days but the doctors have made my booking appointment for 4 weeks time!

@BabySquid

Am I able to join please?

Age 33, cycle 14

Thanks!

Congrats @dottydally !! Fantastic to see positive news :)

Thanks @BabySquid Updated mine

Congrats @dottydally & @Toka On ure BFP's

cupcakesandglitter 23 Cycle 8
Jessikka 28 Cycle 2
starkid 29 Cycle 7
MrsAW2018 24 Cycle 9
TTC34 34 Cycle 3
19Bee2 27 Cycle 2
Ember25 34 Cycle 4
BlueArtemis 24 Cycle 7
MrsH497 32 Cycle 4
MrsR16 26 Cycle 8
BostonFern 34 Cycle 3
Lola871 31 Cycle 2
ValidUser 28 Cycle 7
Lozzlepop 35 Cycle 2
DayDreamer1707 28 Cycle 5
Flapjackered 30 Cycle 9
DuchessofPemberley 32 Cycle 7
KittieKath 34 Cycle 6
KatBeCool 40 Cycle 10
MrsMcNtobe Cycle 6
BabySquid 29 Cycle 11
PeacockingAbout 29 Cycle 3
Sleepyquest 28 Cycle 2
Granddesigns 32 cycle 4
Pinkfizz19 33 cycle 2
Kennyholiday 32 cycle 10
Catlady31 31 cycle 1
LikeTheFruit 30 cycle 3
Jooloo11 32 Cycle 3
Daisiesandpeonies Cycle 10
MrsRLM Cycle 1
Lilana Cycle 1
LuckyPenguin 34 Cycle 3
Lizzie198 30 Cycle 2
Rachel59pink 26 Cycle 1
Orangeloo 31 Cycle 3
Babytrain89 29 Cycle 5
Lemonysherbet 30 Cycle 1
Fuiseog 31 Cycle 2
NKB88 Cycle 2
Wildrabbit Cycle 2
Essjayycee Cycle 1
Hannah192 Cycle 3
JellyBaby666
LoMoon Cycle 6
Hiddenfigure Cycle 1
Jc88146 Cycle 18
Kay98 Cycle 16
Lottiepink 29 Cycle 11
Bec18x Cycle 4
Soda123x 32 Cycle 2
Aimingfor2019 28 Cycle 3
Lifesforlivingandloving 32 Cycle 1

@BabySquid correct for me, thanks for taking over stats 😀

Updated my stats: thanks guys for the list!

cupcakesandglitter 23 Cycle 8
Jessikka 28 Cycle 3
starkid 29 Cycle 7
MrsAW2018 24 Cycle 9
TTC34 34 Cycle 3
19Bee2 27 Cycle 2
Ember25 34 Cycle 4
BlueArtemis 24 Cycle 7
MrsH497 32 Cycle 4
MrsR16 26 Cycle 8
BostonFern 34 Cycle 3
Lola871 31 Cycle 2
ValidUser 28 Cycle 7
Lozzlepop 35 Cycle 2
DayDreamer1707 28 Cycle 5
Flapjackered 30 Cycle 9
DuchessofPemberley 32 Cycle 7
KittieKath 34 Cycle 6
KatBeCool 40 Cycle 10
MrsMcNtobe Cycle 6
BabySquid 29 Cycle 11
PeacockingAbout 29 Cycle 3
Sleepyquest 28 Cycle 2
Granddesigns 32 cycle 4
Pinkfizz19 33 cycle 2
Kennyholiday 32 cycle 10
Catlady31 31 cycle 1
LikeTheFruit 30 cycle 3
Jooloo11 32 Cycle 3
Daisiesandpeonies Cycle 10
MrsRLM Cycle 1
Lilana Cycle 1
LuckyPenguin 34 Cycle 3
Lizzie198 30 Cycle 2
Rachel59pink 26 Cycle 1
Orangeloo 31 Cycle 3
Babytrain89 29 Cycle 5
Lemonysherbet 30 Cycle 1
Fuiseog 31 Cycle 2
NKB88 Cycle 2
Wildrabbit Cycle 2
Essjayycee Cycle 1
Hannah192 Cycle 3
JellyBaby666
LoMoon Cycle 6
Hiddenfigure Cycle 1
Jc88146 Cycle 18
Kay98 Cycle 16
Lottiepink 29 Cycle 11
Bec18x Cycle 4
Soda123x 32 Cycle 2
Aimingfor2019 28 Cycle 3
Lifesforlivingandloving 32 Cycle 1

@BabySquid thanks for doing the list! Unfortunately, my stats are spot on! 😂 in the dreaded TWW now - only 5dpo at the moment, so a long way to go!