The July 19ers - All aboard the rollercoaster for a 3rd lucky thread

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@Rather how many dpo are you now? It could still be too early to tell. I know you will get there x

@rather I think it is just about being okay with the monster being there

Crampy legs doesn't sound nice. I only got this when I was pregnant but I appreciate you get it every month so don't wanna get your hopes up.

I agree! Most people never have a car crash in their life yet you've had 2 in 3 months, plus a miscarriage, plus neighbours stealing your woods... you couldn't make it up!! Oh ffs, what a bummer Twittle. It really is one thing after another for you.

I've just sent a nice message to DH saying I'm considering it and he just sent me a shitty reply saying "k. If that's what you want." Well no, it's clearly not what I want but it's stressing me out putting pressure on him DTD over FW, then we'll do it perhaps once, twice if I'm really lucky, and him expecting me to just fall pg.

@rose 8dpo. I know it's too early to tell but my body is so predictable. They always, always start cramping on CD21. That's how I knew I was pg in October way before I got a BFP thank you. We will get there, but perhaps not quite yet.

@Frazzle sorry x post, not ignoring you! Re the monster, gotcha. Does your friend do Life Coaching via Skype etc or just in person. Would be really interesting to speak to him. He sounds like he could be really helpful.
I've heard people often get them whilst pg. I never ever did. It's just a really horrid AF sign for me

@rather I used get cramp legs at night, not sure if it hormonal, but I found magnesium spray really helped. A few squirts onto the skin after a shower each day. Might be worth looking into? I think the brand is 'better me'

Oh no wait, it's 'better you'. I knew it was better something ... 🤦‍♀️

@rather he is awesome and I would recommend him in a heartbeat. Yes he does do Skype coaching and very happy to do so.
I will PM you his deets x

God so I have a stomach upset today, and immediately (at maybe, 1dpo?) I'm like "that's it. There's no chance I can conceive this month, my body will reject it or it won't develop and I'll mc again" etc etc.

Ttc absolutely fucks w your head doesn't it?

ah that is crap Betty hope that it has passed quickly? If it helps reassure you, we all had Hand Foot & Mouth disease as well as a general bug over the TWW in which ended with this BFP. So think our bodies can be quite resilient (should take this advice myself...)

Hi all
Sorry everyone seems to be having a rubbish day 😢

I'm a bit excited as got a peak on CBFM at 10 this morning and DH is off today and in a good mood!!
Chart is all over the place tho due to lack of sleep and one v early morning then one big lie in after disturbed night. Gonna pounce as soon as I get gone in 1.5 hours!!

Started in my new office today - bagsied the best desk tucked away up the corner. I do feel a bit like Andy Peters in his Broom Cupboard but I kinda like it!! :) xx

@twittle my rational head completely agrees with you! And I had diarrhoea through most of my pg with DS (sorted out by a homeopath in the end) so I of all people should know how ridiculous that is!

Oh @betty if it's any consolation I was feeling a bit stomach ropey this morning at 2dpo. I hope you feel better!

@tigsy great news!! Jump that man's bones!
Lolz at Andy Peters - proper kids TV that was.

@tigsy - fantastic news - get on it!
Does Children's TV even exist anymore? It just seems to be youtube rather than Blue Peter, the Broomcupboard and wonky donky.

Not the proper CBBC and CITV that we probably all know. But there are a BILLION channels full of kids crap. My two mostly watch Youtube, which I will never understand!

I banned YouTube a few years ago, but now my boys aren’t interested in television, it’s all about the Xbox and iPad games. x

Just got back from the temple, its really beautiful. We lit joss sticks and wished for good fortune for us and our babies (and I wished for all of yours). We also read our fortunes for the year to come. I was worried they would be bad but they just told us both ways to improve our character (spookily accurate - my fortune said I was obstinate, DH's said he was indecisive, both of which are true!!). I do believe in the fortune thing because I took a friend who was visiting me there and she got her fortune and it was bad so she did it again and, no lie, the piece of paper she got second time round said "don't try and change things that can't be changed" or words to that effect!! It's not rigged in any way because you just shake some numbered sticks until one sticks up from the rest and that corresponds to the numbered drawer your fortune is in. Spooky!

I've never had therapy so don't have much useful to say there. I was hypnotised for a phobia though and DH also did it to help with relaxation. We both found it very effective.

Kin that looks so beautiful and thank you for wishing us all good fortune, very thoughtful.

@Kinsters that looks fabulous! And I got all choked up when you said you made a wish for all of our babies! What a lovely thing to do.

@kinsters - that's amazing. Thank you so much for wishing us all good fortune. I hope it comes true for you and each and every one of us xx

Aww Kinsters, that looks beautiful. Thank you so much for the wish, that's so kind. xxx

Ah bless you @Kinsters that's lovely!! Thank you xxx

So I pounded on DH an hour ago then pretended I was asleep after to allow the little swimmers time to swim up before getting up to have some tea.

Just did ICOPK and got Very dark line.... does that mean still not Ovd??

I'll post a pic of the last 3 (yesterday pm and 2 from today) (excuse grotty hair grip)

Pounded!!! I mean Pounced!!!!! 😂😂😂

@tigsyboo I think that means you will ov up to 24 hours later but don't quote me on that!

Pounded 😆 you win the internet today, @tigsy

I wish I was a deliberate comedy genius......