The July 19ers - STILL never beaten, and rocking our FJs for a lucky thread

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Here it is! Our lucky one 🤞

Ps sorry for the essay 😩 needed to vent.

Pps- @TwittleBee how are you feeling?

Oh ffs I don't think my essay even posted...... 😩

Oh Rather it didn't! You'll have to retype it all out! Eeek!

Oh and I'm doing good thanks, was sick when I woke up, temp has shot up and just got a 2-3 on a clear blue digi so placing me where I think I am at 4+3 weeks.

In a nutshell -

Think either the line on the test was an evap or chemical pg as I've had cramping for the past 24hrs & also had, sorry tmi, diarrhoea. Last time I was pg, I had very much the opposite 🙈

Currently on my way to London for literally back to back meetings with prospective clients - 4/5 of the meetings are with HUGE clients that it's taken me an age to get through to so should be excited to meet them but stupidly agreed to bring the lady I manage with me for them. She was hired when I was off with the mc - I trusted my manager to make the right choice on my behalf - & she's turned out to be an absolute nightmare. She's 15-20 years older than me, this is her 3rd/4th career (huge credit to that) yet has no relevant experience in our industry (fine) but resists all Training I try to give & I believe is struggling with being managed by someone a lot younger than her. She's a big personality, a very nice lady, but constantly speaks before thinking, interrupts, just really hard work. We've had a few video conferences which were a complete disaster - we looked really unprofessional because she just kept talking over the clients, interrupting, not following the conversation then butting in to ask questions that very clearly been answered.
I'm so, so anxious about this today 😫 wish me luck.

@TwittleBee 👏🏼👏🏼 yay, congrats!

Yay @TwittleBee !!

That's so good to hear Twittle.

ratherbe good luck with the meeting today! She sounds like hard work and I agree your age is probably something to do with it.

Oh no @ratherbeshowjumping
Just keep thinking on an ice cold G&T at the end of the day!! Good luck!

@@TwittleBee yey!!! You did it!! It's in writing so no more wondering!!! Huge congrats

Here's my chart.... there's been a Def temp soft but no real rise then?? Is that normal?? I'm sure the ones others posted had big continuous rises??

Got the dick head who tried to ruin my work life and who I threatened to sue in my office today from lunchtime. I 100% blame him for my MC because he is the reason I was on anti depressants and sleeping tablets and that my stress levels were off the scLe. It might be unfair but I truely believe he is the causal link. Last time he walked in he greeted me like I'd just come back from a holiday not a miscarriage.... and I burst into tears. Dreading today 😢

Ffs forgot to add it!!!

Thanks @tigsyboo - god you've got a hellish one as well, good luck to you too.
The G&Ts are waiting for us 🍸🍸😬

I think that looks great Tigsy. My pregnancy chart had really flat just above cover line temps before starting to climb on day 5.

He sounds like a charmer. Do you have to have much interaction with him? I'll never forget coming back from work after I'd been off because my MIL died and the woman who sits opposite asked me if I had a nice holiday! HR then called me and told me I shouldn't have taken the time off because at the time she wasn't actually my MIL, just my fiancé's mother. People can be so insensitive.

Oh Rather so shit that it's either evap or CP. Evaps are so rare on FRERs too aren't they? I've never actually seen one!

That woman sounds like total nightmare! Actually might be why she's had so many career changes!

No tigsy that looks like a perfect Ov chart! My weird temps shooting up were because I was ill I think, would explain why they dipped so dramatically too despite being pregnant. Your chart looks like all my previous charts! FX! So your 5dpo today?

Why are there people like that! I am so angry for you tigsy .

@Kinsters that's unbelievable! Was that in the UK or Malaysia?

@TwittleBee I think you may be right re the career changes.
They are so rare, but I guess it can happen with any test. I'm going to keep my fx'd cross & will tear again if AF doesn't show up. Just hate seeing the empty white space!

ratherbe Malaysia, I had to hang up the phone on her.

When is AF due?

I can imagine. I genuinely can't understand how anyone could deem that acceptable. Ovia is saying Monday but based on historic cycle length, should be Friday.
Basically, I don't have a clue 🤷🏽‍♀️

@TwittleBee yes 5 dpo
I'm just FX I can drag it out past a 26 day cycle this time tho!! (Ap is set for a 28day one) seeing as I O so late!! Not holding out hope tho for this month as still al over the place 😢

Aren't some bosses just dick heads!

My day has started in a pretty apt way... 5yr old just called me in (what I presumed was) panic from bathroom, I rush in only to be told he's done a massive poo and is so proud of it he'd like to show me!! 🤮
Sums up today.... shit!!!! X

@Kinsters my family are from Malaysia. This year will be a quiet CNY, my parents booked themselves a holiday leaving me and my sister to have CNY alone ......with DHs but they're not Chinese. We don't have other family here who stay in the country for CNY so I'm gonna do a small reunion dinner. MCs can mess up AF, like how heavy/light and length unfortunately which is just another head f*ck. Your colleague sounds nice ..........how insensitive some people can be.

@ratherbeshowjumping she sounds like a liability. Is she on a probationary period? I'd be advising managers to use it, do a review and get rid. Hope today isn't too bad and she keeps her trap shut. Maybe just tell her not to speak and you'll do all the talking?

@tigsyboo he sounds like a knob. How do people like him get away with behaving like that?

@Indreamland are you doing anything to improve egg quality? I think it is possible to make quite a difference.

@Twittle Fab news! FX for you x

@Ratherbe I agree she probably struggles with the age thing, she does sound hard work though. Good luck with your meetings!

@Tigsy sorry to hear you have to deal with that today 😞

@edidxb I did think about volunteering, but I found the websites very confusing. Maybe I will have another look.

No way InDreamland, my husband is Malaysian and we live in KL at the moment. Were you born in the UK? Sorry about the quiet CNY.

I'm really hoping this non-starter period is a blip and it's back to normal next cycle.

Ladies.... I hope this makes you laugh.... this is my team's cups!!
I thought it was hilarious just how positive we all were about work, and even our mugs are negative!!! 😂
Mine is the Fox!

Ha ha@tigsyboo I have this in a little frame on my desk

Ps I think your organisation shops from the same furniture supplier as mine ... cheapest tender and all that 😉

Hahahaha! Love the work cups and notes!
I have to stay tonight and supervise s talent show with a theatre full of coca cola and burger hyped 12 to 14 year olds.
I honestly want to cry at the thought of it. 35 mins until it starts. I wore flat shoes today especially......

Hi all,

Excellent news @Twittle! What a rollercoaster eh?

I love the mugs @Tigsy. Cunt is one of my favourite words. Probably why I have stuck with MN for so many years and not gone down the horrible fluffy mummy forum route.

I'm amazed what some of you have to put up with at work. I mean, my job is dull as dishwater but I've been lucky so far with colleagues. They're a very understanding company. I took time off for all of my mcs and wasn't expected back until I was ready, no questions asked.

@edidxb good luck for tonight. You need a break!!

I feel a little better today after my wobble yesterday. Although feeling a bit weird about today as it is my 16 week midwife appointment day. DP and I went to have our karyotyping bloods done which was not only on the same day as my MW appointment, but the same place and same time. I didn't expect to be having bloods done instead of MW