TTC FIRST BABY - THREAD NO. 9

[stormtrooperjulian]

We’re almost at the limit on thread no.8 so I thought I’d start a new one before that one fills up

@cupcakesandglitter @MrsEG @Delilah7 @crossfitgirl @DayDreamer1707 @FlapJackered @sunshine1987 @FivexFive @GemmaJen @daisiesandpeonies @KatBeCool

Sorry to anyone I’ve missed 😘

Sorry posted on the wrong one 🙈

@KittieKath of course!! Got everything crossed but I'm refusing to let myself think about it or even contemplate it as I can't take any more let downs!

@MrsH497 not stupid at all. Completely and utterly understandable. It's hard news to take and no one judges you for that. We all know how you feel ❤️

Will go to the new thread now! Was thinking that yday that we are running out of room!

Hi ladies

I haven’t posted or been on this thread for a few weeks as I was trying to give myself some headspace from the TTC in the hope it might help me to get my BFN. Sorry I am out of the loop on everyone’s news.

This morning I got my BFN for the 4th cycle. Feel absolutely gutted and empty. Am due on my period on Christmas Day too to make it worse- will have to deal with seeing the physical evidence that I have failed again on what’s meant to be a happy day. We are both so desperate for our BFP. People keep asking me if I’m pregnant or when I will have one (even close friends and family) and it’s fitting to have to pretend and be elusive about it when it’s all I want. We will be with my two cousins this Christmas too both of whom are pregnant (the “we only had sex once and got pregnant brigade”).

I also feel a rising panic that the big family I always wanted won’t happen now as I will be earliest 31 when we have a baby.

Help me out of this misery please!!! 😫😫😫😫

@GemmaJen it's an antioxidant. Our bodies produce it naturally but apparently the older you get, the less you produce. It helps create healthy cells and therefore has been linked with egg quality and increased fertility. There isn't a huge amount of information available though hence why I'm asking if anyone else has had any experience.

Hi ladies @Bettythecat @sjohnstone @GemmaJen there's a new thread so please do move over to Thread 10 :) as this one is nearly full we've switched to a shiny new one. See you there!