@Bettythecat as hard as it is the only thing you can do is try and stay positive, it will happen for you. Also men unfortunately do not think and feel the same way as us. He probably genuinely thought that acting normal was maybe helping in a way.
I have however read that having sex every night doesn't give the sperm chance to mature enough and be strong enough. It said it was better to do it every other night if you wasn't sure when you was ovulating.
This is the new thread that has started for this one and you can maybe copy and paste your above comment into that as others may have more experience.
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/3425082-ttc-first-baby-thread-no-8