TTC baby 2 - Third thread lucky?

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Hello everyone thought we were running out of space. TTC 2, DC is 1y/o, on months and cycle 7.

mammy did you dtd like a trooper?! So excited you're ovulating! Go you and dh 😁

Welcome coffee, sorry you're feeling down. Probably doesn't help but you've got time on your side to get this sorted out. Hopefully you get a testing and treatment plan to help you ovulate. I definitely feel you on being surrounded by babies and pregnancies - it's really shit isn't it. 🍷

Thanks mammy and Catren.
Will be nice to talk to others who know what it's like. I know I have plenty of time still, it's just the gap between children keeps getting bigger and not how I planned it to be! Plus feeling a bit like a failure that everyone else just seems to do this without much effort. I have wallowed and slept feeling bit more positive today, going to enjoy a day with my dd and focus on what I have !

Nope @Catren, I'm pretty sure life is conspiring against us and we are destined to have one child. We both came down with iffy stomachs yesterday, so no dtd.
@Coffeewithmyoxyg3n, I know exactly how you feel. I'm 24 as well and everyone seems to be having babies. I didn't want a large gap between my children either especially as my DS had additional needs.

It may be an evap so testing again later and on Monday but am I seeing 2 lines here.
God I'm shaking

Ooh @Mammyofasuperbaby I can see it!! FX this is your BFP 😍

They aren't getting any darker @mayago, in thinking they are evap lines or a chemical but I'm at the drs tomorrow so I'll ask him then

Have you tried a FRER @Mammyofasuperbaby ? If it just appeared yesterday, it might be too early to be stressing over progression.
Everything crossed for you!

You have a point there mayago. I got a positive ovulation test on cd19 and I'm now on cd35 but if I've ovulated later then it just might be super early.
Using a 10u/ml test but the lines definitely have colour to them.
I just want an answer, I was getting very dark lines 2 days before my period was due with my first but according to my tracker app in not due af till 12th January so im a little lost

1000% pregnant!!!!!

Oh my goodness! There's no mistaking that! Huge congratulations @Mammyofasuperbaby!! How are you feeling?

How's everyone else doing? How are you @mayago? And @Catren?

I'm doing good - almost 22 weeks now!

That's amazing @sodababy2 glad everything is going well.
I'm feeling good, I have backache, sore boobs, very tired and refluxing like crazy but feeling good.
I never had any of these symptoms with my son.
I also got my PCOS diagnosis today so I'll be seeing a gynecologist once little one is here so all in all a very positive day

Congratulations @Mammyofasuperbaby !! No mistaking those lines.

All well here @sodababy2 How are you 22 weeks already? I'm 17 weeks gone, and expecting a little girl 💖

This pregnancy continues to be a bit more stressful than my first; I hope it's not that way for everyone!

I started spotting brown blood on Friday. I'm feeling very low now

Wow wow wow wow - congratulations mammy that's so exciting !! So happy for you you have had a thought journey, wouldn't worry too much about spotting very common early on. Best of luck!

Nothing to report my end - af is late but negatives all over the show, my period dates are getting longer and longer !

I started bleeding today (6+2) so I have a scan tomorrow to see what's happening. FX for good news

Fx - hope it's nothing too serious both my sisters bled in early pregnancy and went on to have healthy happy babies

Hi all, so sorry to be silent recently. Mammy such exciting news, how are you getting on? Sorry you had a bleed and really hope everything is okay.

How's everyone doing?

My update is that I've had my immune testing plus a whole lot of others done and the upshot is that I'm borderline on the natural killer cells test so will have an intralipid infusion for my next transfer in late January. Annoyingly the timing of my cycle means my next transfer window would be on christmas day and everywhere is shut! Gah. Also the specialist thinks it would be worth having a hy co sy as it's been a year since my lap and she wants to check that my fallopian tubes are all clear in case the surgery messed me up.

So my hycosy was booked at midday for 4pm this afternoon as im at the right time im my cycle so all a bit of a whirlwind.

Im still feeling pretty negative about our chances at this point so numb to any emotions around it.

That's good news catren
I've had my scan and it was inconclusive so they took bloods.
I have my dates between 5+2 weeks and 6+5.
They said that they couldn't see anything but me and dp are sure we saw a dark oval shape in my uterus and the Dr did measure it. So no idea what's going on there.
I have to go back on Saturday for a repeated blood test and should find out that evening but I'm not hopefull

I've lost my baby
I had bleeding for a week and passed the pregnancy last night .
We've decided to name the baby Harley so it that's a name

I'm so sorry mammy that's awful news. Harley is a beautiful name. I hope you can rest up and look after yourself for a bit. Sending hugs and cake xx

Thank you catren

OH @mammy heart breaking, no words - you must be so upset. So sorry....I know it's awful but atleast you know you can conceive, and maybe when you have had time to rest you can have another try .....

Thank you ladies. The nurse at the hospital was lovely. She was so kind and was nearly crying with us. We have been given a small memory box and a plaque in the garden of remembrance with Harleys name and date of birth.
Harley is going to be cremated with the other babies who died this month and the ashes spread in the remembrance garden.

@Mammyofasuperbaby I am so sorry lovely. Thinking of you and your DP in this horrid time. That's so lovely of the hospital to do. Please take time to recover ❤️