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The Hut of Gl/doom part IV- it's still never going to happen- but ^in^ ^style^, yes

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duchesse · 08/06/2007 08:18

After all that desert sand, we are in serious need of slightly damper place...

This one is a hamam, complete with essential oils and thick Turkish towelling bath sheets. Mosaics on the floors, marble pools. You get the picture. It still needs some decorating though.

We have had a few graduates (OK, quite a few), which is good, but time to dust off the old Hut for those of us who are still barren.

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Ready · 30/06/2007 16:23

Fingers crossed for you Lissie

Impatience · 30/06/2007 18:46

Lissie, a person should never be able to say '... most of my m/cs...'

Come and wibble out here anytime! Its not like you haven't earned your lifetime membership (dubious award...)

I REALLY really hope everything goes well for you this time. Do keep us posted, even when there's nothing horrendous to report!

lissie · 30/06/2007 19:15

thank you. im just exhausted by trying to stay upbeat and positive. tbh, i dont think my body could cope with another mc

lissie · 01/07/2007 17:59

any meths going? im spotting and cramping. not surprised. just fucking sick of my wretched boddy fucking me around!

derah · 01/07/2007 18:02

Oh Lissie, sending you huge hugs. I want to say that it might not necessarily be bad news but I know that won't help. So just know I'm here for you.....

spugs · 01/07/2007 18:19

Oh lissie hope every things ok. thinking of you hun xx

mslucy · 01/07/2007 18:50

poor you.

fingers crossed. Just go to the dr IMMEDIATELY if you have any concerns.

Am feeling tired and grumpy after a long weekend of MIL and tantruming toddler.

Oh, and AF only came 3 days early this month!

here we go again!

lissie · 02/07/2007 08:00

well, im pretty sure its happened. woke up in the night with cramps and i'm bleeding properly now. thank you all for your kind words and prayers. looks like i shall never leave the hut after all.x

Impatience · 02/07/2007 09:01

NO NO NO! Oh Lissie honey

scorpio1 · 02/07/2007 09:02

NO lissie, no no no........

oh my shit.

i am so sorry honey. i dont know what to say.

sending much love to you and mr.lissie

Rainbowdays · 02/07/2007 09:44

Sorry hutters, I just need to leave a message for lissie, I know she will understand.

Lissie - I am sitting here shaking like a leaf, this is my first m/c, and at only 5 weeks I keep thinking I should not be reacting this way. I was feeling so sick yesterday, I was sure that that was a good sign, I don't even know why I did the pg test this morning, the spotting was so light. But seeing it come up negative took ages to sink in, coming into work and having them repeat the test and it being negative again, I am not even sure why I am still hoping that the blood tests will show it all to be wrong. But at least in an hours time I will know for sure. Are you going to go to the epu? This sounds awful, but with your experience, I wanted to speak to someone who can understand what I am feeling right now. I don't even know what I should do today, should I tell my boss or not, oh this is horrible. I am probrably not helping you either, but I would not wish this happening to anyone. {{{hugs}}}

scorpio1 · 02/07/2007 09:45

rainbowdays

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duchesse · 02/07/2007 10:32

Oh Lissie. Oh Rainbowdays. Poor poor you. This is so crap for you.

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Ready · 02/07/2007 12:40

Sad Sad Sad Sad

lissie · 02/07/2007 13:05

oh rainbow days, im so sorry. if you think it will help then tell your boss. a mc is a mc, regardless of whether its your 1st or your 20th and whether its at 4w, 5w or later. i do think you should take the day off and grieve. im not going to the epu, but i see my gp tomorrow anyway and will ask her about a scan just to make sure. how are you?

fellow hutters. thank you for your support. tbh, im not really surprised. which is probably the saddest thing about this sorry mess.

scorpio1 · 02/07/2007 13:07

lissie, have you been to EPU/docs to confirm you are mc-ing?

Rainbowdays · 02/07/2007 13:13

Well Just had it confirmed, my hcg levels have dropped, will have another test next week to check that they are back to normal. I have been crying most of the morning and decided to tell my boss, who is sending me home. I could not focus on work anyway so it is best that I go home. The bleeding and cramps have started. Thank you lissie for being understanding. I wish we were not here in this place right now, but it is nice to come back to some familiar names.

scorpio1 · 02/07/2007 13:15

RD.....hope you are ok, have some rest x

lissie · 02/07/2007 13:16

shit, i dont know what to say. im sorry.

scorpio, will see my gp tomorrow and ask for a scan then just to make sure. tbh tho, i know whats happening. im in quite a bit of pain now

scorpio1 · 02/07/2007 13:18

ok, just sending some love your way x

mslucy · 02/07/2007 13:43

Lissie and Rainbowdays - my heart goes out to both of you.

you must tell your colleagues - m/c is nothing to be ashamed of and it is important for them to understand why you may not be 100 per cent when you return to work.

be gentle with yourselves.

Impatience · 02/07/2007 14:05

Oh Rainbowdays, that's just so sad. I'm so sorry.

Not a good day in the hut today

Feedmenow · 02/07/2007 15:17

I had a bit of a "do" at the weekend, so am donating my leftovers - plently of beer and wine (sorry not to have anything stronger...), as well as crisps, nuts and dips and some large gooey white chocolate and raspberry concoction. Have also pilfered a virtual spliff (of Bob Marley proportions)from a mate to pass around....

Sorry to hear of all the crap

spugs · 02/07/2007 15:41

sorry girls, dont know what to say, agree with the not going to work thing though. I stayed off 2 weeks till i felt up to it. Look after yourselves xx

Soreheart · 02/07/2007 16:33

Hello Lissie, I'm so sorry. It's just too crap to talk about. And also, echo all the messages to RainbowDays - it's supersonically rough and vile to go through any kind of m/c. Well done for telling your boss.

I wish I really knew how to handle m/c so I could say something inspirational. But I haven't worked it out so far.

Bloody raining again.