Anyone around 9 dpo?

[lavenderlove]

Hi wondering if anyone is around 9dpo and wants to join me for the agonising wait? I'm trying to hold off from testing until at least 12dpo but it's so hard! I've never obsessed over something so much and I'm only on my 2nd cycle

I’m about 13dpo and got a bfn today. I’m on cd 28. My three previous cycles were 24/25 days and before that, between 25 and 29. I feel like I have a lot of pregnancy signs, but also that I should have my bfp by now if I was pregnant. For my first pregnancy, I had a bfp at 11dpo. If I’m not pregnant, I just want af to show so that I can start again.

You sound very similar to me @teacuptale I'm 15dpo and CD 28. I feel the same as I got a BFN yesterday but af hasn't shown on time today. It's like our body knows we are TTC and does things differently to normal. I've read posts where people haven't got their BFP until they are a week late so don't give up hope yet

It’s difficult, isn’t it Lavenderlove. My suspicion is that my body is playing tricks on me. I hate this limbo, but I guess we all do! From searchkng google it seems this could still be pregnancy or could be late period... just don’t know at the moment. I need to stop googling really. Best of luck to you- keep us updated!

BFN!
What a pain in the bum! Paid out for a
FRER too! I took it just before going to a baby shower so it was a bit emotional seeing my friend celebrating her twins
But at least there was food and cake to help me feel better 😂
Hoping to see some positives from you guys over the next few days 😊

HEY everyone, Can I join..?

Congrats to those who got a BFP and FX for those still waiting!!
I'm 11/12 dpo..
Took a test this morning and got a BFN.
Idk how to feel now .. I'm due for AF on Monday.
I dont plan on taking another test unless I'm a few days late..
Really feel like my cycle is messed up this month.

I was wrong before- I’m on cd 29 today! Still no af. I’ve been stressed recently so it’s possible I’ve scared off af. It’s not unheard of, but it’s very very unusual for me to have such a long cycle. And i typically have a short literal phase too. Really hope you all get the result you want.

I'm 7 dpo did a test today bad idea god I hate this waiting business

@teacuptale so stressful isn't it. Makes it even worse when af decides to be late for no reason

Oh no! @positivejade . I really thought you would be getting your BFP today. Has af ever been a week late for you before? Glad there was cake, that definitely helps 😂 no af for me today still but she will probably arrive tomorrow

Hi @TaeLovexD seems to be the case that our cycles mess up when we're TTC! Good luck I hope af doesn't turn up for you on Monday.

Hi @TaeLovexD seems to be the case that our cycles mess up when we're TTC! Good luck I hope af doesn't turn up for you on Monday.

Hi to the jpiners of the thread. I think I missed quite a bit yesterday but good luck to each and every one of you. Hopefully this thread will see some BFPs over the next few days.

I've just made myself go to the loo without picking up a test on route! I was tempted to waste the IC but then thought better of it.

2 more sleeps. ...

@lavenderlove and @TaeLovexD @teacuptale all the stress of ttc plays havoc with our cycles doesn't it! Just to add to the stress! Xx

@thethreeandme @spottypyjamas any news?

@chaosmoon congratulations, love seeing BFPs!

@2mummie5 I have everything crossed you for you and think you've got amazing will power to wait until Tuesday! how are you feeling?

@blitzen sorry for the BFN but as others say, it is still early for a BFP. It's unfortunately a waiting game.

@positivejade @lavenderlove @teacuptale I hope you all get answers soon. The 2ww sucks enough without having it extend for longer.

@mommybear1 It is so hard to resist the temptation to test. I think hold out for longer if you, if you can't, then do what makes you feel happier

@TaelovexD I'm also due AF Monday. Fingers crossed she doesn't need to pay us a visit.

Sorry for saying hello and then running, yesterday was manic. I got a BFN as expected. I got my static smiley a week ago on Friday and apparently ovulation is between 24-48 hours after that so Saturday was way too early to test.

I haven't been tracking cycles for long but from the couple of months I have done AF is likely to show Monday which is a very very short luteal phase so maybe it will be a longer cycle this month. I just hate all the unknowns and the waiting! xxx

@dreaminofholidays you managed to cover off what you missed on the thread better than I could! Apologies to those i missed

I'm feeling ok, no signs of anything so far today yet. The sore (.)(.) I had a few days ago have gone now... the pains/aches have gone. So i don't really know what to think now!

I'll just try and stay positive and I'll hopefully know on Tuesday one way or the other.

Maybe you should try and hold off a few days then test again if no AF xxx

@dreaminofholidays af due today and 99% sure she will be here, but I've accepted it for this mo th now so onto the next one.

Sorry about the Bfn defo still hope though as you are early still. I say this every month but I really need to stop testing so early. That one i did at 10dpo that looked positive was so hard to deal with when it wasn't.

Good look to everyone else with their fingers crossed still. Hopefully some more bfps due x

BFN this morning and still no af. I think stress is pushing back af. Hope you all have better luck.

@2mummie5 it is very confusing how these things come and go.

I am going to try and just see if AF shows. If these tests work off a 14 day luteal phase anyway there may be no point in me testing early anyway.

It is all so confusing x

Hi ladies! Still here and still cramping. 13dpo today. AF due tomorrow (or maybe Tuesday according to ovia). I'm not testing...not having any tests in the house helping with this. I'm just confused by the continued ctsmoing. Normally I'd get a day or two then a gap before AF. It's so hard not to think too much of it...

No idea what happened there...should say cramping!*

It's so strange how our bodies play tricks on us! Sometimes I think to myself, did I even feel all this before TTC?

8 days late and counting! And no BFP!
Hope I either get a positive or she visits soon! Keeping myself from all the good things in life just in case! 🍷

Will call the doctors on Monday, I know there's a lot that can throw off a cycle so they probably won't say much, but my friend has just been told she has a cyst on her ovary so wouldn't want to leave it too long.

Haven't told my partner yet as I don't want
to get his hopes up! So it's nice to talk on here, thank you for reading ❤️

@lavenderlove No I'm never late! I'm either bang on time or a couple of days early, it's very strange! But the whole time I'm late I have a glimmer of hope, it's tiny but it's there 😍

Af has shown for me today, i'm absolutely gutted but on to cycle 3...

Good luck to everyone, hope you all get your BFP's this month. I'll be sticking around to see how everyone gets on!

@lavenderlove Sorry to hear that! Be sure to spoil yourself today and as you say, onto the next! You'll get your bfp ❤️

Ah @lavenderlove sorry to hear that and snap AF has arrived here too. Note to self...if it feels like period pain it probably is. At least I'm learning which of my apps is most reliable! Clue got it spot on.

Sorry to hear that lavenderlove. If you can, treat yourself to something. When I ttc, I give myself a consolation present when af appears, such as a book or a big bar of chocolate. As disappointing as it is, this is cd 1 and a fresh start! That’s what I tell myself when af appears.

@lavenderlove that's so sad I'm sorry.. I'm on cycle 3 now and trying to relax.. I'm 8 days dpo and we did 11th.. I'm having zero symptoms like.. nada. I keep feeling my boobs as that's the first thing to go but they feel fine stupid things. Just like all of you.. have to wait 😔 xx