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Anyone around 9 dpo?

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lavenderlove · 29/07/2018 19:00

Hi wondering if anyone is around 9dpo and wants to join me for the agonising wait? I'm trying to hold off from testing until at least 12dpo but it's so hard! I've never obsessed over something so much and I'm only on my 2nd cycle Sad

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2mummie5 · 03/08/2018 08:45

Hi @blitzen I'm not due to test till Tuesday as I'm waiting till 14dpo. Fingers crossed for us both. Xx

ChaosMoon · 03/08/2018 09:04

Thank you @Akasia and @2mummie5!
I'm 13dpo (af was due yesterday) and I used a Boots digital. Really didn't expect anything but the result came up really quickly. I really hope you all get your bfps soon too!

blitzen · 03/08/2018 09:36

Congratulations @chaos! Great news. Good luck for Tuesday @2mummie5. Keeping things crossed for us both. I'm feeling a bit pre menstrual today so not holding much hope x

lavenderlove · 03/08/2018 12:12

@2mummie5 I think you're doing the right thing waiting, once you early test it's hard to stop! Hope you get your BFP on tues, this seems to be a lucky thread so hopefully we all get what we want!
Thank you. I tested again this morning and it was a BFN Sad 14dpo today and AF due tomorrow so seems likely I am out. Will wait and see if she arrives tomorrow.

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lavenderlove · 03/08/2018 12:13

Good luck @blitzen and @Thethreeandme keep us posted!

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lavenderlove · 03/08/2018 12:14

Ahhhh congrats @ChaosMoon!! What a lovely surprise! I'm so happy for you. We're having luck on this thread!

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veeboo · 03/08/2018 12:33

Ahhh @ChaosMoon fabulous news so pleased for you after you've been so optimistic towards us all on this thread!

2mummie5 · 03/08/2018 15:15

My positivity keeps diminishing and I just feel all over the place today. I keep getting pains , like a pulling pain in my cervix and a pinching pain low down in my tummy. Starting to think AF might show up soon. I just don't know what to do with myself and feel like my emotions are all over. I've been really short tempered today too and snaffled half a bar of galaxy before I even realised. Sad

Sorry for the moan.xx

ChaosMoon · 03/08/2018 16:22

Thanks @veeboo!

@2mummie5 you're allowed. The 2ww is always stressful but must be so much worse when you know your next step has to be IVF. If ranting gets it out of your system so you can find your positivity again, so much the better.

The pains you describe sound very much like how I felt 2 days ago. It's so unfair that pregnancy symptoms feel so much like af! It's impossible to know what's what but don't lose hope.

I have everything crossed for you all.

lavenderlove · 03/08/2018 18:20

Try to keep positive @2mummie5 I can imagine you must be feeling under a lot of pressure. You've done all you can now though Smile buy more chocolate and have a fun weekend xx

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veeboo · 03/08/2018 19:27

@2mummie5 I think we are in a similar boat wait wise although I am really willing it to be good news for you because of your story. Fx! I have the same kind of pains. Really aching yesterday, the worse for a while but similar to AF pain and today random twinges in my back, legs and abdomen. It really is a mind@#$%! I'm not testing unless I'm late so I'll know by Wednesday at the latest. Due Monday/Tuesday. Did you say you're Thursday?

2mummie5 · 03/08/2018 20:11

Thank you for the kind words ladies. I'm trying not to lose all hope but I'm struggling.

Tuesday is test day @veeboo.

I'll let you all know how I get on. Just got to concentrate on not completely looking my mind over the weekend xxx

dreaminofholidays · 03/08/2018 20:50

hello all, please may I join?

This is cycle #2
ttc #1
currently 7dpo, this is my first cycle using ovulation tests.
AF due Monday

DH wants me to do a test tomorrow x

2mummie5 · 03/08/2018 20:54

I'm meant *loosing not looking

Welcome @dreaminofholidays. Good luck xxx

dreaminofholidays · 03/08/2018 21:57

Good luck to everyone.
Is anyone testing tomorrow?

I don't know how anyone can keep sane throughout this. It is a whole new level of crazy and it impacts everything!!

xxx

blitzen · 03/08/2018 23:23

Good luck @dreamin! Yes, think I will try testing tomorrow. Dreading it already! Fingers crossed for you x

blitzen · 04/08/2018 07:16

BFN 😥 at 9dpo but cd 26/30. 5th cycle.

2mummie5 · 04/08/2018 08:22

Don't be disheartened yet @blitzen. That's still early to be getting a BFP. Hold out a few more days and rest again.

Fingers crossed for you xx

Lougg · 04/08/2018 09:04

Hi ladies! Just stumbled upon this thread while googling is ‘cramping 3dpo a sign of implantation’. Why is it so all consuming?! It’s basically impossible for me this month as DH was away most of the crucial days yet I’m still symptom watching like crazy lady!

blitzen · 04/08/2018 09:11

Thank you @2mummie5 - your positivity is appreciated!

Good luck @lougg!

lavenderlove · 04/08/2018 10:11

@2mummie5 good luck will keep my fx for you. No sign of af for me today but I've ran out of tests (which is probably a good thing) so I'll be waiting until tomorrow.

Welcome @dreaminofholidays good luck! Have you tested today?

@blitzen 9dpo is very early don't count yourself out yet!

Good luck @Lougg hopefully your cramping was implantation!

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2mummie5 · 04/08/2018 10:47

Thank you @lavenderlove. I'm trying to feel more positive today. I've noticed something random though and after a bit of googling (as we do..Smile) I'm telling myself it could be a good sign. My nails have grown a fair bit in the last couple of days and the tips are superstong and white. Mine are normally shorter, the tips are transparent almost and probe to bending and breaking.

I'm also seeing an Increase in discharge (sorry for tmi)

So I'm now at the exact starve I said I would get to this time around.... symptom spotting every detail , googling EVERYTHING and also checking every wipe when I go to the loo. (Whilst partially dreading seeing a hint of AF coming)

On the plus side... only 3 more sleeps till we can test.

Hopefully no sign if AF is good news for you. Fingers crossed!! Xxx

positivejade · 04/08/2018 11:05

Hi ladies! Feel like I need a virtual cuddle today if you don't mind me joining?

Basically I have been TTC for six months and went insane with testing and googling and looking through posts from the 1920's! Then I had a couple of months rest and it was quite nice actually!

Now this time I have been quite relaxed, and not symptom spotted so much, but have felt some twinges and things in all the right places.

I have tested early four times (three of them messed up and the fourth was a negative FRER) so have just been waiting for my period, but it's a week late!

I'm having pregnancy dreams and all sorts but have been too busy working to test, but today is the day! Off to get another FRER and give it a go! I'm excited..but I am also terrified. I almost don't wanna do it in case it's negative and I lose all hope? I don't feel like I'm going to come on anytime soon either, I feel pretty great actually which is strange!
Sorry to just bombard, needed to get it all out before going to town to ease my worries, feeling better already! ❤️

Positive vibes to all of you! 😘

lavenderlove · 04/08/2018 11:08

Ooh really hope they are signs of a positive for you @2mummie5. Jealous that your nails have got stronger, mine are as crap as ever!
I feel more relaxed with symptom spotting today but I think that's due to getting a BFN yesterday at 14dpo, seems unlikely I'll get a BFP now Sad I usually have a 28 day cycle but was late last month for the first time (sods law as first month TTC) so I'm not sure if I'll be a couple of days later this month too

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lavenderlove · 04/08/2018 11:16

@positivejade sending you a virtual cuddle! Everything is sounding like you're due a BFP today, go for it! Also well done for managing to wait until you're a week late, that's an achievement haha. Let us know how you get on today, sending you lots of luck x

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