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Anyone around 9 dpo?

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lavenderlove · 29/07/2018 19:00

Hi wondering if anyone is around 9dpo and wants to join me for the agonising wait? I'm trying to hold off from testing until at least 12dpo but it's so hard! I've never obsessed over something so much and I'm only on my 2nd cycle Sad

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Akasia · 24/09/2018 13:41

@lavanderlove same.. did a test yesterday but had to go out so couldn't wait for the result. Looked at it this morning (I know I shouldn't have) and though I can see a faint pink line. So obviously splahsed on a frer only for it to be bfn. Such a waste!
@thethreeandme Sorry to hear you're having a bit of a rough time. How are you feeling?

blitzen · 24/09/2018 18:38

Sorry @lavender and @Akasia. Still crossing my fingers for you though as 10dpo is early x

Akasia · 24/09/2018 19:08

Thank you @blitzen.
How are things for you? Have you had a scan yet?

lavenderlove · 25/09/2018 17:36

Oh no @Akasia . I'm hoping there's still time for us yet. Have you managed to hold off testing today? I have one more FRER left so going to wait until Friday now

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Akasia · 26/09/2018 08:14

@lavanderlove, I did, yesterday that is.
Today I've woken up convinced af came overnight (tmi coming) as felt really wet, but it was just cm and quite a bit of it. Then I've checked for my cervix and was so high I couldn't reach so I got excited and tested with an Asda digital (notorious for false positives) and BFN. How stupid that I'm upset that I didn't even get a false positive?
I have 1 frer left and like you I am keeping it for later in the week as due af this weekend.
I know I haven't done enough this cycle only dtd 2x and only one time during my fertile window and still can't help myself!!
I am keeping my fingers crossed for you for Friday. Can't remember did you say you've used pre seed or conceive plus this cycle?

lavenderlove · 26/09/2018 09:03

Oh no @Akasia it's so disappointing isn't it. I'm going to try and not test early from now on cos I spend half a day staring at a negative test thinking I can see lines haha. If your cervix is still high that's a good sign though! Fingers crossed for you. Yeh I used conceive plus this month but unfortunately af has arrived 3 days early for me today Sad I'm usually like clockwork on a 28 day cycle so god knows what's gone on there x

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spottypyjamas · 26/09/2018 18:39

Have you guys tested again yet? @lavenderlove @akasia

One again, I do what I always do. I'm adamant I won't teat. Found 1 ic at the bottom of the drawer and of course I test! 9dpo. A faint line has appeared but I got distracted so this was after about 10mins. I hate these tests as I got a faint line last month and it was obviously nothing. I do feel a bit different this month though, don't even know if that's possible this early.

I do have a frer to use so I will do that in the morning. Arrrrrr hate these stupid faint lines. Why do I do it to myself!!! (If I'm not pregnant I will and dup doing the same next month again I'm sure!) X

spottypyjamas · 26/09/2018 18:41

@lavenderlove so sorry I misread your post. Cruel for af to show up and to confuse things with cycle length. Onwards and upwards as they say x

spottypyjamas · 26/09/2018 18:42

Annoying faint line photo....

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blitzen · 26/09/2018 20:51

Oh no, @lavender 💐 hope you're okay. Not sure if it is in any way connected but my last af arrived on day 27. The shortest cycle I have ever had and at least three or four days early.

blitzen · 26/09/2018 20:53

Thanks @Akasia. Things are going well I think. Not had an early scan yet. Trying to hold out to 8 weeks which will be next week. My boobs hurt like mad and I have constant nausea but not been sick. I used conceive plus by the way.

blitzen · 26/09/2018 20:55

Ooh @spotty, are you going to try a frer?

Akasia · 26/09/2018 22:12

Sorry to hear af has arrived @lavanderlove. Let's hope this cycle will be the one!! The good things about short cycles is that you get to try again sooner rather than later

@spottypijamas that line sure looks promising!! I am keeping my fingers and toes crossed for you 😄 hope you wake up to two big fat pink lines

@blitzen it mustn't be nice feeling nauseous all the time. I am sure all these nasty symptoms won't last long and soon you will get to enjoy this pregnancy. How did you find conceive plus? I can't decide between this and pre seed. Don't usually use lube as don't find it necessary but I'd give anything a try atm.

As for me, period pains and sore breasts tonight so af is imminent. Guess I won't need that frer this weekend 😣

spottypyjamas · 26/09/2018 22:22

@blitzen yes I'll use the frer in the morning. So nervous though. It's impossible not to get hopes up after a faint line but I've been let down by several now so we will see.

@akasia thanks for keeping those fingers crossed. I'll do the same for you. As you know cramps and sore breasts can be a positive sign so you just never know. It's so cruel that at signs are pregnancy signs! A major design flaw we have there!

spottypyjamas · 27/09/2018 07:10

10dpo eeeeee!
Have felt sick since 7dpo but thought that was too early and I must have a tummy bug. Never had early symptoms before.
It's taken 9 months but got there!
We did use pre seed this month, never used that before so whether it helped?

Thanks for all your support everyone and fingers crossed you will all have bfps soon x

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Akasia · 27/09/2018 07:22

Yeeeyyy 🎉🎉🎉 @spottypijamas how exciting!!!
It's a nice strong line!
Off to buy pre seed then haha

spottypyjamas · 27/09/2018 09:57

Thanks @akasia

Ha yes won't do any harm to try! X

blitzen · 27/09/2018 16:26

@akasia conceive plus worked well I thought. I wouldn't usually use lube but found it useful when doing smep and not really feeling up for it!

blitzen · 27/09/2018 16:27

Wowee @spotty! Congratulations! That's brilliant news xx 🙌

spottypyjamas · 27/09/2018 22:24

Thank you @blitzen

I keep looking at the test, you know just to double check I didn't Imagine it!

Thethreeandme · 28/09/2018 20:02

Well a lot has gone on since I last looked!!!
Congratulations to all of.the bfps keep your sticky beans tight! Lavenderlove I feel your disappointment. I had a hope we could try this month but oh has just broken his leg lol, can't write this crap!!! Pretty sure I'm ovulat ing too! Prob onto next month unless I can take him in his sleep lol xx

Squ1ggle · 28/09/2018 20:11

Ah congratulations @spottypyjamas, that's lovely news, and after 9 months too! I got a bfn this morning (3rd cycle) so good to hear happy news

spottypyjamas · 28/09/2018 20:47

@squ1ggle sorry for the Bnf

I know how hard it is to see bfp s when you are craving one so badly. I decided to post to show that it can just happen out of the blue after a long time. Fingers crossed for you! X

Squ1ggle · 28/09/2018 20:57

Thank you @spottypyjamas, I love hearing good news, hopefully we'll all get that bfp soon

iris81 · 28/09/2018 21:12

@spottypyjamas congratulations 😊 can I ask which test you used and when? Was it first thing in the morning? I did one 14dpo at lunch after a tea and two coffees. It was bnf but wondering if it was too diluted perhaps??

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