Anyone around 9 dpo?

[lavenderlove]

Hi wondering if anyone is around 9dpo and wants to join me for the agonising wait? I'm trying to hold off from testing until at least 12dpo but it's so hard! I've never obsessed over something so much and I'm only on my 2nd cycle

Hi all.
TTC for 18months. Irregular cycles. I do track temp. App said I ovulated cd8 and its cd20 now and i had a drop of pale pink blood! Could this be implantation? When should it show on a test? I have tested today and got a BfN

@spottypyjamas really hope that is a start of a line for you!! I'm not ordering any more of those tests as I had a couple of evap lines this month which really got my hopes up I don't think it would be darker than that for 12dpo though so maybe wait a couple more days and test again! X

@thatshabbychick thank you!xx

@BobbySD345 I've heard that the average day for implantation is 12dpo so maybe try to hold out a bit longer. I'm not one to talk though as I think I tested from 7dpo last month x

@Thethreeandme it's difficult not to think of it isn't it when it's what you want the most I'm going to be conscious of my app like you but I refuse to buy any more OPK's or pregnancy test stashes haha. Hope this is your month! X

@lavenderlove I had 2 flashy positives on CB ovulation kits this month 5 days apart so my whole month is weird ! Hard to wait as I am so impatient.

@xJune88 when were your MC and are you trying for your first ? Stats made me believe I'd only MC once because its quite rare for more than that but sure enough I was one of the unlucky ones !

@TheThreeandMe I don't really know re AF. My app said this sat 8th initially but then my ovulation kits were weird this month because I got 2 positive flashing faces 5 days apart... I'm going with the 8th which will mean a 33 day cycle because if I go with the amended dates which could just be because of a rogue positive ovulation test, it'd be a 38 day-er! They do say not to use the ov test after you have a positive result but I had the weird pulling ovulation pains again so I just have it a whirl...😂

*gave

@BobbySD345 I had a natural mc in January at 7 weeks and my 2nd one was picked up at my 12 week scan at 14 weeks, baby had died at 9, had medical management never been right since. I got a positive on an opk though and now I'm 10dpo xx

@xJune88 so sorry for your losses ☹ I'm not convinced I have ever been right since my first one either. Fingers crossed we will have our healthy beans very soon x

Period came 5 days early what a bitch x

@BobbySD345 I know what you mean. I feel like I'm spending my life waiting at the minute, either waiting for af to finish, then waiting for my fertile period then the dreaded 2 week wait. Sick of it and I'm only on month 4! Hopefully this month is your month x

So sorry af has arrived for you @xJune88. She is a bitch. She's just left me today x

@lavenderlove I am 12 months since I first caught which sadly must have been a poorly bean and prior to that we had been trying for around 18 months so it can be a tough journey but for amazing reward 💕 keep going !!!

@xJune88 sorry that AF has showed up. I expect she will be with me by the end of the week ... ☹

Thought it was AF apparently not.... so confused!! Think my hormones are still nuts. Fingers crossed none of you get AF! Xx

Sorry for your loss @BobbySD345  hope you get a sticky bean soon! You're right, we need to keep positive 

@xJune88 could it be implantation bleeding? Fingers crossed for you!

I've ordered some conceive plus fertility lube which should be here tomorrow! Does anyone else use this?

@xJune88 5 days early sound like implantation... fingers crossed for you xx

I'm not feeling optimistic have pain just right of my belly button too.... praying it's nothing bad x

Shit. I should be happy but I am fucking petrified. Is it the old pregnancy... hubby doesn't seem ok either think we're both scared. Really thought I was out. Crapppppp

@xJune88 Congratulations!!! When was your last pregnancy? As that is a very strong line! Really hope everything goes well for you x

I lost baby at 14 weeks in June x

@lavenderlove I have heard that conceive lube is very good. We are trying it next month if AF turns up this month !

@xJune88 wow !!! Congratulations !!! Did you take a test once you had miscarried in June and have you had a period since ? If so, this must be a new bean!! yaaay !!

I'm pretty much convinced that AF is coming. I have the worst headache and a sore tummy which I always get the day before she arrives and I am due on Saturday 😢 so disappointed

@BobbySD345 yeah had a period too and 2 scans to confirm no retained products. Me and hubby are in shock decided not to get excited yet until I'm positive it's even real it's crazy. In shock! Xxx

@xJune88 if you can start taking the right vitamins and looking after yourself without getting too excited that's a good way to be, mainly because I find once I'm excited the days draaag ! So pleased for you! This one is a sticky bean I just know it. Try and relax 🥂

@BobbySD345 I really hope so thankyou so much. You'll be next!! xxx

@xJune88 oh my gosh this is so exciting.. I understand you being scared but don't let it ruin the excitement of first few weeks.. wjat symptoms if any are you getting .. massive congratulations xxx

Congratulations @xJune88, so so happy for you