TTC after pregnancy loss - thread 15 - Christmas miracles

[TheGrumpySquirrel]

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@DaisyMay25 I possibly ovulated the day before but trying to be conservative. I'm on cd26 (annoyingly long cycles) and getting impatient! I also might be totally off as I'm counting cd from my ERPC being day 1. I feel like I'm starting to symptom spot and of course I always forget from month to month which symptoms were bfps and which ones bfns! I am thinking of testing Thursday which should be 11dpo. This is still early for me as last time I only got very faint bfp at 13dpo. I did buy some frer though so maybe that will help! 🤞

@ek78 good luck!!! When are you going to test? Any symptoms?

I think I am 10dpo too and will probably wait until weds or maybe Thursday to test. I don't usually get any symptoms until after my missed period but I will still be symptom spotting.
I've convinced myself that I won't be able to get pregnant at the moment as I am too sleep deprived and stressed. My DS is not sleeping well and my DH and I are renovating our house which is taking forever and costing us all our spare time. Hence frequent arguments. I should probably wait until the house is done to ttc but since I am 38 and it took us 2 years last time, we can't really wait.

When after positive opk is o day?

@beanhunter i usually do with the next day! I got positive yday so thinkin prob today/tonight is ov!! 🤞🤞🤞🤞

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@Hollymchollyface well done for your patience! Sorry things are so stressful for you at the moment. It really sucks when you have to worry about ttc on top of other stuff doesn't it? I totally get worrying about your age, something I never thought I'd be worried about in my 20's!!
@beanhunter I'm certainly not an expert but I'd agree with di. The opks detect the lh surge 24-48 hours before ov. When I've used them I just count the next day as o day.

Given almost immediately I listed this I stated to have pain in right ovary I guess I’m going for today then. So tmi question. We’ve dtd weds and fri. Should we do tonight or tomorrow? Monday won’t happen for various reasons. Dh has borderline count.

Id go with tonight or tomo am @beanhunter. We dtd last night & will try tonight & tomo again if it works 🙈

To be honest I'd probably do both if you can!!

I'd so relieved I have a scan on Monday. Dtd earlier and had to stop as for some weird reason I had such pain in my uterus/area surrounding it. Fuck knows what that's about but I'm now worried we've waited so long trying to move this stupid remaining bit. Luckily it's all calm down now and much better. I just want this mc to be 100% over so I can move forward. Mentally I'm doing better but fuck me this is dragging.

@UnicornsandRainbows1 have u had any bleeding or anythin since?? Thankfully im mentally better too that xmas is over!! Im just weird tho!! I still have this pain so gonna ring & torture docs again 🙈 for them to scan me though it was really bad last night but eased today - hopefully stays that way 🙄

@di626 Absolutely nada! 😩 I've had increased ewcm again but obviously I'm not ovulating (or I SEVERELY doubt I am. Don't see how that's possible right now) so looks like I'm having more management. I refuse to wait and see any longer no matter how small it is, it's been stuck there for nearly a month now and I'm sooo done with it

Hopefully your Dr will do something. Is it similar pain? There's been so much news recently it's hard to remember who is where 😣

@UnicornsandRainbows1 flip i can imagine, not that im much help but id be so impatient if i were you 😔 at this stage.
Agh i dunno Dr Google 😂 is diagnosing me with a cyst!! So fed up, when i was on pill had none of these shitty feelings lol

@di626 I'm super impatient and fed up. I just want to be the position to at least try (and then hopefully have a successful pregnancy) but sadly I have to wait a bit longer. Mind you I'd rather wait if it meant the next time was good, but sadly I can't see the future.

Ah Dr. Google! He gets around, hey! Hopefully it's nothing but it's definitely worth getting checked out to be told it's bigger all than to wonder what it could be ^^

Bugger not bigger... Stupid phone!

@UnicornsandRainbows1 😂!! Yeah hopefully im makin mountain outra molehill though at this stage quite good at reading the old body!

Oh def well hopefully you can move on asap & mon goes well that that last but has disappeared somewhere!! def think improves the mood sometimes when ttc & fertile time arises though not the tww!! We are dtd at the min again after chemical - you always live with that little hope until its dashed & you are in the gutter again for few days!!

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@di626 bit - but - same diff

Well you know your body better than anyone else, especially on the journey we've been on whilst ttc. You just tend to put stuff up more now and know when something is up.

Absolutely! Stupid hope 😒 Ha you wait for the fw for ages but it's literally the most aggravating time (minus the tww - screw that)

@UnicornsandRainbows1 we'll get there hun ... at some stage 😘😘

You just tend to put stuff up more now wtf?! Clearly it's time for bed. I think that was supposed to say 'tend to put up with more stuff now'

We will better fucking do. It might just take a bit more time but that's okay, they'll be super awesome 😊😊

Why do AF and early pregnancy have the same symptoms?! My boobs have just gotten a little sore, I've been a little light headed before and I'm having a few cramps, AF isn't due until next week.

@bobothelephant I've gone from being convinced that I'm pregnant based on symptoms, to being convinced I'm not and now back to 'we'll see'. A lot of things I'm feeling could be a combo of New Year (emotional for me this year) and PMT BUT my cm has been different this time post-ov - and weird things that I've googled (not always the best idea), sudden hunger pangs, twitchy eye could point to a good result. But I have convinced myself before and then been disappointed. I'm not going to test until after af due because at least then I am closer to being able to try again if its a negative.

Decided to do this at stupid o'clock. Ran out of cheap tests and figured FRER would show it how it really is. Was expecting it to be darker tbh, though I'd rather it not be there at all. I think I'll definitely push with the EPU tomorrow, even if it is surgery now. Just fuck it all

Don't know @Daisy but it's very annoying !

Sorry @unicorns, sounds so frustrating. Hope you can get some help soon. How long has it been since your mmc was confirmed?