TTC after pregnancy loss - thread 15 - Christmas miracles

[TheGrumpySquirrel]

New thread!

Hi Ladies not been on for a while hope you all okay.

I had a very early miscarriage/chemical over 4 weeks ago and AF was due a few days ago so now 3 days late. I know it can mess your cycles up but I had a positive opk which means I should of ovulate on cd 14 which is normal for me with this is mind I can't work out why I would be late.
I've had a very small amount of light brown stuff on day / day after when I should of had AF. I've done a few hpt's and all negative so I;'m at a loss as to whats going on. can anyone advise please.

Hope you are all well.

I'm ok thank you @Mimilicious013. The anxiety was getting too much, so we had a private scan booked today at 10+4 and thankfully it was ok. I was crying on the way there, yet felt so selfish for doing so as I'm lucky to be pregnant again. It's such a mix of emotions. We found out about MMC at 12 weeks last time, so that's the next anxiety!

Apologies if posting that is a trigger for anyone. Xxx

Great that scan was good today Hun!!! Not long at all until 12 weeks now. Hang in there xx

so glad all is well @flatwhite.lt is lovely to have that confirmation. l too will go for as many as I can if we get lucky again. last time I took for granted early scans and only got to find out at the 12w scan that there was an empty sac measuring 7+4 weeks. lt was a nightmare and I wouldn't wish it upon anyone. Anyways, enjoy every moment and take care of yourself.

@hopeful , my af came back after 6 weeks and had a number of days spotting .lts the worst feeling not knowing what the body is doing .

any plans for nye ladies?

@Flatwhite32 so glad everything was good at the scan!! Fingers crossed the next 10 days aren't too anxious.
@Hopefulbunny I don't know but I hope your body sorts itself out soon.

Been thinking about how you were doing flat! Great news about the scan :)

Thanks @weasledee. I'm now back to worrying about the 12 week scan, as that's where it all went wrong last time. So scared!

Hello! Can I join this thread? I had a mmc in July at 9weeks and am now on my 4th cycle ttc. I got my ‘flashing smiley’ using opk on Christmas Day but on ovulation day I got an error message on the opk.

.. oh dear posted that before I had finished. Anyway, hoping i ovulated on the 27th and now settling in for the 2 week wait... I have found Christmas a rollercoaster and thought it might be time to chat to others in the same position here.

@Flatwhite32 im glad its going well! Fx for your next scan

Signing in!

I had a MC at 9+4 pm 14th Dec, been trying since so now it's a waiting game! It's nice to have someone to chat too :) DH wanted to wait a few months but I'm not a waiting kinda gal so if I do fall pregnant straight away I'll have to do some grovelling! Ha

just lost my long post eish!!

anyways, wishing everyone the very best in the new year . STICKY BFPS for each and every one of us.

Just checking in to say good luck to everyone and may 2018 bring lots of BFPs!

Still pregnant here, 6+2, almost 7w by lmp but I know when I ovulated. Trying to hold out until 8 weeks for an early scan but very anxious in this limbo stage. Hcg has been rising nicely according to CB digitals, got my 3+ at 5+3, but now I just have to wait and hope 🤞🏼

thanks @grumpy. glad all is progressing well hun. take care of yourself and can't wait to hear your update after the scan.

Thank you 😘 have a fab NYE everyone

Hi ladies,

well AF finally arrived a few days late, but glad things are back to normal after early miscarriage.

Wishing you all a very happy new year.

I don't know why but for some weird, sudden reason I really want to buy a bunch of maternity clothes Where the fuck is my head at?! Oh brain...

So happy to read all the good news on here.
And sorry for those still waiting for those BFP
I'm optimistic about next year, the sooner the better though obviously.
Should've been 20 weeks today, and I can't help wonder if it would've been a girl or boy.
I wish you all the best for next year and easy pregnancies for all

@DaisyMay25. I can relate, I should have been 29 weeks today :-( x

Just to top it all off my sister's friend who swayed his ex gf to have an abortion about idk, 5 years ago has recently got married and just announced they're expecting in July. Seems bloody fair. I'll just fucking give up shall I

@UnicornsandRainbows1 I'm sorry you feel like that
Within the space of two weeks three people I know have had babies so my Facebook is filled of baby pictures and some close friend are due in less than two weeks
It's so so hard not to be bitter about it

Happy new year to us all, we deserve it!!!!
Hopefully this year will bring us al BFP's

@DaisyMay25 I swear I'm usually not this much of anarsehole towards people!

Well still no period here. Do you think there's anything that can kick start it in a matter of days? Do you think a GP will have some magical pills to help? I'm getting desperate

Happy new year ladies! Glad to see the good news on here and sorry for those hoping for BFPs (me included). I’ve been using the Flo app to track my cycle and opks and ovulated over the last few days, so DTD as much as possible. Fingers crossed for a Jan BFP!

Hi ladies, I posted a couple of weeks ago after my mc and then have been taking some time out trying to get my head around things.
This was my 3rd mc but we've had a healthy baby in between (after the 2nd loss) so have been very lucky.
It was a real blow to miscarry again because I naively hoped all the mcs were in the past and we'd been lucky enough to get pregnant straight away this time.
It took nearly 3yrs to conceive my ds in the end and I am 38 now so feel like I don't have much time.
Anyway, I am trying to stay positive for the moment as we're back on the ttc journey. I get stressed easily and I don't think it's good for fertility.
So I mc'd around the 15th Dec and I don't know if I have ovulated this month but we've been dtd anyway and expecting af sometime around the 13th Jan I suppose.
I'm not holding out much hope this month but you never know! I've heard stories about people getting pregnant straight after mc so fingers crossed.
Hope 2018 is the year for all you ladies.