TTC after pregnancy loss - Love is the Drug - and lots of vitamins - thread 14

[TheGrumpySquirrel]

Shiny new thread. Hugs and supportive chat for those TTC after miscarriage or pregnancy loss ♥️

I think @Flatwhite32 is the Fb group owner x

Welcome @DaisyFranceLynch. So sorry for your losses. PM me the email you use for Facebook, and I'll add you to the secret group.

@Fillybee @Lotty515 @KerryLeanne84 @rachelandthenoodle I've added you all. X

@DaisyFranceLynch welcome and sorry you've had a rotten time TTC so far. Erm, out of interest is your name Jilly Coope inspired??

Have you added me flat i messaged you the other day? X

Daisy so sorry for you losses xx

I'm fed up of this cycle cd17 medium darkness on opks for the last few days.. accompained with ovulation pain but still no positive!!! I've had sex 10 times in 14days.. I'm all shagged out 😂 poor dp!
I'm running out of ways to make it fun or adventurous! My chart is all over the place😐 I hate TTC i really really do.

OMG @BlueeSpottyTiger that's when I know you're younger than me! Haha! I did add you, but I'll try again now. X

@coastal age is just a number! I wouldn't say 50 was old to have a 10 year old... You can't control your age but you can control how you act/dress at that age so if you don't want to be fuddy duddy then you won't be!! xx

Thanks for the add @flat

ha ha - I need to be a kim cattrall type figure!!! or that 80-odd year old diana bird who was the green goddess on that celebrity italy programme the other week!!!

Don't look v glamorous at the moment though was asked for ID before when buying a posh bottle of gin in waitrose because I looked "under 25"!!!!!! I was like, I'm 39 but I'll take that!!!!! And I wasn't even in gym gear. OH was like, erm what 17 year old is purchasing duck confit, new potatoes and malden salt?! He wishes he'd known to put that sort of stuff in his basket when trying to purchase booze under age though clearly didn't work for me today!!!

@flatwhite32 thanks for the add... should the group appear in my groups list? Sorry for being a little dim on how FB works 😂

Yep lotty but only for you to see!
X

Happy birthday 🍰 miss magpie!

@BlueeSpottyTiger so’s mine! I’ve had the dip in temp but no marked rise & this morning it was low again (by like .2 but still!).

I’ve been googling insert eye roll emoji and apparently it’s still ok? So I’ll keep fingers crossed for us!

Hello DaisyFrance and happy birthday MissMagpie

Thank you everyone. And well spotted @Daffodil77 - I changed it for a Jilly Cooper thread and never changed it back again.

@Daisy I love that there is a Jilly Cooper thread somewhere!

@Daffodil77 there are lots of Jilly Cooper threads - haven't seen one recently but they're great fun when they happen. Every so often I will spot another Jilly username on here as well

Happybirthday Magpie x

Yellow Argh so confusing! My charts never been like this before.

I FINALLY have a POSITIVE opk! Yay!

A first for me is to celebrate a fading pregnancy test as it means my miscarriage is over and we can start trying again

Aww martydog, a moment of very mixed emotions. Hope you're ok-good to be looking forward x

@Martydog it’s always a bitter-sweet moment. I’d never wanted a negative test more.

Yay @BlueeSpottyTiger ! Happy dtd-ing!!

Yay for the positive OPK blue! Marty I hope you are okay, will you be trying again straight away?

This is my chart so far, another rise could confirm ovulation which would be the earliest ever! Could it be the acupuncture?!

Thegrumpysquirrel yes I'm 41 in December so I know time is not on my side. It has taken me nearly 10 years to convince my husband to have another child it was so easy last time.

Oh Marty :( im sorry x

Grumpy may well be! Goodluck!

I really Cba dtd.. but now i have my postive we need to do it 3days in a row to make sure i catch the egg. Come on body, Make me a baby! It's hard work dtd pretty much every single day anyway let alone with a toddler lol i don't want sex after this until my next fertile week 😂

Well temp has shot up this morning so i am guessing that ovulation has occured yesterday. The positive opk was yesterday morning at 8am obz i need 3days of raised temp to confirm but I'm going to class myself as in the tww now :)

Hope everyone is having a Lovely weekend! Xx