TTC after pregnancy loss - lucky thread 13

[TheGrumpySquirrel]

Hi guys I couldn't see a new thread so hope you don't mind me starting it off @BertieBotts ?

I know Hun. It's so shit.... Sending hugs xxx

False alarm, there's now no blood. Wtf is going on? 😭 I'll catch up with messages when properly home. As much as I love you all, it's bloody cold out here!

Glitterbug not sure what meds yet, but from what I can gather maybe preventative meds to cover bases. I am very fortunate to have a professor on the case & we are extremely grateful more than anything, just feel deflated at the mo am due af Tuesday so we thought we could crack on ttc was really excited about it!!

@lovemysparkle - that sucks. I can understand frustration, sending lots of love

@flat - me too. Our due date was calculated from 22 June and just want that baby back. Lots of love

@unicorns -gah!!!! Why are our bodies all over the chip shop?! Hope you get some certainty soon

Just watching one born on W. why do I do it to myself :(

@coastalchick God knows. Life thinks it's hilarious it fucking isn't!

@mummykezza Oh no! I've tried to avoid it like the plague

😊 I'm only a couple of days post ov but fingers crossed that explains the hunger! I must have had 3000+ cals today! 🙀

@KerryLeanne84 I've also been really hungry . I've put it down to the weather though, as I'm always hungrier in Autumn.

I'm sorry I'm not v technical how do I get names in bold like everyone else when I ask a question, and is their any where that shows you what abrivations mean ? Thanks

@Glitterbug76 @ Glitterbug76

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Just without the spaces ^^

Obviously now I’m going insane! Still no AF.

What you thinking @grumpysquirrel?? I think I can see a bit of a line. How many dpo are you? @bluee do your magic saturation thing on this one!

Ooh I think I can see one too !

This is already colour saturated so I don’t think it’s anything. I’m 10-12DPO not exactly sure. Trying very hard not to get hopes up

Will you do another tomorrow with fmu or are you disciplined enough to give it a couple of days?

I’ll do another cheap one in morning but save a FRER till Saturday at least

Grumpy I really hope it is a bfp for you I'll keep everything crossed 🤞🏽

Coastalchick I know I'll dust myself off tomorrow & I know I'll feel better when this polyp removal appointment comes through just gotta make it my new milestone (must be positive!!)

I will advice/explain my journey so far with rmc tomorrow which hopefully will help some of you going through this

Love to all you ladies let's all hang in there we will get there ❤️❤️❤️

I feel like i can see something! So fx grumpy :) goodluck! Xx

So sorry to hear that @Lovemysparkle. I really admire you trying to be positive. I can't seem to do that right now. I just cry every evening after work, eat dinner then lie in bed.

I tested this morning at 9 dpo. Very, very negative. Not surprised though as I have no symptoms. Having done some reading, I've read that boob soreness before AF is caused by progesterone. Maybe I don't have enough.

And to think I would be 20 weeks in 5 days time...

Blank negative this morning so probably just a random shadow on the test. I must have ovulated late because AF still not here. I didn’t get my hopes up anyway!

Sounds like you are really struggling @Flat I'm sorry. Did you say you had tried counselling or anything like that? xx

Please tell me I'm not being stupid. Sorry if it's a bit shaky and dark

Congratulations unicorns that’s a line! ♥️

I can see it @UnicornsandRainbows1. Congrats. X

Sorry to hear that @TheGrumpySquirrel.

@Fillybee there are no pregnancy loss counsellors in my county, and I'm not interested in general counselling, as people who haven't been through pregnancy loss don't get it. I also can't afford private counselling, and I can't do evenings as I'm often working. Bit stuck really!

@Flat that is a shame that there are no specialist counsellors. Maybe there might be a general counsellor with a special interest/experience in pregnancy loss. I'm sure you've looked into it already... I'm hoping a rest at half term will do it good Hun xx