We're ovulating again, so let's jump our men. It's TTC after miscarriage thread 11

[Lime19]

Not sure if I should start new thread for this? Is there one open already?

Thank you. I am so done waiting now! I have a job interview next week...

@thegrumpysquirrel unfortunately I think that's really individual - some people get a drop a few days before AF comes, but not everyone. I've never temped and not got a bfp (which sounds like a weird sort of boast, but isn't supposed to!), but I'm going to start again next cycle just so I can get a better idea of what normal is for my body.

Grumpy Id say you might have another 1-4 days before AF is due. From the charts I've seen the temp normally dips day of AF but it can be hit and miss. I'd say you would get a confirmation by testing again on Monday. Good luck!!

Spotting getting a tad heavier today. Thought AF would be full flow but nope just annoying me. Went out for a nice meal last night and I'm having pizza tonight. All my f's are buried under the patio. Managed a 25 day cycle. 😕 that's two in a row.

@TheGrumpySquirrel this is my chart from my BFP the app didn't like my times that's why some of them are circles not dots. Hope this helps in some way.

I'm not doing anything currently. I'm waiting for af, should appear next week or a bit later maybe. That would be the 4-6 week window they gave me anyway.

Thank you all.. I have no idea whether to be hopeful or not. I need to find a better way of coping with the uncertainty, because it's all consuming.

Mouse I'm sorry you had another short cycle. Fwiw I know that someone previously on this thread conceived with regular 26 day cycles.

I don't see a clear "implantation dip" on this like yours @Blissfulignorance but not sure if that means much

I'm so crap at reading them, I think the best but hardest thing to do is wait a little longer. Good luck!!

Have you had a look on the ff app at other people's BFP cycles? You might get some idea of what they should look like. I'm not sure what I'm looking for since yours dips and rises a few times after DPO so it might be harder to guess an outcome. I would certainly say getting yourself worked up about it won't help. 😕 Try to distract yourself with some good food and tv/cinema. X

I think you need to pay to see the other charts no?

No worries just found the charts gallery!

All you charters! I'm quite jealous I'm too lazy to do that. I'm just going to do the dtd all the bloody time approach this month.

But my friend got pregnant via this special thing that you insert in you and leave overnight. It's very sensitive and sends the temperature direct to your phone. It was called "ovusense". Her chart was very clearly a positive before she even tested.

All the charting is quite inspiring but I too am going to go with Lime's 'shag all the time' technique due to a mixture of dyslexia those charts may as well be in Japanese to me and laziness!

Although if I do decide to I'm in the right place, you guys know your stuff.

I'm with you, Lime and Yellow, I'm way too lazy to sort charting!

Emvy, thanks, think I'm going to go for it. Although not tonight as we're staying at Mum & Dad's and I just can't!

Waving to everyone after a long absence.

Feeling a bit low here. 2 years (ish) after my first mc and in a month it would be the 2nd baby's EDD. Plus, BFN this morning... AND row with my teenager today. I must be mad.

Sorry to be a misery guts.

So I did my CBFM test this morning and it said not pregnant but there is definitely a faint second line so I caved and cracked out the FRER! Can you see anything on this?

Temp is still elevated...

Oh grumpy how frustrating. I'm afraid I can't see anything on that frer, but it might be the picture not showing anything up for me. What cd are you now? I still have everything crossed that because your temp is still up there's a chance!!

I can't see a line yet either but the temperature does still mean there's hope.

I'm CD30 so expect af tomorrow or at least by Wednesday or so

Ok I looked again and on the enlarged pic I feel like I see something. I'm not sure if it's a trick of the brain because I've seen so many bloody tests my brain kind of fills in the line.

Same here lime! 😩

Can you see anything?

What dpo are you again?

Sorry cross post - grumpy, have you held in the light? Can you see anything?

I think I can but so faint that it's hard to be sure I'm not imagining it.

Will get more FRER tomorrow, at least I can't waste another one tomorrow morning because I've run out!

Have you taken the test apart? I know they say not to but I did last time and the line was clearer without that silly window.