SQUARE ONE TO GRADUATES! Come on ladies we're huntin' BFPs!

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I get twitchy at the end lol! So next rollover thread. Roll call?

Mim I'm so thrilled for you, I know you had given up. Post more pics tomorrow!! How lovely to see a BFP from a long time trier ☺️

Woop woop mimi!! Wow that was a surprise to log on and see this!! Super excited for you
I will reply to your messsge..just been busy.

Hi everyone, Will catch up on rest of thread before I reply. Lots of love x

Mimi!!!!!!!! Yesssssss!!!!!!!!! Wahooooooo!!!!!!
BEST.NEWS.EVERRRRRRR!!!!!!!
Congratulations, this is awesome after all this time. Can't wait to hear more details.
Totally that fertile Summer solstice did it for you! How wonderful, a Spring bubba! xx

Morning ladies .thanks my friends
I couldn't even sleep last night. Tried to pinpoint when it could have happened but we barely dtd. Once or twice a week l think at times none.

Ladies this has to be a miracle .dh not around so can't share the news yet. Will be dashing out later to get some more tests . symptoms wise, l don't even have apart from pre af cramps . this is really weird! !

Ahhh miracle baby mim 😊😊😊

Mimi have you done any more tests today?

Hie hun, did another cheapie yesterday and it was not as clear as the other one. Don't know if it is invalid or l got excited for nothing. My heart is aching .

Trying to get better tests because I can't look at another bfn.nooooo wayyyy

This Rollercoaster ride never ends! !!

Get yourself a decent test mimi. I'd also get a doctors appointment in - cant they confirm with blood test?

Very very clear! !!!!excited again

I think that's the strongest BFP I've ever seen on mumsnet!!

Kkkkk thanks @jam, l am now over the moon again. It has been a really rocky road. I started trying in 2015 and most my ttc buddies then have grown babies now.

I really wish all you a happy ending. Long time ttc is a nightmare but worthwhile in the end. Cross fingers for me it's a sticky one

There's no doubt in that!! Mega congrats.

Had really sharp stabbing pains near sorta right ovary area for a few hours yesterday. I suspect it was a cyst- maybe it burst? Feel better today with it. 9 dpo.

Dh has his SA and I go to do my bloods next cd 3. So roll on!!

I just did a lloyds test (because i stockpiled a couple cycles ago and literally have at least 12 non cheapie tests in - and yes, I know I'm a daddy) with fmu. Dh has to give his sample tomorrow... and I was just curious. I see an absolute squinted of a line. Came up in about 4 mins. Not even sure it shows on camera...

I know lloyds tests aren't to be trusted though. So no hopes high, just interest piqued! Not sure whether to test tomorrow or Friday with an frer...

Yeah don't see it on the photos, but promise there is something there!

That would be really exciting @kate if the test gets darker. Fingers and toes crossed for you. A frer on Friday (if you can wait that long)

I can't see clearly on the pic

Good luck Kate, hope this is it for you too! What a lucky month this would be if you got your bfp too! x

Oh my gosh ladies how exciting has the last couple of days been!!

This really has made my day checking out the recent posts am grinning from ear to ear for you Mimi that is a very clear and definitive bfp! Could always do a clear blue digital to help give an estimate of roughly how far along..! Congratulations!!

I'm really excited for you too Kate - I can't see clearly on the pic but know what it is like to have a squinter and hoping that it shows up darker soon! I decided not to give myself a hard time about testing with beanie and as I had so many tests just got the urge out of the way and did it rather than stress - must have done about 8 in the end!! Test when you want to but please keep us posted!!

Glad to see all the other plans coming into place for everyone at least with diagnoses and interventions you know what you are dealing with and before long I think we will see more bfps..!

Footy - thinking of you and sending love am so sorry the way things have worked out look after yourself xx

Can't remember who sent well wishes but thank you bump growing well - bump size spot on and my extra weight gain right where it should be, mushy moment but with all the heart ache ttc and keeping an eye on the thread makes me appreciate every moment of pregnancy, even the aching hips at night and carpel tunnel caused by pregnancy I still stop and realise how fortunate I am to be pregnant - thank you all for being so open and sharing so much it's helping me value and not take for granted every moment xxx

Aw it's so nice hearing from everyone!!! I feel like we need a reunion irl!

I'm thinking that it's probably just an evap, and that's why the colour didn't show on the pic... but time will tell... what's a few more days??

Kiki!! Lovely to hear from you!! I think I will feel the same as you in pregnancy and cherish all those baby twinges and ailments. Having said that, you mustn't feel guilty about letting off steam or having a good old rant about any sufferings, pregnant woman's prerogative, it can be very hard on you emotionally and physically. I have a friend who was trying for just under a year, got pregnant, and with a few weeks was saying "I hate my life" because of all the sickness and tiredness. I found it hard to get my head around how you can forget the TTC agony so quickly. I think once you've been going for over 18months/2 years, it would be difficult not to appreciate a pregnancy no matter what it did to your body!

Kate 9dpo, very early! Hoping it's a bfp trying to push through!

Oh wow, fingers crossed Kate!

Footy how are you?

Will be so good if you get a bfp too kate! Really hoping for a clearer test tomorrow. It's only 9dpo so it would really only a be a squinter!!

So pleased for you Mimi!! You really truly deserve to be after all this time. Does Dh know yet??

Thanks for asking Jam, I'm ok.. one day at a time. We are talking and slowly communicating. He's still not living here.. but I've seen him for dates a few times. Was our wedding anniversary yesterday.. sad times. But he did take me out for dinner and shocker.. I slept with him. Felt like a naughty girl . Not sure how I feel about it today, but he definitely knows he doesn't just get me in the sack for his keys back!!
I'm being very cautious and as I said one day at a time.

Glad you are all still here.. yeah a reunion one day!! Xx

Morning all

Have you tested yet @kate? Looking to some good news.

Hie @foot, sorry your wedding anniversary came when you were down but glad you guys are tryingto work out things. Naughty girl indeed but a girl gotta get what a girl needs 🙈.

Hope you are enjoying your holiday @tee and letting your hair down. Just read your email re results, it sounds like with medication, all can be sorted so it is only a matter of time now. This journey teaches us to be patient, to endure painful experiences and we have learnt quite a bit about our bodies. Keep fighting hun.

kiki , lovely to hear from you. Hope you are doing well and can manage the pain. How is the shopping going? Are you in maternity clothes yet.

jam , where are you in your cycle. I occasionally follow your thread and you are such a caring one. Supporting and encouraging everyone

Bfn with an frer. Only 10 dpo, but with that test yesterday, I suspect evap as the lloyds tests are apparently notorious for em. If that was a positive than the frer should have been too...

In good news, dh is giving his sample today, so I can imagine he would been pretty annoyed if I were pregnant but he'd been through that 'embarrassment' (that's what he's calling it. I've just said everyone there will be doing the same thing)...

Glad you're communicating footy I hope is the right thing for you both. Is he willing to work on things to make things better?

Mim my periods just finished so it's Groundhog Day as usual, back around to wondering if we should have sex again. For extra fun DH is on standby all month so I have literally no idea where he will be from week to week. We might not be able to try at all this month.