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fettle · 19/01/2007 09:35

Morning - definitely in too good a mood this morning for the hut - not sure why the good mood, but not going to question it while it lasts!!

Anyway, 37.83 this morning, so up a little from yesterday. 11 DPO (well 11 days high temps - when do you count ov from, the day before temp rise or the day of temp rise?)

speak later
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londonlottie · 28/01/2007 16:53

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rahrah1 · 28/01/2007 16:57

Thanks - Ive sorted it, it must of been me.. .. Ive just done it for the forth time and its right now.

Thanks for all your help

greedyforbabies · 28/01/2007 20:51

really dont know what to think. i had a couple of minor cramps this morning, some bright red blood and then some horrible clotted blood. obviously cried a lot, then did another pg test, then realised that was stupid anyway cos i would still have the hormones in my body anyway. anyway........ive had a bit more bleeding today but not much, so i dont know what to think. my boobs were sore yesterday and they aren't as sore today. i have had bleeding early in both of my previous pgs, but never bright red or clotted.
dont know if to go to gp, what could they do anyway so early? didnt take my temp this morning either.

a totally crap day and i feel really embarassed that i came on here on friday shouting my mouth of about my BFP which looks like it will soon be a bfn. never really thought this would happen to me, how stupid am i.

greedyforbabies · 28/01/2007 20:54

happy birthday by the way fettle, i really hope your spotting doesn't develop into anything else.

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fettle · 28/01/2007 21:06

Greedy, my darling!! I so hope it is nothing. How utterly awful for you? Go see your GP, you need to sort things out. It may be bleeding like you've had in other pgs, but you have to talk to doctor regardless.

If it is the worst, remember that my cycle came back really quickly after my mc at Christmas.

Don't feel bad about being excited on Friday - we were all over the moon for you as well.

I've tears in my eyes, at the mo. Oh, I hope it's ok - put your feet up and take care of yourself, sweetheart.

Speak tomorrow.

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greedyforbabies · 28/01/2007 21:18

i was hoping you would respond to me fettle - thanks. you should never have said you had tears in your eyes though.......you have set me off again! and i have been fighting off the tears since lunchtime.
funny you should say about your cycle getting back to normal quickly cos thats what i was thinking earlier to perk myself up.
i know its horrible but can i ask details of your last mc please. how many dpo were you and how do you know it you have definately had a mc or not. sounds like a stupid qu doesn't it

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fettle · 28/01/2007 21:43

Not stupid question at all. I started brown spotting about 19DPO, then on the evening of 21DPO I had bright red blood on the paper when I went for a wee. There was some blood that evening, but none over night and until late afternoon of the next day. It was strange pinky, red blood. On the Friday eve (23DPO), it suddenly turned very red and heavy, but (TMI alert) still not enough to have to change pads throughout night. This red bleeding with some small clots continued for 3-4 days, but never very heavy, that I had to change my pads very often and there was no pain at all. I then got back from holiday the following Thursday, which would have been 29DPO, I did another pg test and it was a BFN. Annoyingly, my thermometer had broken while flying out on holiday, so I couldn't accurately check my temp, but I think it dropped the day after the red bleeding started.

It was strange, I would have expected more bleeding, but the GP said that some people don't bleed excessively as it was a very early pg loss.

Oh darling, I do hope it is nothing for you, but clots don't sound very hopeful - are you still bleeding?

Please see doctor tomorrow, if they can send you for a scan it will reassure things for you one way or another, as it is the unknowing that's been so hard with both my miscarriages.

Sending you some virtual {{{{HUGS}}}. Hope DH is being good?

take care
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fettle · 28/01/2007 21:45

Also, don't feel stupid thinking it wouldn't happen to you - I felt that with both my mc.

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rahrah1 · 28/01/2007 21:48

Hi Greed, I messaged you on the Hut thread... Please Please don't feel bad about being excited.
If you had bleeding in your two previous pregnancies, maybe it's just a bit heavier than before, Some people have bleeding and periods all the way through. Why is pregnancy so bloody difficult! It's times like this I wish I was a man...

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greedyforbabies · 28/01/2007 22:09

i was staying at my mum and dads house last night, minus dh and kids, so when i had my bleeding this mornig i told them what was happening. dont know why really, they do try......but they are hopeless! my dad said "what will be will be!" and my mum asked if we wanted another baby? and then went on to tell me that 3 is a nightmare and we shouldn't have 3 anyway! i know that was her way of trying to console me, but i wasn't too impressed.

greedyforbabies · 28/01/2007 22:11

just snapped at dh and told him i got more support from you lot on here and he has stomped off to bed! guess i shouldn't take it out on him, he is probably upset too, although he didn't believe my bfps in the first place anyway!

rahrah1 · 28/01/2007 22:11

What is it about parents, my parents have been so bloody insensitive recently.. I know they care like yours, but it doesn't make it any easier... !

rahrah1 · 28/01/2007 22:13

Men really do deal with things in different ways. They can hold it together a lot better, but on the inside it really hurts.. I also think it really hurts them to see their partners/wifes so upset and not be able to do anything... When you feel up to it give him a big cuddle..

greedyforbabies · 28/01/2007 22:15

first time i told my mum i was pg (4 yrs ago) she said " oh no! do you want a baby?!"
it wasn't like i was 14 or anything!........we had been married a year and i was 29! why wouldn't i want one!?
they are hopeless sometimes aren't they!

greedyforbabies · 28/01/2007 22:17

i will give him a big cuddle in a minute when i go to bed! (knowing him, he will think i am coming on to him, and start getting the baby oil out!)

OMG! can you imagine how pissed off i would be!!!?????

ammylovesbabies · 28/01/2007 22:18

PMSL!!!!!

Greedy, you do make me laugh xxx

greedyforbabies · 28/01/2007 22:18

i am really glad i came on here tonight, i feel a lot more positive. i was really unsure if to log on or not and i am glad i did! thanks girls, you have made me feel a lot happier.

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fettle · 28/01/2007 22:19

Greedy - go and give DH a cuddle. You need eachother at the moment, if it is a mc. He will not quite know how to deal with you or the situation - they feel lost in situations such as this. Hate seeing their DWs hurting, but are unable to do anything to help. My DH tried hard to cope, but kept hidden everything he was really feeling about the situation. It was easier once he started to cry, as we could talk about it all.

I also think mothers don't quite know what to say either - I know mine sometimes seems insensitive, but I really don't think she means to, she just also doesn't really think about what to say. Although she was great about my mc, as she's had one herself.

Oh, Greedy, I hope it is ok - try and get some sleep now and let us know how you are in the morning.

take care
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ammylovesbabies · 28/01/2007 22:20

goood xxx

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fettle · 28/01/2007 22:21

Lots of crossed posts there!!

Still think you need to talk to DH before you both go to bed.

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fettle · 28/01/2007 22:23

ps I'm glad you feeling better as well - you've made me feel so much more positive many times in the last few months!

Sleep well.

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rahrah1 · 28/01/2007 22:25

Oh...Your husbands one for the old baby oil... Nice...

If he brings that out.. yes I would give him a kick in his nuts!

rahrah1 · 28/01/2007 22:46

I'm off to bed greedy and the girls... Really thinking about you greedy... Hope it all settles down for you...

mum03 · 28/01/2007 22:46

subtle as always rahrah!

more {{{{{{hugs}}}}}} to you greedy.

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