TTC after miscarriage - lucky thread number 3

[Brenna24]

Still hopeing for 3x3 BFPs for this month. Hopefully thread 3 will do that.

And pain, lots of bad crampy pain which is less today also!

Millie I think you should see a doctor for any bleeding after sex. Is your AF due?

I had a lot of cramping and bleeding my first ovulation after my m/c. I thought it was the m/c starting up again and I was so upset. Thankfully not.

I was thinking that too, but trying not to panic! AF prob due 19th onwards but I never have 28 day cycles always longer sometimes up to 36 days so I thought 19 days was far too short!

Thanks Insufficient!

I bled after sex for the first few cycles after my MC. I discovered I still had blood clots from the surgery. May not be that with you millie but worth seeing a doctor? Hope you are ok.

I think DTD can poke and prod leftover material. It's nothing to worry about but you could push your doctor for a scan?

Thanks Hopeful! I often lurk in these chats but everyone is genuinely so helpful when you need to know something!

Probably isn't anything major, especially as you said your other periods have been light so probably just left over blood but better to be safe & get the doctor to check you out

In the test not test dilema at the moment!
I'm 5 days away from being able to test and due af at the end of the week. I'm going on holiday on Sunday so want to know one way or another before we go. I don't feel pregnant at all (except slight nausea which I don't think at this stage has anything to do with a pregnancy). At the same time I don't feel pre-menstrual no idea what's happening with my body!

We are in the same boat I think paco! I'm 4 days away from being able to test according to Ovia but 9 days away from AF. I've had an unusually long LP I think.

Have you checked out your CM? I am going to hold off until Thursday and use a FRER. Driving me insane though. I think I'm almost def out due to lack of symptoms and strange ovulation but I still get anxious about testing.

I am 8 days away from testing. Mum arrives in 5 days (PANIC) and she generally drinks wine with meals and will be very dismissive if I say I am not drinking just in case. She is quite negative and critical anyway and I am just not up to dealing with this. I wish I could just test early and know.

Sounds tough Brenna. Could you use a FRER and test in 2 days time? Have you got any symptoms?

I'm having cramps now, feeling really sick, tired and a bit emotional so think af is on its way. I'm not sure about cm still feel like I have some!

No symptoms so far. I am only 6dpo though. Far too soon. I could try a FRER on Saturday or Sunday but that is still quite early. I have been really good at not testing until after AF has been due up until now (and then not testing as the witch has turned up). I haven't actually done a test since november.

Have had bloods taken as the doc was pretty sure unrelated to previous mc. I get the feeling she thinks it's another mc even though she told me to keep taking my pregnancy vitamins.

Brenna you have nerves of steel, waiting til AF due!!!

I hope you get answers Millie. I have been quite proud of my willpower so far. I may crack this weekend.

Well CD 13 here and ewcm has dried up. Not sure if I'm ovulating or not or if it's going to happen later in my cycle. Fed up of dtd now but I daren't stop just in case.

Do you think you may have ovulated already Loki?

I know how you feel Loki. I have lots of EWCM and the really good kind atm but have being DTD every other day since first getting EWCM at cd 6 and now it's cd13 and running out of steam but because EWCM is at its best right now absolutely have to go for it tonight or in the morning at the latest. If I can convince DP that is, yesterday he was grumbling about not being a machine! He's still a bit achey though after his accident on Friday and so has to keep changing position, poor thing.

I know how you feel Loki. I have lots of EWCM and the really good kind atm but have being DTD every other day since first getting EWCM at cd 6 and now it's cd13 and running out of steam but because EWCM is at its best right now absolutely have to go for it tonight or in the morning at the latest. If I can convince DP that is, yesterday he was grumbling about not being a machine! He's still a bit achey though after his accident on Friday and so has to keep changing position, poor thing.

I had loads immediately after af - from CD 5-11 really. Before the mc I always ovulated on CD 14 but I think it has moved. I don't know. Just going to keep dtd. DH is on an overnight trip with work on Friday so that will be my night off!

Wow, you are very good dtd that often. Good work!
I took 3 tests this weekend, all bfn, although as they were pound shop tests probably not very sensitive and it might have been a bit early as I'm not sure of cycle length now. I was tempted to do a clear blue one this morning, but I thought best not to as I didn't want to depress myself further on my first day back at work, lol. I'm on cycle day 25, so going to try to hold off till Thursday, unless I bleed before then!

Hi everyone hope you're all ok, been lurking around the last few days because I've felt so terrible I couldn't even hold my phone up. It all came to a head today when I collapsed and ended up in A&E, luckily DH was off work sick else I would have been on the floor until someone realised I hadn't fetched the kids from school. Turns out I have something called reactive hypoglycaemia and my bm was 1.4! I'd eaten breakfast but apparently eating makes it worse and causes a massive drop in blood sugar about 4 hours after food. They gave me this horrible sachet of glucose which did the trick and got my bm back up to 4.
So now I have to eat little and often, no caffeine, no high sugar food like chocolate or cake and test my blood sugar if I start to feel shaky.

Have a pounding head ache, I'm exhausted and feeling sick but forcing myself to eat because I don't want to end up in hospital again. What a nightmare and I want to give up ttc because I'm positive there's something wrong with my body that will just cause me more heart ache.