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Pom Poms, Placards and Picket Lines. The Berries are putting up the barricades and will not be crossed! A delightful bunch of 30 something Ladybros TTC #1.

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happylass · 16/12/2015 19:07

The Berries have strict entrance criteria: TTC #1 for 12 months+, over 30, NO instadiffers, must have a special pimping pot and absolutely no mention of baby dust/dancing. Not that we're fussy!

Current Ladybros:

Smidge 39, TTC since Jan '13. Unexplained. Some high NK cell immune treatment. IVF#1 Short protocol Jul'14 BFN; IVF#2 Nov'14 and IVF#3 Feb'15 both Long protocol BFNs; Natural FET Jun'15 - Another BFN. Trying to work out what to do next.



Happylass, 37, TTC since Aug 2012. 3 failed ICSI cycles, 1 failed FET and 1 abandoned cycle due to poor response. Awaiting next and final cycle with own eggs hopefully Feb/March time. HATE THIS SHIT!!



Beaky 35, ttc 3 yrs, 2x failed iui 1 long protocol ivf cancelled, 2 short protocol IVF both BFN, very low amh/poor responder etc. 3rd IVF in January.



Tigerdog, 35, ttc since Jan 2013. Unexplained. IVF #1 chemical pregnancy. Currently redoing tests in preparation for IVF #2.



barkingtreefrog 36, ttc since Dec 2011. clomid bfp summer 2013 then mc @7 weeks, iui bfp summer 2014 then mc @6 weeks. Factor V leiden thrombophilia diagnosed at the repeat mc clinic. IUI bfn Jan 2015, IVF bfn April/May 2015. FET bfn August 2015, remaining frozen embryo perished. Private tests showed high nk cells activity and th1/th2 as well as mthrfr gene. Started downregging for long protocol ivf in Oct 15 plus two intralipid drips, and got pg. Third mc @ 6.4 weeks despite heparin, intralipids, metafolin and prednisolone. Last Ivf attempt starting February 2016 then on to adoption. 



Kuma - 40. TTC 2.9 years. Low AMH high FSH - DH antisperm ABs. Failed IVF June 14 and March 15, cancelled cycle June 15. Last try Jan 16. 



Lucieloos, 36, Low AMH & sperm motility. ICSI#1, April 2015, Czech Republic, BFN. Icsi#2, cancelled before EC. Icsi#3 & 4, Embryo Banking. 3 blasts in freezer. Icsi#5 in Czech in Jan. NHS cycle in Feb / March.




Sesame, 40, ttc 2 years with no dp, multiple failed IVFs, 4 ETs, 1 bfp followed by mc, poor responder with v low AMH, but still looking for the golden egg.

Nolly, 33, TTC 3 years, 1 confirmed MC, 2 more suspected. still in limbo. 



Funkymonk 33. Ttc since October 2012. Mc June 2013, Mmc dec 2013, mc June 2014. Factor v Leiden thrombophilia. Abandoned IVF Jan 2015 due to thin lining. Abandoned FET Aug 2015 due to thin lining. 4 embies on ice. Currently experimenting with different cycles in an attempt to thicken lining.

Clem, 39, ttc since 2013. diagnosed with anovulation by nhs so on a course of clomid. no male factor issues. all other test results have come back okay inc. ovarian test reserves. currently being referred back to nhs for single funded cycle.

Nolly, 33, TTC 3 years, 1 confirmed MC, 2 more suspected. Starting IVF in January.



Antonia79 36, ttc #1 since 2009, adhesions made for sticky insides & one tube removed, confirmed NHS IVF route Sept 15, TTC naturally again as recommended by doctor until IVF cycle starts (early - mid 2016) if not conceived by then.



Grin - 35, TTC 3 years, NFI why I can't get pregnant,, 3 X failed clomid attemots, 2 X ICSI failed fertilisations, 1 x IVF BFN. Doing another cycle in Mar 2016 and thinking of embryo donation.



The Roll of honour:

Pip - Quite simply the Best In Show.
Lumen - The Legend that is....

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beakybeak · 11/01/2016 20:44

Thanks berries. Spare it was from the drugs, they gave me a different anti sickness to the good one the gave me last time Sad How are you doing?

Sesame my brain hurts with all you have to think about! Thanks for the cheering. Quite nervous really.

Barking crazy dreams are the worst. You must be so frustrated. Would you try acu again?

Icy welcome, don't forget to tell us your stats.

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barkingtreefrog · 11/01/2016 20:47

beaky IOTO!!!!

Sesame Arse. It sucks that you have to make the decision before you have all the information.

Good luck to Nolly for tomorrow.

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icy121 · 11/01/2016 21:23

Phew caught up. Lucky I have a 50 min train journey home ;-)

Well feel fairly fraudulent as haven't got anywhere with assisted conception, but here we go.

Icy, 28, ttc over 2 years, never a sniff of a bfp. OH is 47 and by the time he's 50 we'll retire. PCOS, 8 goes at clomid & metformin, weight normal. Laparoscopy and diathermy last July (4 days into new job! Crazy). All hope of getting diffed returned, and so when I got period on holiday in Greece with OH and his 2 kids (10 and 8) I fell to pieces. IVF referral (apparently) went off between Xmas and new year. Going to Nuffield clinic. Self funding everything as existence of OH kids means I qualify for shit (no qualms spending their inheritance). Am angry and bitter and fairly horrible with it too Grin

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SesameSparkle · 11/01/2016 23:20

What's nolly got tomorrow? should I wish you happy birthday?

barking, beaky thanks, my brain hurts too. Confused

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Pipbin · 11/01/2016 23:22

We are all angry and bitter here.

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beakybeak · 12/01/2016 10:01

Sesame Nolly is in for ec today.

Angry and bitter is why I've started to go to counselling.

No news yet, what the fudge. I'm so so nervous.

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beakybeak · 12/01/2016 10:38

Yey both have fertilised normally! Please keep your fingers crossed for me berries. Arghhhh the stress!

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OTheHugeManatee · 12/01/2016 11:00


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sparechange · 12/01/2016 11:06

Amazing news, beaky Grin
Now come on the nollyfollies!

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Smidge001 · 12/01/2016 11:57

Ha ha manatee!
Loving the nollies follies reference spare

As for angry and bitter, I think I've lost the energy to count myself as angry. I'm now just grumpy, bitter and bored.

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SesameSparkle · 12/01/2016 13:17

beaky well done, so glad to hear that the spice girls worked their stuff! Grin Yay! Everything is still crossed for you! Will you have a 2 or 3 day transfer?

nolly there’s some shimmy shake pompoming going on here for you! How’d you get on?

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FortySixandTwo · 12/01/2016 15:52

Hi Ladies,
Room for one more to (re)join ? I was on the thread last year at some point but stopped posting as I seemed to be going in circles waiting for treatment to start but Ive got my start date now and thought i'd pop in and give you all a wave.

My stats are; 38 ttc 3 years, Low AMH and Male Factor, Due to start Progynova this week.

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sparechange · 12/01/2016 18:01

Hi forty
Welcome back and happy to hear your treatment has started.
beaky
We need an embie growth soundtrack, for the post-Barry days

What about 'divide on time' to the tube of 'ride on time'? At least we are all the right age to remember that first time around Wink

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icy121 · 12/01/2016 20:09

Gotta get up gotta get up gotta get up (the duff)

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SesameSparkle · 12/01/2016 22:46

Let it grow

2, 4, 6, 8, never too late

Don't stop dividing

Don't cleave me this way

Embryo and ivory....



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beakybeak · 12/01/2016 23:02

Haha love the soundtrack suggestions for the embies! Spare my other half would particularly love your suggestion!

Thanks for the support berries!

forty hello again, best of luck with your cycle.

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FortySixandTwo · 13/01/2016 08:11

Hi ladies thanks for the welcome hope you're all doing well ?

My theme tune contribution will be
"all about the base(line scan)"

Not a great one but the best I could come up with x

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tigerdog · 13/01/2016 08:52

beaky that's great news. I have everything so very tightly crossed for you, whilst at the same time doing my best Pom-Pom moves . I'm doing ok, feel a bit better now my cycle is about to start and also enjoying wedding planning and that I only have about 10 weeks in my current job to get through. How are you feeling? Did the counseling help at all?

Welcome icy. I think I've also moved over into the bored and resigned phase, but that the anger surprises me sometimes. I had a rare argument with Mr T about nothing in particular at the weekend, and for some unknown reason called him 'cunt-features' at the top of my voice! Must have tapped into the underlying anger. Luckily it actually just made both of us burst out laughing and then stop arguing but I'm not sure I'll live it down! I can't honestly say where it came from!

Loving the song suggestion spare. Racking my brains to think of another one, but struggling - sesame I'm impressed with your selection. Official Berry DJ! Loving it's all about the base(line) scan forty , made me laugh out loud!

Have you got any further with your thinking sesame? Considering the three cycle package suggests you wouldn't be ready to stop after just one, but I guess there are also the practical implications of doing more and spending more to consider. When do you get your blood results?

forty welcome back. Hope we can provide some support. IVF is not as bad as you might think, in many ways. I found the emotional side much harder than the physical.

Barking any sign of af?

happy when's your next scan?

I had my protocol appointment today. Went through the plans - sadly I am too late to start this cycle as expected, so will be waiting until next cycle to start northisterone on day 14. At the moment, EC likely to be around 4th March if (big if) it all goes to plan. Very different to my last clinic - scans and bloods every other day once stimulation starts and EC and ET can be on weekends or any day instead of only fixed days. My first cycle, I had three maybe four scans in total, and no bloods at all so hoping all this extra stuff will help.

Wedding planning going well for those that asked - have had a few bridesmaid dresses delivered (my sis is a petite size 6 so not easy to dress) and try on sessions next week. Spa weekend booked with my two best mates for end Jan in lieu of a hen do, and now just faffing about decorations - so far have sourced 22 tea light holders, 25 metres of bunting, 4 strings of fairy lights, 200 napkins, 5 metres of hessian, and collected many, many jam jars and old pots and cans! All at relatively low cost as have been savvy about seeking out bargains. Will be selling it all on afterwards too so shouldn't be out of pocket by much! It's all quite good fun!

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nolly3 · 13/01/2016 10:05

thanks for all the good luck wishes guys. Just had the call from the clinic - 6 fertilised though egg quality a bit sub par. Hey ho. at least I've got eggs to stress about which makes me one of the lucky ones, I know.

Been awol for ages, hope you're all doign OK and welcome to tbe newbies x

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SesameSparkle · 13/01/2016 12:31

nolly welcome back! Well done on the six embies, that sounds like a good number to me. How are you feeling after ec? How many eggs did you get altogether? Did they say when transfer might be?

forty how are you getting on? What is the treatment cycle that you are starting and do you know your protocol?

happy how about you? How did your scan go?

beaky is it ET tomorrow? Good luck! Keeping all my pompoms crossed for you! Smile

tiger Well done on your protocol appointment, it does looks like you’ll be well looked after. I’m so impressed with all the wedding planning! Nice work on ordering the deccies, it’s gonna look lovely. Where did you order the bridesmaid dresses from? I don’t really know when I stop as chances of success are so very low at this point Sad. I was meant to stop at 3 cycles and be done before I turned 40 but that was from my more optimistic days. But for now, I do want to try at least one round of natural cycle, and I don’t mind going out of my way to do so. Whether that is an experience I will want to repeat I think will depend on how far I get, and how I feel about it then. I’ve been told bloods might take a week to come back.

Meanwhile, DJ Sesame’s got a couple more tunes lined up for nolly and beaky’s embryos:
If you cleave me now…
I will divide!

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barkingtreefrog · 13/01/2016 13:30

I am loving dj Sesame

Great news on 6 nolly Grin
Any more news today on yours beaky?

Nope, tiger despite getting very excited last night when some rummaging discovered some blood tinged cm, there was no blood flowing this morning and nowt since Sad. Got my hopes up I might actually be able to call the clinic and get a start date for the Ivf. Arse. Angry

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FortySixandTwo · 13/01/2016 14:39

Tiger Thanks for the offer of support am sure I will be taking you all up on it and hopefully can offer support to you all too. Exciting times wedding planning if you still need jam jars / glass pots here I have some I could happily send along if you needed ? I collected them for a while in a fit of 'making my own jam' a la the Good Life style but it never came into fruition.

Sesame - Im on Icsi an 8 week programme starting with 15 days of progynova (starts this evening). Just feeling a bit relieved to have got to the starting line as it were.

I've been re-writing the lyrics to all about that bass now to fit in with treatment :) (the things i do to amuse myself are amazing )

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clementineclouds · 13/01/2016 21:59

hi everyone...loving all of the suggestions of the post barry soundtracks... seasame you seem to have a knack for it. Smile

hi forty welcome back. can't wait to see your lyrics for "all about that bass"...there have been loads of parodies of that song on youtube...they always make me smile.

welcome icy

still got some catching up to do...for all those under going treatment, hope all is going okay.

not been on for a while, head just not in the right place...getting a bit fed up with the total lack of movement from the nhs. I'll be hassling my GP in the morning for an update. Have also decided to push forward and revisit all the private fc info, we got at the exhibition last year. had a few vouchers for free consultations with a few of them, so I'll create a shortlist and hopefully get some time in front of them soon, so we can move forward on deciding who to go with.

hope everyone else is okay and sorry for anyone I've missed.

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beakybeak · 14/01/2016 08:36

Tiger sorry to laugh but you shouting "cunt features" at MrT at the top of your voice really made me laugh properly out loud! Glad you are doing ok though and the wedding planning sounds so exciting. I bet it is a really lovely day. And not too long in this job either! Things are looking up. The protocol sounds v interesting, they sound like a very comprehensive clinic. Shame you couldn't get started this cycle.

Woohoo for Nollys 6

Sesame tricky times with the decision making. I agree that it's worth you trying a natural cycle anyway. ET later today if everything is going ok Confused

Barking any sign? Still hoping for you. No updates from the clinic yesterday, eek.

Clem it is such a tough time, keep harassing them and you'll get there. Flowers

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chicken2015 · 14/01/2016 10:40

Hello Hope everyone is well, I had bit of news I had my first Smile on ovulation kit yesterday since Jan 2015 so big deal for me but we will see, we dtd so we will see in few weeks if it worked not sure how long before I do test, I had first period since 18 now 33 on 14th Nov , then had another 26th dec so we will see , can't help but be excited!

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