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Bumsnet - where we get it on and get our BFP!!

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Rainy34 · 24/05/2015 19:38

This is the bus where we will get our BFP, hop on with your summer skirts and grab the bfp 's!!

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Pikz · 26/05/2015 10:14

Purdie incredible news!

nightandthelight · 26/05/2015 10:16

Thanks for the advice chops! Good to know I'm not the only late starter :)

Riceicle1 · 26/05/2015 10:30

Popping out of hibernation just to say congratulations to purdie and oyster Flowers I hope you have a happy and healthy nine months x

purdiepie · 26/05/2015 10:46

Night, I completely understand now.

Thank you, lightyear and... Pikz! One tube, missus, it only takes one tube!

Mummy, I have a 50% chance of miscarriage at my age and I had a mmc at 40. I know what that loss feels like, but you're fabulously young and fecund. It won't be long now until you're smiling again, I promise.

purdiepie · 26/05/2015 10:51

Chops, yes, I'm pretty forgiving, too; not quite in Jesus' league (what with the Romanian gyppos) but I like to let bygones be bygones.

Mummyofonesofar · 26/05/2015 10:59

Purdey I truly hope this pregnancy for you swings towards the other 50% as you've already had to go through this once before. I am heartbroken.

Sorry for hogging all the threads on Mn. I know I'm not the only person to have experienced this so hugs to everyone. Especially those who have experienced this cruelly more than once x Flowers

Beansprout30 · 26/05/2015 11:06

Wow, congratulations purdie ace news!! Hope you have a smooth pregnancy

oyster congrats to you too hunny!

Lots of happy news how fab!

megarobotdiscoparty · 26/05/2015 11:09

Morning ladies of Bumsnet! May I hitch a lift?

34, TTC #2 (DS conceived after 18 months ttc - Clomid baby)

MMC earlier this month so just getting my TTC boots back on. Flowers for mummy - it's horrific isn't it. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Am on cycle #8 now. Waiting for one clear cycle before we get back on the drugs. Am daydreaming about managing a natural, drug free ovulation in the meantime but think my head is in the clouds tbh.

Huge congratulations to purdie and oyster on their BFPs - fingers crossed for plain sailing all the way to baby o'clock. Lovely to see some happy news!

Mummyofonesofar · 26/05/2015 11:22

Welcome mega sorry for your loss too. Flowers for you x

mustbemad71 · 26/05/2015 11:26

Congrats Purdie, great news! Lots of BFPs for old birds like us on the over 40s thread too! I pray that it's a sticky one for you and the 12 WW is not too stressful.

I haven't posted for months as my eldest DC has been seriously ill so no time to be active on here but I do lurk occasionally and I'm so pleased to see so many BFPs on the bus! It was great to hear that Sparkly and Dojo got their BFP again - I remember them as we all had chemicals around the same time.

Mummy so sorry for your loss- it sounded traumatic. Hope you're being supported well in RL. xxx

dojo123 · 26/05/2015 11:31

mustbemad waves

glitteryflange · 26/05/2015 11:40

Morning all
Hope everyone is fine today.
Welcome newbies and long time lurkers Smile

Pug - yeah things are ok with IL's. Arms length and short visits. Things are polite and civil. I'm not prepared to go to any great efforts with them like I did before.

I'm loving these BFP's! Fantastic!

CD20 here. DTD last night again have really Stuck to EOD and BOP after too so crossing my flaps for this cycle. Grin

Beansprout30 · 26/05/2015 11:53

Flaps crossed for you glittery hehe

purdie is your chappie a smoker? Randomly question, just wondered

DizzyMerry · 26/05/2015 12:25

OMG!!! Stop the bus!!!!!!!!!!!! Purdie is preggers, actually upduffed??? Congratulations! That's excellent news. I'm so pleased for you. Sorry about the hysteria I'm just so happy and pleased for you Flowers

DizzyMerry · 26/05/2015 12:34

Rant away mummy we're all here for you. I can't imagine the pain you're going but please talk to us whenever you want to Flowers

DizzyMerry · 26/05/2015 12:36

Cd17 here and I've had a temp drop so that would mean I haven't ovulated yet Shock what's my body doing to me?!

DizzyMerry · 26/05/2015 12:38

Welcome mega. Sorry for your loss. I hope your journey on here is short.

Mustbemad I hope your DC is better now.

frogbubbles · 26/05/2015 13:30

Ah dizzy that makes sense!! Haha

Congratulations purds that's lovely news Smile

Night get on it!! I'm sure you will ace that theory test.

Welcome mega!

Just back from cinema with Neice, I love school holidays cinema club £3 for us both to watch big hero 6!! Better get on with some work then after having a sneaky morning off Smile

Hairstylisttoboris · 26/05/2015 13:31

Ladies not sure if any of you ever read the relationships thread but there is a lady on there who is tTC and whose marriage is suffering. Anyone with any wisdom I am sure would be welcome.

Mummyofonesofar · 26/05/2015 16:31

My friend who was a few weeks ahead of me just posted her scan picture from today on Facebook whilst texting me asking how I was feeling Hmm

Figroller · 26/05/2015 16:54

Mummy sorry for you loss that sounds like bad timing from your friend Flowers

glitteryflange · 26/05/2015 16:57

Mummy how are you feeling today?
Wanna talk?
Shit timing of your friend.
sending you big bear hugs.

aenor · 26/05/2015 17:10

Just de-lurking to say Congrats, Purdie!

Can you post up your final temp chart so we can all pore over it?

Figroller · 26/05/2015 17:25

Purdie wahey congratulations very happy for you my dear. Grin How did you get on at the hospital?

Yes Pug we were holidaying just for a few days. Back today with phone signal so just catching up. Hope you get that temp rise tomorrow Fx.

When do you normally ovulate Dizzy is after cd 17 late for you? Hope you get that temp rise soon.

Good effort from you Glittery flaps crossed for you too.

Welcome Mega sorry for your mmc and good luck with getting back on the saddle hope it happens quickly for you.

Don't be nervous Night I'm sure You will be a quick learner. I admire you for applying to foster.

Sorry you are fed up Woolly hope the witch stays away.

Hello to everyone else (waves) Hope everyone is ok. I am 8 dpo according to FF although when I posted my chart a couple of people said it looked like I ov'd 2 days later than FF so just waiting now...

purdiepie · 26/05/2015 17:27

Aenor! so nice to see a post from you. Yes, I'd love to post my chart; I'm on the train home and will do it as soon as I can.

Beansprout, didn't you see my post about dh's intercourse-thwarting tobacco-stained teeth? Smokes like a bastard chimney. Thin as a take though and, obvs, we're teetotal. However, I don't believe it has anything to do with booze, sugar, caffeine, exercise or orgasms. I think supplements are key and plenty of sperm (which we never managed before AI. The pressure-less syringe method has made us pregnant, no doubt in my mind - and this is the first month we did it rod instead of night after night. DH is 46 and as such needed the alternate nights off to replenish his ancient sperm. Probably. Then there's the matter of catching the right egg; not every one of our eggs are viable (as we can see from the miscarriages) and that is the case even for fertile women.

Mummy, mc is bewildering and massively ragey. I felt homicidal at times and hugely resentful of other preggos. I hope you feel able to express your saddest feelings here without feeling guilty about it. You have so many friends here who want to see you through this xx

Robot, it is so nice to see new people here but sad when it is on the back of a mc. I hope you're happy again with a bfp really soon.

Bozzer, I will nip across to that lady when the tot's gone to bed.

Dizzy, I can't get me 'was around this shit. I was about to email my IVF form today!