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This is the bus where we will get our BFP, hop on with your summer skirts and grab the bfp 's!!

queen cycle ticking along nicely then! Got a test day in mind? Hope you're not feeling too dizzy lizzy- stand up slowly now...

Boris I have no words... the imagination is a wicked thing when left to its own devices and I hope this is just yours playing mean tricks on you. Counselling sounds like the perfect way to take back some control. Please don't give up hope.

nomio hope you've got your pjs on and the most indulgent fluff on the telly!

Thanks ladies. I'm home alone tonight and feeling shit. I've given up so much for this man, a job I loved, friends and a great lifestyle to start again. I though its be ok coz Id have a baby quickly. Got that so wrong. I do appreciate the support though. I'm honestly not normally this self interested or miserable. I used to be fun, and will be again.

I sure have! I am watching the last 2 episodes of Nashville online. It is pure cheesy trash!

Boris you're feeling crap because it sucks, you're allowed to be miserable. It ain't over til the fat lady sings though, I promise. You just need to get a bit more of a handle on what he's thinking, sounds like you've only got half the story at the moment. And you will feel better and fun again, you will! All those things are still you, they're still in there right now. We can see them!

nomio I bloody love Nashville.

Me too, Robot!

I just got asked in the middle of my exercise class whether I have any children!!! By the instructor. In front if everyone. Luckily I didn't collapse in a blubbering mess on the floor.

Boris, sounds like you need some tlc. Do you have anyone in RL you can see and talk to about this? Virtual hugs just aren't the same. Xx

Oh and thank you all for the AF commiserations, it's fine, I expected it. Xx

I hope you are ok, Sammy. I hate it when people ask that.

jumps on the pug and boris* hugfest

boris I'm so sad that you're sad. BUT it is so positive that you're going to relate. And so positive that DH has agreed to it. Please try to be kind to yourself, and look after yourself. Xxxx

mega going to try to wait until Friday, after my naughty 7DPO peeing.

Fricking Mn ate my post.

jumps in to join the pug and boris hugfest

b I'm sad you're sad. BUT it's so positive that you're going to Relate. And so so positive that DH has agreed to it. You will get there and you'll get your baby. Promise.

mega going to try to wait until Friday....

It didn't eat my post! Oopsie!

Haha no it didn't Queen and now we all know you poas at 7DPO like a madwoman! When will you get your blood test results?

To those of you that said DH would 'make it up to me'.... I cooked dinner for 8pm, he was in the middle of his sodding xbox game and told me to put it in the oven and he'd be through soon. He's just got it out 10 mins ago and is eating it on his lap, still playing his game I'm going for a shower then to bed soon as have to be up at silly o clock again tomorrow. I hope he starves when left on his own except being the stupid good wife I am I have stocked the fridge for him with easy stuff

thepug I'm thinking of starting a new career, teaching men to man up and be better husbands. Wanna send yours for a trail date?
Or, maybe you can just accidentally break the Xbox?

I think he needs a slap, Pug!

night how comes you are having an early scan? Is all ok?

Boris Yes! When can you take him? And please don't send him back til he's fully husbandtrained. I am actually thinking about hiding the xbox when I leave in the morning and he is fast asleep. That'll teach him. Just not sure where I could hide it that would be quick & easy as I'm not getting up even earlier to do it. I don't want to break it as it's useful for watching catchup tv through but he could definitely do with a few days without it. Hmmm. Plotting...

Put the controllers in the same place as the Hoover (bet he'd never look there?)

I am paying for it Boris as am going to Spain in July and don't want to leave the country without knowing that everything is ok :)

I imagine the washing machine isn't somewhere he looks often pug

night oh good :)

Or the dishwasher?

Pug just take the fuse out of the plug.

Sorry I've not been around just been taking some time out. 18 months is a long time ttc and I needed a break.

Boris I just want to scoop you up and look after you. Please get talking yourself and DH with someone who can help. Both DH and I have had counselling (separately as I had mine before I met him) and it's helped both of us loads but also it taught us how to talk to each other.

Pixa, sammy, mega and I'm sure I've forgotten people I am so sorry for af

Night I said it on Facebook but congrats!

Will read back some more

Pug just take the fuse out of the plug.

Sorry I've not been around just been taking some time out. 18 months is a long time ttc and I needed a break.

Boris I just want to scoop you up and look after you. Please get talking yourself and DH with someone who can help. Both DH and I have had counselling (separately as I had mine before I met him) and it's helped both of us loads but also it taught us how to talk to each other.

Pixa, sammy, mega and I'm sure I've forgotten people I am so sorry for af

Night I said it on Facebook but congrats!

Will read back some more

Excellent suggestions ladies!

I am loving these ideas for hiding the X-box! Do it, Pug!