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[Rainy34]

This is the bus where we will get our BFP, hop on with your summer skirts and grab the bfp 's!!

Another high temp! I want to POAS at 9dpo

Don't do it pixa! Your chart is looking lovely but 9dpo will in all likelihood be a BFN which you won't actually be able to trust and will just lead to more anxiety :)

Night how is your chart looking? Please tell me you also sustained a temp rise?!

Here it is pixa Slight dip but nothing significant (I don't think). Have had a sore throat every morning recently so should I discount the temps due to illness?

Lovely chart Night! I have no idea about discarding temps, but I would think not. When did you first wake up with a sore throat? FF thinks AF BFP is due on Sunday for me. How about you? Are we going to be BFP buddies?

Sunday also! This is so exciting!

Sore throat since Tuesday.

If illness was going to have an impact, I would have imagined a higher temp on Tuesday as well, I think. Purely anecdotal obviously. I am so pleased we have our holiday next week, I will either be too excited or drinking and commiserating.

Night and Pixa - fingers crossed for you both!
My chart is lovely and stable again, but fairly sure I'll be seeing a drop tomorrow!

Fingers crossed for you Sammy.

waves to everyone

ooo night and pixa, looking good ladies! Excited for you both.

purdie don’t lurk too hard please, we’re so happy for you but really value your wisdom and support and

thanks for all the sympathy, you’re all lovely.

giggling at megas capes and rayguns. hope your wtf cycle sorts itself out very soon.

nomio afraid I don’t know what all them there numbers mean, but woo for sperms!

woolly wowzers, that's a lot of non TTC sex. you must be a sex fiend

As I’ve got my doctors appointment later today, I thought I’d POAS. Of course it’s much too early (probably only 7DPO if that), and of course it’s a BFN. I know I’m not out until the red witch --oozes out of my bits— arrives, but I’m still a bit bummed out. This TTC malarky is rubbish!

7dpo queen!

Fx your temp stays up Sammy :)

Am worried I am getting my hopes up for nothing.

Yes Queen, 7dpo is far far far far twerly! I hope your appointment goes well.

Night, exactly the same here. Far too excited, but realise I will probably get a bfn on Sunday because AF is a bitch. DH has told me I am far too excited, but I told him that if this is the closest I am getting to pregnant for a while, then I just want to live in my silly little dream world whilst keeping everything crossed. You are not alone in this!

Glad we can go through this together pixa! Fx we are both pg :)

night pixaand sammy all looking promising ladies.

frog lovely lady I am so sorry you feel so down. Completely understandable.

purdie excited that your hcg levels have doubled! But you'll be missed massively here.

queen hope the doctor can help you today.

mega loving the Cape ideas... I want ricket boots with mine....

I'm in your dream world with you Pixa, it's a nice place to be. Will be feverishly flag-waving for you and night on Sunday! Ride the rollercoaster!

Queen good luck for your appointment. You are actually insane POASing at 7dpo!

Well my murky mud-tastic AF seems to have dried up completely after 48 hours. No idea what to think! Am I in a new cycle? Am I still at the back end of the old one? What the blimmin fudge! I may as well make myself comfy on the back seat of this bus....think I may be here for a while

Boris we can have ricket boots AND rocket boots

Ha ha, oops mega

Sammy won't you test?

night & pixa good charts! Fx or you both.

Hugs to frog and Mega.

I have a GP appt today to get signed off a few more days. Got a friend to drive me there then we are going out for tea and cake and a walk by some bluebells. Miserable weather though!

mummy it sounds like you have some good friends and neighbours. I'm pleased you are being looked after. How is your DH? Be good to yourself, it can't be easy at all.

Ladies, I just wanted to say that I am so grateful to have met you all. I love this bus and it's supportiveness!

Boris he has bottled it up and won't talk about it. He saw me reading an article last night about the loneliness of miscarriages and got upset I might be feeling like that too. But the only other person who went through it with me was him and he isn't talking!!

Sammy how many dpo are you? Fingers crossed for your temps!

Good luck too to night and pixa for the weekend. Exciting couple of days ahead to stalk :-)

Big hugs mummy hope you can get dh to open up soon x maybe he's afraid if he talks he will cry and doesn't want to look weak in front of you? Who knows what goes through men's minds x

Oh mummy that's rough on you. Is this normally how he copes with stuff? It might well be that he doesn't want to seem weak, or internally process it, or doesn't know how to support you or any number of reasons I guess. To echo chops, I Hope he opens up soon. X