Bumsnet - where we get it on and get our BFP!!

[Rainy34]

This is the bus where we will get our BFP, hop on with your summer skirts and grab the bfp 's!!

Hi mummy - no I won't, not unless I'm late and af due Sunday according to FF. I just can't see it happening for us after this long.

Chops - I'm 13dpo, I've never gone beyond 14 dpo without a temp drop so I'm sure I'll see a drop tomorrow. Xx

sammy I hope for you that you are proved wrong. See exhibit. a - chops!

He deals with all bad things like this in silence. Last night he said I am the "day to day strong one" and he is the "shit has hit the fan strong one". So he is looking after me but I am so desperate to hear him express some sorrow or acknowledge that it was a really shit thing we went through.

frog sorry to hear that you're feeling down, I hope you slept well. Please don't apologise for moaning on here, it is exactly the place that you should come to vent and have a chat.
Mummy just go for it! As previously mentioned a BFP in your wtf cycle is harder to date, but it means extra scans. Enjoy tea with your friend.
Robot it sounds like a new cycle, enjoy your gin!
night keeping fx for you.
Boris your boss sounds evil, sounds like a tough week, I hope you have a good weekend.
Purdie fab news about your HCG!

Wow, lots of good high temps around today. It would be amazing if you all got BFPs, Night, Pixa & Sammy!

Night, when my sister was PG with DS1, her first signs were feeling like she was getting a cold, so your sore throat could be a good thing!

Queen, I agree it is way twerly, but I have also tested at 7DPO before. (More than once.)

Mummy, I am so pleased you have lots of support, especially if DP is a bit withdrawn right now. Enjoy your walk.

mummy your day sounds lovely. Hope your doctor's note brings a bit more space and peace of mind too. My DH was exactly the same, he just wouldn't talk to me or anyone about it and was convinced he was fine when he clearly wasn't! I am rubbish at not talking about how I feel so found support elsewhere, then managed to prod him into talking to friends (texted his mate explaining what had happened and asked him to take him out to the pub to let off a bit of steam). I also persuaded him to tell his family, which did him good and was great for me as they're local (my family aren't) and they really looked after both of us. I'm not sure I would class clamming up as being strong, although I'm sure he thinks he is being! Everyone just deals with things in their own way I suppose. I hope you can find a way to help him - even if he hasn't got anyone to open up to, just being there and making sure he's ok will help I'm sure.

Also - you ARE being strong working through this! I can see that what he says is his way of rationalising things and this is no criticism of him but I can't bear the thought of you thinking for a second that you're being weak. AT ALL. Just remember that. There's an old saying "the reed the bends with the wind remains the straightest". I really believe that. You will come back from this stronger than ever

Pep talk over! Everybody back to work!

Your charts are looking promising night, pixa and sammy. I have my fx for you.

Queen 7dpo is way twerly.

Frog how are you feeling today?

Robot that's confusing. I hope someone has some advice as I'm completely baffled by that.

Mummy I hope you can have a heart to heart with your DP. He is obviously holding it together for you and it could be that he is worried of your reaction if he let his feelings out. My DH is similar in withdrawing because he doesn't want to see me break down. I do hope you can talk through this.

As for me FF thinks I ov on cd11 and the cover line was marked today. What do you lot think? Is it right? I'm still getting faint lines on IC.

purdie and anyone else who studies charts on FF - I seem to ovulate on CD 11. Which I've seen on here is a source of worry to other women. Of the charts that lead to bfps - do any of them have women who ovulate this early?? Or would I be a medical miracle to conceive which such an early OV? I have a 12 day lp. I seem to be able to put OV back 1-2 days by taking soy.

dizzym I'm sorry I can't be sure with your chart. Your faint lines on ic, how faint are they??

Dizzy my chart is quite similar to yours. My temp rose above the coverline today again. I haven't done an opk for a while but have ewcm today so not sure what is going on.

I ovulate early too Boris and it worries me sometimes I also have short cycles not sure on luteal phase this is my first month temping.

Sorry I have no answers to offer but would be grateful of advice too from some of the more experienced people.

Night, Pixa and Sammy your charts all look very impressive I am rooting for you all.

Mega blubbed reading that. Thank you. Where I would be without these groups I have no idea.

DizzyM thank you. I am hoping he opens up soon.

Off to search FF for early on BFPs.

Fig I've been getting ewcm too so not idea what's going on. Boris I usually ov on cd13 but my lp varies. We need Dr Purdie on the case!

Some charts for you all. Early October - cd11- even one where FF isn't sure of ovulation. Ranging 4 - 14 months ttc. And one even after a mc.

Wtf October!!? clearly that should be ov....

Thanks Mummy so there is some hope for us.

There were lots of early ov charts for absolutely hope for everyone.

Oh thank you mummy x

boris and fig the month i conceived I ov'd cd12 so it is possible for it to be successful. My cycles were around the 26/27day mark.

dojo thanks :) great to know!

I think I should start temping so I can join the charting crew...

My wrists are slapped. No more twerly peeing. Promise.

Thanks mummy that's reassuring. I just have a feeling that FF has got it wrong and I haven't ov this cycle.

Queen I recommend temping but hopefully you won't need to start!

Love everyone's sustained temps. who is testing tomorrow?
mopes in dark and below cover line temps
Soo-ooo xposting here but AF is weird. More than spotting but pinky watery on wiping or brown bits on a light pad. Second day of this. I'm wondering if the progesterone I'm taking for the short lp is somehow working at keeping things a bit more intact? nomio what did your prog lp look like near the end? I am in no way considering if this would be intact enough to support an embryo. Not at all. Thought hadn't even crossed my mind.

That's reassuring info Dojo

I like temping so far Queen although maybe it is a novelty that would wear thin if I had to keep doing it for some time..

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