TTC after MC#6 - the lucky one for all of us!

[Romeolovesjuliet]

New thread. Hoping for lots of lovely BFPs over the coming weeks

There's a link at the top of the page usually. I'll copy it for you....

www.mumsnet.com/info/acronyms

Sorry for the long catch up - here goes!!

paws I also wouldn’t put it off for a holiday, though we may have to put it off a few months as we are going to a wedding abroad of very good friends of ours next August and cannot fly too late into pregnancy so if we can’t time it to pop one out beforehand we may have to delay ttc. Sorry to hear you and MrPaws are not getting on, you can’t be TTC in separate rooms!! Get talking to him and I hope he can be more supportive x

drifting sorry about FF changing your ov day – but it could be wrong! Say positive lovely. I also get that feeling of missing a month that could have been “the month”. We were going to avoid a December due date but decided not to and that was our BFP month! Also my “good” month on FF was a BFP rather than our “high” month!

keys sorry you’ve been very confused but glad you have got a definite answer on the frer today. I hope you get the all clear infection wise then you will be maybe in your tww

carrot sorry AF is so awful – I am with you on the yarning for a sibling for DS!

Tft I don’t think you will get an accurate opk result if you still have some HCG in your system so would wait for a negative but for DTD I was from a nearly negative.

lilbirdie gosh what an awful journey so far. I am sending you very sticky baby dust!

Disney 10DPO is far twerly!!! Stay positive lovely. If you implanted late then you wouldn’t have a positive even on a frer.

I am temping and my temp didn’t rise today so didn’t ov yesterday. Plus I am taking 2 epo every night and my cm is still rubbish! Not happy, but at least as I haven’t ov’d yet I can get some more dtd in. CD22 post mc here – usually have a 27 day cycle so will get ready for a long old wait for AF!

tft I'm sure you could get a private scan if you explained the situation to the clinic ? Maybe you'd need to call round a few different ones to see if a consultant could see you rather than a sonographer ? I know when I heard him say 'you're completely healed and the lining is healthy' I gave a massive sigh of relief even though I hadn't ever considered that the lining might not be healthy !!

Adventure happy for you getting that 'broody' feeling for the first time now the craziness really starts! You'll be secretly temping, hiding opks and getting to know your cervix position before you know it! Enjoy

Thanks for the link

adventure congrats on the getting broody - hope its a nice quick journey from there to bfp.

carrotvan I'd have thought it sounds a little too heavy to be breakthrough bleeding? BUT I've heard of stranger things on here so you never know.

keys sorry for the bfn but at least you have a clear starting point now - I hope the infection is clearing up well too

tft if you're concerned could you call your EPU instead of having to pay to go private (although i'm sure there are places which do it). I had a follow up a week after my medical management to give me the all clear.

Agree with Disney I'm sure if you asked EPU you could get a check up scan ?

Well 3 weeks post mc and 4 days post ovulation, I'm in a heck of a mood; grumpy, grouchy and feeling very clingy. Poor dh, dd isn't at her best either, he gets hit by her everytime he gives me a cuddle.

Trying really hard not to symptom spot as most of what I'm feeling has a reasonable explination. But I've got a niggling headache I can't shift, can't stop drinking and peeing; I'm blaming on the heat and too much sunshine. Tender boobs; dd keeps head butting me as she's trying to get as close as possiable to cuddle. Aching back; being climbed on constantly. Although not sure how to expalin away the sicky feeling I've had since lunchtime unless I'm grazing.

It's going to be a long few weeks waiting for AF or until I'm ready to test. Looking forward to WTF cycle being over one way or another.

Keys really hoping you get the all clear from the infection soon.

Also to add to my moaning. It seems everytime I look in the mirror I've got a new spot!

Heya my lovely ladies just got out of hospital had scan bloods everything is negative and clear and yea I am Ovulating as well they see on scan was today egg been released so hubby in for some loving lol.

On a more sencier note I was watching my other 2 play today thinking what if the baby survived made me cry maybe I'm not as strong as i first thought I was.

I know its a Monday but cracked open the wine what the hell soon I won't be able to drink for over a year so I'm going to make the most of it.

I just want to say (wine not talking ain't even opened yet) but the support of you ladies towards me have helped me in so many ways even in using code to others I know was kinda aimed at me not to hurt me but protect me. I just want this opertunity to say thank you and honestly even through I've never met you feels like I've got really good friends. I Honestly hand on heart wishing you all bfp's so soon so we can all move over together.

Amazing strong ladies all of you xx

carrot I'm such a positive person even though been through so much. To me That seems very weird and I'm hoping it's spoofing symptoms for you. We are so needing a bfp on this site keeping everything crossed( for you (except legs for a few days) haha. Good luck Mrs van xxx

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Gl dobby hunni sounds so positive as well xx

Aww bless you keys big hugs for you! I struggle looking at DS wondering what the baby would have been like. Knowing it would have grown into a character like DS.

I'm pretty sure I'm still not pregnancy keys - onwards to next month!

I know what you mean about this thread. Good folks here

I 5think you know deep down carrot I've always been right with my gut feelings. Massive hugs on bring on july were so due a bfp :) xx

carrot I know what you mean!!! I had spotting, then very heavy (actually woke up wet and had to change bed) then just trialled off???!!! I stupidity thought it may be related to pregnancy, as I was peeing like nobody's business too! Felt sick,tired, very hormonal.....but I have harshly learned its all just a 'Glorious WTF cycle AF' ...feel so silly to have thought it was a new pg.....sucks doesn't it? Glad its over now x
mummy thanks for your post, we kinda are getting on better...slowly...spoke to him and he said he's happy to keep ttc straight away, as long as I think I will be ok on holiday! I said to him "well I'm not much of a drinker on holiday anyway, and I would rather be a 'mummy-to-be' than get pissed a couple of times"

Going to DTD every other day this week, due to ov. Sunday FC!!!
Gonna try my opks as from tomorrow to confirm ovulation day, not that it matters when dtd every two days as it guarantees you can't miss it!
Wish me luck ladies, I feel a BFP coming end of June xxx

Tis a lovely little thread this one!

So nice to read your post keys, I can actually feel your relief and positivity. Sending massive hugs!

Thanks ladies for info ref period after mc, that's really put my mind at rest.

I was very similar to some of you ladies, we had planned on thinking about Another one at some point this year and then had a pleasant surprise. Took us ages to get used to the idea and it was actually the mc, and how upset I was that made me realise I really want a another baby.

Don't rule yourself out just yet disney!

Hope you all had a lovely Monday ... Mine was ok ... For a Monday anyway!

dobby the WTF cycle can really mess your hormones up...i was completely convinced I was pg and that AF wasn't going to show her ugly face ! Had bad headache since ovulation, felt sick, wanted to permanently kill dh, boobs hurt, need i go on lol?! ............Oh how wrong I was...
Your body is constantly trying to regulate your hormones and get back on track. So we are extra sensitive to these hormones after mc. Mc is literally a trauma to the brain and it takes a while for it to recover and get back to normal.... But you never know hun, you might be one of the lucky ones who falls pg in WTF cycle...fc for you x

keys sorry about your BFN hun...big hugs to you. But at least you know where you stand now...only up from this point ( I keep telling myself)
Fc for a BFP next cycle x

adventure lovely to hear your news!!! Stay in touch... X

SPOTS SPOTS!!! Everyday I wake up with a new creator on my face ... AND BACK ..WTF exactly!

keys that nearly made me cry! I feel very welcomed onto this thread ... I do feel like I've made new friends... I hope we all get to move on together too! I know I've only been on this thread a short while, but I was so apprehensive about moving over from the headwreck thread...

Thank you so much everyone for making me feel welcome

keys catch that egg asap,... You only have 12-24 hours and sperm takes 6 hours to swim up to the fallopian tubes!!! Hope you got Mr. Keys on standby lol! Xx

Thanks paws I really don't want to test for a while so think there's a good chance of AF appearing before then. Don't want to test until I've cleared the 6 weeks mark, whenever that happens, so I'm past the point when I mc. Not sure if I really want to fall on the wtf cycle or not, but was sure I didn't want to miss a cycle in case it was the one. As I said I can't wait for this to be over so I feel a bit more like me again.

It's my birthday tomorrow, I'm determined to have a happy day because dh has planned some lovely things for me to do with dd. I've been looking forward to it for a few months and don't want to ruin it by feeling like I have today. Working hard to shake this grump of a mood.

Happy birthday for tomorrow dobby

I had a moment of crazy. I had some spotting, instantly thought it could be implantation spotting, saying what if I ov'd as soon as hormones levelled out and the positive opk was actually because I am pregnant again. Very nearly tested before I got hold of the grip, had a cry and got over it. It makes us so crazy!!! Anyway - got some ov like pains so fingers crossed this is it!

dobby happy birthday for tomorrow hun xxx

I know I've posted a lot on here today, so will put the phone down after this I promise as I'm probably driving all you gals crazy now! Any ways, how often is best to dtd...every day in week up to O or every other day? I read doctors used to say every other day, but now they say every day to keep sperm fresh and healthy? I spoken to dh but he just gets annoyed and says "see your still going on about effing baby stuff" ...Well yes of course I am, I've had a miscarriage and want to be pregnant again, and certainly don't want to jeopardize possible conception!
How the heck do I make it less of a chore? I don't even think he wants to do it most the time...feel like I'm a crazy lady fighting a losing battle

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