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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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ttc after mc- the best shit place to be! #3

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northdownmummy · 05/01/2015 19:27

looking forward to new beginnings in the new year

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CarrotPuff · 05/02/2015 10:00

Guy sorry to hear about work worries. I hope it resolves soon.

Well done Teenie on DTD! It's like riding a bike isn't it

molly I hope you OH gets over his man flu soon! My DP is the opposite - he gets quite randy when he's ill

chasing I know it's easier said than done, but worrying will not make things better. Concentrate on your weight loss right now, hopefully it will be enough to keep your mind busy! Or sign up for some kind of race...

MrsD step away from Google! You are still in your early 30s, and you have done this before, so your body is fully capable of carrying a child. Maybe it just needs some time? {{{hugs}}}

MrsC life can be such a bitch... I hope you have something planned for that day to keep your mind off it

It seems like the spotting has finally stopped. We even managed to DTD last night... Really needed that closeness... Going to POAS tomorrow. Please let it be BFN...

TeenieDeenie · 05/02/2015 12:15

Thanks Carrot. We also DTD on Tuesday night as well just for fun ;) OH pulled out when he 'got there', not sure what that was about but am now in fertile window so will DTD tonight and few times over the weekend hopefully. I think we both just need to get back into the swing of things so trying to concentrate more on closeness and fun rather than baby making this month... But you know, if it were to happen, that'd be ok too... :)

Glad you also managed to DTD and feel that closeness again Carrot. Also got my fingers tightly crossed for a bfn for you!

Snoopysimaginaryfriend · 05/02/2015 15:01

carrotpuff it's weird isn't it, waiting for a bfn. I hope you feel some sort of closure.

Well work is shit! I turned up for my new 'office' job today, they didn't know who I was or why I was there and there isn't a desk for me anyway. To rub salt in the wound there are three women in there who are six months plus pregnant! I just want to spend the next 8 months not thinking about babies until I have one of my own.

Called the GP today, explained I had started cyclogest as prescribed by the private doctor. They were pleased but said they would do full antenatal blood tests as well as my thyroid levels. My mum says I should be pleased they are being so supportive but I'm scared they'll find something wrong I hate being so paranoid

mollym14 · 05/02/2015 19:47

carrot fingers crossed for a bfn and happy to hear that you've stopped spotting.

snoopy that sounds rubbish with work. I know what you mean about working with pregnant ladies- hard to have that reminder day in day out! Great that your docs seem to be on the ball. What does the cyclogest help with do you mind me asking? Try to keep those positive vibes up- we're all rooting for you.

gingerbreadmam · 05/02/2015 19:59

poas addiction has taken over again today. poas this morning bfn. poas tea time and what looks like a very very feint bfp. af not due until monday.

i dont know what to think or feel. i want to get massively excited but what if its wrong or what if it all goes wrong agai. how do you get through this part?

CarrotPuff · 05/02/2015 20:37

Ooh ginger sounds promising! Are you going to POAS tomorrow again? please do

gingerbreadmam · 05/02/2015 20:42

yep already got a test lined up for the morning. scary times.

TeenieDeenie · 05/02/2015 21:11

Ooh gingerbread, how exciting! What kind of tests are you using? You need to get a frer... Also how many dpo are you?

gingerbreadmam · 05/02/2015 21:21

i think im 10 / 11 dpo. just some cheap home bargains ones. dont want to waste money on an expensive one yet just incase something weird has caused the feint line. realise im a bit early as af not due until monday.

TeenieDeenie · 05/02/2015 21:27

Ooohhhh... Defo could be a bfp then :) I'd test tomorrow and even if a faint line then buy a FRER for Saturday!!! Really hope it is! X

gingerbreadmam · 05/02/2015 21:34

if i get a feint line again first thing ill assume i am pregnant. so nervous after the last time.

TeenieDeenie · 05/02/2015 21:50

I can only imagine hun, I'm not even thinking that far forward, just hopped on the ttc train again at the weekend but can guarantee I will be the same if/when it happens... Can only test again in the morning and take it from there. We're all here for support! X

CarrotPuff · 05/02/2015 22:23

I'm keeping everything crossed for you ginger!

MsJupiter · 05/02/2015 23:16

Feeling so sad tonight. I was in a meeting today where they kept talking about stuff that was happening in June and all I could think about was that I should have been on maternity leave then. I just want my baby back.

I don't feel like I am ever going to get pregnant again. I feel very distant from DH and I don't feel like having sex at all.

gingerbreadmam · 06/02/2015 05:53

hmm jus tested again this morning. wasnt any clearer. im using 25mlu tests should i try a 10 one? does anyone know what morrisons own are?

mrsj i think you go through stages like that and it will be a long time until you forget all about june. laid in bed i kept thinking if i do have a bfp 4 month scan would probs b may june if i take 9 months maternity ill go back to work when mmc would have been 1 in june.

its ok to feel sad about it all. you will get there though and you will get a bfp. everything will work out ok. hope youre feeling a bit better today.

chasingtherainbow · 06/02/2015 07:15

mrsj I'm so sorry things are tough right now. I have a similar way of thinking at times and it can make me really tearful.

I hope today seems brighter!

Ginger can you post picks? I don't think any shops stock 10mui- only those cheap strip things from the Internet but I never got a positive on it until my hcg was over 400!!!! So I think they're rubbish tbh. Xxx

gingerbreadmam · 06/02/2015 07:17

ive posted pics of yesterdays on the inpatient two week wait thread, im jus on phone at min so cant do it. going for asda tests now lol.

mollym14 · 06/02/2015 07:29

ginger sounds very promising especially since you were so convinced over the past week! Everything crossed for more lines.

MsJ sorry you're feeling down. If find myself frequently thinking the same about July onwards and about anything in work from then on should have been sort of irrelevant to me as I would have been on leave. I had a dream a few nights back where a friend told me to stop crying about it and get over it, and said "it was just a miscarriage" and for some bizarre reason I have been feeling really sad since, even though it was just a dream. Feeling really tearful even just writing it down.

Snoopysimaginaryfriend · 06/02/2015 07:43

ginger I have everything crossed for you.

I think I've messed up. I took another test this morning and the line is practically non existant. No sign of Af but I'm scared now this will be a chemical pregnancy.

I'm so stupid. I just can't face this anymore

chasingtherainbow · 06/02/2015 07:44

Definitely seems like a line in that first pic!

Patiently waiting for you to POanotherS!

chasingtherainbow · 06/02/2015 07:46

Wow snoopy hold on. I can't remember what tests you've done so far.. but what test have you used right now that's non exsistent? My lines always got darker the older the test got

mollym14 · 06/02/2015 07:49

snoopy was it the same type of test?

CarrotPuff · 06/02/2015 08:17

Ginger it's still very early. If you POASed so often during the night I don't think it counts as fmu...

Snoopy it could just be a different test?

Mine's still a positive and the line is same darkness as last week I think. Going to give EPU a ring...

gingerbreadmam · 06/02/2015 08:23

Right ive done an asda test and am on the computer so attached is the asda test (blue) done about half an hour ago and the cheap accunew 25mlu one done last night (pink). oh ive added two pics one with flash and one without.

oh carrot are you still testing from mc? I would speak to epu or gp.

ttc after mc- the best shit place to be! #3

mollym14 · 06/02/2015 08:39

Looking good ginger- congratulations!!

snoopy thinking of you & hand-holding. Maybe you drank a lot of water yesterday and so it was more diluted?

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