ttc after mc- the best shit place to be! #3

[northdownmummy]

looking forward to new beginnings in the new year

oh heck lot of us having bad days today. sending u a bit of strength reverse. hope ur meeting goes ok. baby bombs r awfuk.

ive got first counselling session today. dreading it as i know it will mean an hour of crying. also going back to counsellor i saw about EA from dp, did last session wk i got bfp. scared of what she will think of me.

Ginger I'm having counselling for my mc's and have to say it's pretty good and very cathartic

ginger test 3 not sensitive one is a faint but much stronger line! the colour has just drained from my face!!

Congratulations MrsE! Hoping for a very boring and happy 9 months for you.

Evans click on the paper clip icon below and attach a picture will you? hugest congratulations to you. Hope you have a happy and uneventful 9 months.

I think talking it through with someone impartial is a great idea x

thank you! I don't believe it! booked a docs app to get them.to clarify because I think my eye are playing tricks!

MrsE! Congrats, I knew it when you said you felt full, couldn't get comfy... that's exactly how I felt when I got my bfp in October. Glad the tests are stronger today too, yay! Massive congrats to you and your oh! x

oh wow mrse what fabulous news! well that has certainly brightened my day!

congratulations and as others have said heres to a happy and healthy 9 months.

i really benefitted frm counselling for the other issue and the counsellor was lovely so i am looking forward to seeing her again and getting on the road to recovery mentally as well. thanks.

ah I think it won't let me because I'm in a phone app!! give me a sec and I'll get on the web, you ladies can tell me if you think my eyes are playing tricks

Brummie I too am glad you are not in work today . You sound to have a well planned day to get you through.

Congrats again MrsEA

chasing you're on the home run now.

Knicker watch here. Brown spotting now.

Wow congratulations MrsEvans!

I also love a good line spotting pic

Here we go, yesterday's faint line tests

Today's slightly bolder line. Excuse the instructions DP wanted to check I'd read it right!

Thems some good lines evans woooo!

thanks I've been working on them!! here goes a nerve wracking 12 weeks!!

definitely lines eeekkk! congratulations (nice nail varnish too!)

haha thanks ginger! my nice decided I needed a bright colour! 7 year olds eh!

Hi ladies, can I join you? I'm currently recovering from my second round of medical management for a mmc discovered at m 12 wk scan. Ended up in A&E on Friday with extreme bleeding so feeling pretty battered and bruised as I was hooked up to drips etc and they had to fish everything out by hand (sorry). Would have been baby 3 for us so I am very lucky to have a 15 month old and almost 3 yr old already. Despite that I am finding this mmc very hard to come to terms with (also had one in my very first pregnancy) as the baby already felt so real and would have had its place in our little family. We plan to wait until I get my next AF but then hope to ttc again - not sure how I will get through another 12 wks but you just find a way, don't you.

Going to read back now and try and catch up x

oh romeo how awful its very early days for u i hope u r ok. i had a similar experience with failed medical management and them trying to manually remove, truly awful.

ive just popped on to ask someone for reassurance, if i have 28 day cycle i should ovulate around day 14 is that right? so if i got af 12 jan ov should have been sunday 25?

i have just checked app and downloaded ovia and it is telling me i ov today. dtd lots at wkend but not yesterday and i know dp will be too tired tonite. ahhh id already convinced myself i was pregnant for info i noticed cm back end of last wk and over wkend but none lasy two weeks altho im all new to cm monitoring.

Oh Romeo. Sorry to hear your current situation. So sad :-( I hope you recover physically quickly and please do stick around x

Ginger which app are you using. For a normal cycle I think the best chance is to dtd eod from cd 10 till cd 18 I think this just covers all eventuality but you are right in saying cd14 should be the day, though if the egg releases on cd14 then obviously you are still ovulating cd15-17 depending on long livity of egg. I may be wrong though as still trying to understand this all too. Do you use opk?

that sounds right to me gingerbread. I'm not good at differentiating cm! I know egg white but no idea when it all changes! monitoring cervix was easier I found! although highly embarrassing when dp catches you checking said cervix!

Thanks ginger, yes it was hands down the most horrific experience of my life made worse by us having to take DD and DS with us to hospital. I'm sorry to hear you have been through similar. I have a follow up scan on Friday so really praying I don't still have to have the erpc.
I have always had a 27/28 day cycle ov'ing around day 14 - sounds to me like you have it covered -I always aim for days 12/14 and 16 for good luck (if we still have it in us!). Fx for you.

Is anyone here temping? I've never checked cervix but do keep an eye on cm. But I usually have so much it's hard to tell.

I found it easier to check cervix as I could monitor exactly what it was doing. couldn't get my head around what's normal at different times for cm

My WTF cycle is doing my head in. I know I said we wouldn't stress about TTC until after AF, but its annoying not knowing what's going on.
My ERPC was 31/12. I had a BFP on 16/1 and then a BFN 20/1. Have been DTD as often as possible, haven't really noticed any CM change.
Woke up this morning with a really sharp pinching/stitch like pain in my right abdomen and its been there on and off all day. It certainly feels like ov pain.

Should I OPK or just go with it and wait to see if AF arrives anytime soon?
Wish I could just relax about it, but after my MMC experience, anything about TTC worries me a little.