ttc after mc- the best shit place to be! #3

[northdownmummy]

looking forward to new beginnings in the new year

I got a double pack earlier but haven't had a chance to pee on the second one! also have managed to misplace card so have no access to money, I've raided our pound jar for next lot of tests!. we decided to stop actively TTC after Xmas and have been semi care full but not enough to prevent it completely.

I spoke to the college and they have said they help with child care and I can put off the course for a year and I would still be to of the list when I reapply the year after. work will give me decent mat leave and I can do flexible hours to sit me an possible bean. every time I say this to dp he finds something that wont work with that plan! I thought as we had activist stopped TTC I would give myself something to focus on to take my mind off TTC for a year so I can see where he is coming from with the mild panic but like I said if you want it enough you will work, fight tooth and nail to get it!

sasha definitely!!

reverse mine (just ended) was 33 days. My normal cycle is 35 days. But then I'm not sure I ovulated this time- and if I did the luteal phase was only 8 or 9 days, so pretty all over the place.

everything will be fine mrse as you say these things work themselves out.

bet he is a bit excited by the time he gets home.

damn u missing test

Thanks for all replies, think I might poas if nothing by weekend as DH and I have not prevented TTC iyswim

Stocking hope things get easier for you soon

was your mc recent reverse? did u get a bfn afterwards?

if ur cycle is longer than normal its worth poas for a bit of reassurance. hopefully things will get back to normal soon.

Mc was 19Dec, bleeding done in 5 days

Had bfn on 31st Dec and 2 weeks ago, so don't think I am of again, but sti no AF

oh thats good though if you were to get a bfp. hopefully af will arrive soon or a surprise bfp.

i knew my af was coming as i had no spots when pregnant and all of a sudden had a chin full.

Wow. Busy here today!
stocking hugs. I hope you have support in rl?
reverse my wtf cycle was 29 days (counting from day of actual natural mc), only 2 days longer than normal.
Congrats mrsEA hope your OH comes around soon.

carrot fmu sounds sensible. If it shows up anywhere it will be there.

mollym sorry AF arrived.

Well I've had more blood today so it looks like AF could be arriving nearly a week early. I really do feel broken. I'm half thinking it could be implantation (but never had it b4) but have a heavy feeling in tummy and a banging headache so more likely AF.

Gr33dy Hope you can do something nice for you this evening

anyone else get stage fright when your needing to poas?! I've had nearly 2 liters of water and its not ready to come out!

oh greedy i hope that u r ok.

i never used to because i always expected negatives even when i got my bfp but now i really want to i know i will dread it.

2nd test much like the first. dp agrees there is a faint line and I'm.not seeing things but might be too early to tell as I got my dates mixed up?!/

and it wasn't an early sensitive test

You know what they say... A line is a line! Very tentative congrats MrsE, I wish it's a sticky one

You know I'm gonna need to see a picture evans tentative congrats!

stocking I'm so saddened to hear of your current situ. Drink can make usually great people turn into ugly things. I've no idea where you will go from here but regardless we are here for you x

MrsE - How exciting, tentative congrats to you and your oh. How is he now?

Stocking - I'm sorry to hear you're going through a hard time. Hugs to you.

Sasha and Molly - I'd also like to join in the hand holding for the first ttc cycle since mc if that's ok? I'm nervous. Can't imagine starting from the beginning again but here we are...

Reverse - My wtf cycle was 36 days from heaviest day of natural m/c. Normally 27/28 day cycle.

how do you send pictures? press been driving me mad it's so faint but it is there. have read and tree read instructions and they say a if it's negative there shouldn't be a second line :/ nothing about faint lines.. guess I'll be testing every few days unless AF arrives

MrsE yay!!! If I saw a line within the time they say (ten min?) then I'd consider that a bfp for sure.

teenie of course, welcome on board! Funny the three of us starting the first AF after mc the same time isn't it. I'm dreading tomorrow. It's been really different already even if light today. Yuck.

oh stocking Hope the idiot is fighting hard to get you back. Although I would find it so hard to continue with someone who lied to me. Sending strength to you

I know molly, first time I've ever been happy to see AF. I had bad pains yesterday and it was all a bit brown and clotty and horrible. Not much on the and pad overnight but very heavy sore and clotty today. Been using super tampons and a pad on my underwear as well just in case I leak. But at least it's here...

mrse congratulations. as everyonehas said a line is a line. has your dh's panic made way for excitement yet.

hello to everyone im pretty new to the thread so feel like dont really know anyone yet. hope get to know everyone on our journey to bfps.

I'm going to tescos tomorrow to buy sensitive tests! he seems calm now and has apologized for nasty comments earlier saying he was in shock, understandably.

had funny twinges this morning I don't know if this is normal or not in line with bfps as the last two pgs I found out too late and assumed it was AF pain until I saw the doctor.

sending everyone big hugs xx

i had horrendous backache which what made me test when i got my bfp. i kept ringing docs and community midwifes they all said normal so im sure it is.

defo do a fmu on a sensitive one just to be sure. how exciting so pleased for you.

Very similar gingerbread, back pain and AF like pains a week before my period was even due. That continued right up until I tested, I waited until I was 3 days late but kinda had my suspicions by then.

i think i made it to abut 8 days before i thought this isnt normal then bfp

i kinda hope dont get it next time as now i wonder if it was anything to do with mc. there were nights i would wake up and feel sick it was so painful i could literally feel the colour drain from me. ooph i dont look forward to that again spesh as ive decided no painkillers next time.