Hello everyone
nelly - that is a very clear line if ever I saw one! 
Oh I am so happy for you and MrNelly. Absolutely brilliant. How many days from the transfer are you now? Was it a week ago? Any luck sorting out a blood test? But soon I reckon you'll be sorting out a scan which will be even better and show us if it's twins
sam I am sorry about your colleague. Earplugs are often a good solution, I find. You can just smile and wave and tune it all out literally while looking like you're very busy at your desk. And anyway - in one sense, she isn't wrong - you do have this all to come, you will be a mum. 
euro I am sorry about the return of your periods. How frustrating. And also about people asking you if you'll try for another, when your baby is only a few months old! 
toes Awww you are so sweet and thank you for your kindness (and sorry for the tears). I am really touched that you would cry for me! Hope things are less crazy with your work and the renovations. How are you managing with everything?
ray do you have any news on when your natural round would be yet?
On the whole telling people about pregnancy stuff. First of all, joy that is weird about your brother-in-law and I would be upset too. All you can do though is just file it under the 'people are weird' category. I remember they had two losses but I also remember that they haven't been particularly nice or understanding to the two of you. It's their problem that their sadnesses have closed them up and made them less compassionate. Sorrow is meant to do the opposite, to open your eyes and help you connect to other people's suffering, as it has with the lovely brave women on this thread.
People at my work know my situation which is my fault… I panicked and told them when I started bleeding last week as I was about to do an interview (i.e., I was supposed to be interviewing a job candidate) and had to scarper. I don't love people knowing, and was planning to keep schtum, because having to 'untell' people is bloody horrible. But my bleeding scares have terrified me and I couldn't think up an excuse for why I needed to duck out of an interview and cancel an expensive long-haul work trip fast enough.
berry I am so glad that we have mad and ladies who've had laps and endo to give advice. A five day hospital stay sounds rough but you shouldn't worry about spamming the thread, we love chatty posters! I had a catheter for my c section and it was sore going in but I think it was because they did it in such a massive rush so they sort of shoved the tube up there. Once I was on the painkillers it was fine, it will be for you too I am sure.
liltoni welcome - have you heard about charting your temperatures? It's a good way to learn whether you're ovulating regularly and when, without having to rely on tests (which can be unreliable if you have PCOS, for example).
fox I too am sorry that you're only 'ok' but I can of course completely understand it. I think of you a lot. I am hoping that 2015 will be a better year for you. You have been so brave and coped with so much with such kindness to others. You're a very special person indeed.
joy I loved your para on your scan too. Am sending so much love to you and your little ones. I hope you get some reassurance scans in between to help manage anxiety.
Everything else ok with me. No more blood, although plenty of bad period cramps which are scary. Am just trying to wish the days away and ignore it.