TTC after MC - the best shit place to be!

[Treaclepie19]

The Rules...

(1) A lady may only POAS on a Friday.
(2) Friday means the day that everyone calls Friday in the time zone where you spent the night.
(3) Rule (1) does not apply to POA-OPK-S, UNLESS they are being illegitimately used as surrogate HCG detectors, in which case Rule (1) most definitely does apply
(4) Rule (1) does not apply following a BFP because if you want to waste £25 a day POADigiS that's your prerogative
(5) Rule (1) does not apply if a lady is POAS in an attempt to get a BFN to prove she can start DTD with intent
(6) Rule (1) does not apply if a lady wants for unknown reason to pee on an actual stick, like a twig or some such, if that lady is unexpectedly caught short whilst tramping in the forest looking for bears.
(7) These rules (including Rule (1)) are subject to the change at any time if the ladies of the Posifrickentivity thread decide on a whim come up with empirical evidence to prove that it is luckier to POAS on any other day of the week
(8) Violators of Rule (1) shall be subject to fish throwing.

And as a grand finale, why not pledge to NEVER POAS before 14DPO?

haribo sorry I missed your post. Thank you hun and what a gorgeous poem thank you for sharing that with us x

It's so difficult isn't it Amyy. I'm just hoping the pain will ease over time. Here's hoping we all get our BFPs and healthy, sticky beans soon.

Hi amyyy. Yes, I was scanned on Wednesday and no sign of anything remaining, just slightly thickened endometrium. Dr told us about a couple who conceived immediately after MMC and how they saw over a few weeks one sac diminishing and one growing and that her HCG levels never dropped so I took that as an ok to try. He said your body won't ovulate until ready anyway. The lady was IVF pregnancy so not sure if that made a difference.
Just need to get OH on board.

I'm so sad tonight. I feel anxious about tomorrow and just helpless. .

chasing I really hope you managed to get some sleep last night and they your appointments goes as well as it can today. Got everything crossed for you and thinking of you xxx

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Good luck today chasing xx

Hope you get the right result today Chasing."

My fertility monitor has confirmed ovulation day today , on CD13. So I am hopefully on track for a 27 day cycle if I don't get pregnant.

I feel like I've thrown everything at it this cycle, soy, EPO, acupuncture!! I'm also going to have sex and eat pineapple around implantation time. The only thing I haven't done is paid a witch doctor to do a fertility dance for me , although I'm close to googling that

eggs great to hear everythings clear, that's the first step forward. Apparently you are very fertile after miscarriage/pregnancy so a lot of people fall pregnant straight away.

NewEra fx for a bfp after all that hard work!

chasing thinking of you hun how's it gone today?

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Newera, woo for positive OPK! I know how you feel about "throwing everything at this cycle" that's exactly how I felt about it because we'd agreed we'd had enough and it was our last month ttc. Then I got my bfp! I soooo hope that giving it all you got gives you a bfp and it's a sticky bean.

App at 2 pm. I've got this weird feeling. . Like I just know it's not worked. But if ice learnt anything this month is that I know nothing. My gut deceives me. My body betrays me. My wishes fall on deaf ears. I truly have no clue. I'm eager to know. . Yet I get these fleeting moments of irrational thoughts like, if I just ignore it all.. it'll all go away. Sort itself out. My sisters driving me. probably so I don't just sit in the supermarket car park eating chocolate instead

Chasing how did the appointment go?

chasing hope it went well. We are here for you either way x

It's not worked :-(

So sorry Chasing. Can they give you a second injection, or are you going to need surgery instead? Enormous hugs Thinking of you.

I had surgery rather than an injection as my tube had already ruptured, but if you end up having surgery and have any questions, feel free to PM me.

They have offered me another injection but I just can't keep going like this anymore. .I am utterly terrified of surgery but it feels like my only chance to end this.

I am so upset..why is my body doing this to me

Oh god that's not what I expected to hear at all. So they scanned again and the mass is still there and HCG continues to go up?

Oh chasing so sorry to hear it's not worked :( big hugs. Maybe surgery would be the best option as St least it should put an end to all this uncertainty for you :( such a hard decision though and I really feel for you xxx

So so sorry chasing :(

Really sorry to hear this chasing. It must feel unbearable to have to still be dealing with this. I hope your get lots of TLC and support in RL xx

Oh Chasing I'm so sorry to hear that, you are having such an awful time. Thinking of you

No scan yet. .I might push for one tomorrow when I see consultant.

Hcg was 493 on day 4 (Wednesday) now it's 430. Should have been much much lower. Also as I've had a previous dip, of similar amount, but it went back up, they say it's not worked. I still feel v pregnant.

So exhausted. How can my body do this to me? Why fight to hold on to it, but not do its fucking job and grow my baby correctly in the first place.

Oh my gosh Chasing I don't know what to say. Sending you love and hugs. You do what you feel is best for you. Hopin you have lots of support in RL to get you through this. It's so unfair to be put through extra pain after what you have been through. You're in my thoughts x

Enormous hugs Chasing. Thinking of you.

Chasing, I've just read your history. I dont want to worry you, but i really think you need to push for scan or even a colposcopy (I think) it sounds like whoever you are under doesn't have a clue what may be happening. Its highly unlikely you need to rule out anything more sinister.

Big hugs - this is so shit and scary for you.