TTC after MC - the best shit place to be!

[Treaclepie19]

The Rules...

(1) A lady may only POAS on a Friday.
(2) Friday means the day that everyone calls Friday in the time zone where you spent the night.
(3) Rule (1) does not apply to POA-OPK-S, UNLESS they are being illegitimately used as surrogate HCG detectors, in which case Rule (1) most definitely does apply
(4) Rule (1) does not apply following a BFP because if you want to waste £25 a day POADigiS that's your prerogative
(5) Rule (1) does not apply if a lady is POAS in an attempt to get a BFN to prove she can start DTD with intent
(6) Rule (1) does not apply if a lady wants for unknown reason to pee on an actual stick, like a twig or some such, if that lady is unexpectedly caught short whilst tramping in the forest looking for bears.
(7) These rules (including Rule (1)) are subject to the change at any time if the ladies of the Posifrickentivity thread decide on a whim come up with empirical evidence to prove that it is luckier to POAS on any other day of the week
(8) Violators of Rule (1) shall be subject to fish throwing.

And as a grand finale, why not pledge to NEVER POAS before 14DPO?

monten the month of my BFP went like this
CD 1 - 5: AF
CD 6: opk high (fmu)
CD7: opk low (fmu)
CD8: opk high (fmu)
CD9: opk low (fmu) DTD that night
CD10: opk peak (bout 3pm)
CD13: opk low (fmu) then high about 7pm
At this point gave up as DH was away anyway and I thought the tests seemed really unreliable lol then CD30 got my BFP!

Still waiting should be scanned in the next hr I guess. Absoloutely mess I am

Chasing hope you have someone with you?

Sending you big hugs chasing really hope you have someone there with you xxxx

chasing sending you a big hug. Lots of handholding on this thread for you. So sorry you're going through this but you're in the right place and hopefully you will have answers soon xxx

Fingers crossed chasing. You are in good hands and whatever the outcome they will know what to do xx

Thinking of you Chasing x

hugs chasing

Weird month for me. Started doing cheapy OPKs 2x/day from CD9. CD10 (yesterday) had two bars in the morning but test bar was slightly slightly paler than control bar. Yesterday pm and this morning have been comprehensively negative. Worried I missed the egg, it would be really really early for me to ov (normally CD13-14). Will keep testing but ARGH.

Scan showed an empty womb.

Back Sunday for more bloods.

So sorry chasing . It looks as though they will make sure hcg is going down and then you can track it back to zero using ICs. This was actually the thing thT pissed me off the most about my miscarriages. As they were early I could almost live with the loss but it was waiting for the pregnancy hormone to leave that I hadn't accounted for. That was the worst bit for me. Big hugs, we will a be here cheering you on when you get your BFP again xx

chasing i am so so sorry. have a giant glass of wine tonight and take care of yourself over he weekend xx

chasing so sorry, do you feel better for knowing for certain, even given how sad the result is ?

I'm definable out this month, AF arrived on Wednesday a day ahead of usual. I've taken it as a kick up the arse to get more serious. So a big bag of OP stocks bought and ready to start getting more clinical about getting

Anyone got any hints and tips?

I had spent almost 2 weeks grieving this loss and felt ready to move on. I feel like someone has just thrown me right back in to that hell. I had an internal scan too which has left me sore after she really poked about. Seeing my empty womb on the screen was so hard.

I'll be happier when the 2nd lot of bloods is done Sunday and they confirm hcg decreasing. Given how strong my preg tests were yday in comparison to my first lot I'm really worried they are still rising and ill end up with surgery.

By the early hrs of this morning I'd managed to allow myself the possibility of baby still being in there. I found myself praying and begging for this to be the case moments before we went in.. After over a 2 hr wait. I feel completely exhausted.

Wow, more BFPs! Congratulations Ignominious, Dulcet and Purple! Wishing you all great pregnancies

Chasing - I'm so very sorry. Did they they tell you that you might have to have an ERPC? A big hug for you. I hope you're having plenty in RL life.

Oh chasing that's just truly shit. You may be similar to me in that I didn't test negative until about a week after my first AF post MC. I would be surprised if you have to have a surgical procedure.

So sorry chasing, you must be exhausted.
Sending lots of hugs and wine.
If they couldn't see anything then your hcg should go down now.

Hugs chasing what a miserable day.

I just got baby bombed AGAIN jesus actual Christ.

Congrats to the new BFPs purple and igno. I can't see any sticks but I am sure everyone else is right!

Oh brummie, you've done the best thing for you and you have taken nothing away from your other friend! In time I hope you can tell her she has upset you too, so she realises it's hurtful. Pleas don't upset yourselves over it, you've done nothing wrong.

I know had nearly two weeks of flashing smilies monden, you'd think I was super fertile! Get to he stage of not being helpful as every day was high so just had to keep shagging. Wasn't consistent though, every month was different. Had no flashing and straight to solid too. Have up on them in the end.

charlie, I have found ov has been earlier since MC so you could have had it already. Did you get some DTD in?

So sorry chasing, just awful. Treat yourself well. I can imagine how wiped out you are, it's all emotional.

Chasing I'm so sorry it's all been so horrendous. Big hugs

Thanks so much Dulcet - and everyone else, appreciate the kind words. Came in today. Monten reminding myself of your mantra - it's a fresh start. Time to try again

Sorry for bringing the thread down. This is such a positive place to be with all our recent bfp's! Congratulations again to you all.

I'll be lingering but don't expect to be in with a chance for a couple of months.

(MN will be changing my username on my previous posts to this one so as not to link to other posts as im pretty identifiable here now. Hopefully that will be done soon, have kept a similar name so as not to confuse the thread!)

So sorry chasing :(

I have some good non-ttc news :) I went to see Noel Fielding tonight and met him!!! :)
So excited haha.

So sorry chasing :( sending you big hugs

CD 1 here

So it looks like my pink cm was indeed the beginning of my bleed and chemical is the reality. I think I'll be bowing out of mn completely. I hope you all get your rainbow baby soon. I can't take anymore. Feel so down. We'll now be seeking medical help. Good luck ladies xx