April TTC girls head into September - Autumn and BFPs here we come

[iamdivergent]

Stats so far (you know me, probably wrong! Argh!)

Steph1204 TTC # 1, 2nd cycle, BFP 12 june, EDD: 20/2/15
lillamyy1 TTC #1 cycle 4 BFP 11/8/14 EDD 18/4/15
Ducky23 TTC#2, cycle 1 BFP on April 17th EDD 25/12/14
Cupcake92 TTC #2 Cycle 4 BFP on July 22nd 2014 EDD 05/04/14
LuluJakey1 Age 35 TTC#1 Cycle1 BFP Late May?? EDD 04/01/15
bearsinmotion ttc#2, BFP 26 June, EDD 25/02/15
Poppet85 ttc#1 cycle 3 BFP 5th June EDD 10/2/15
Kitkatkaty87 ttc #1, cycle 1, BFP 7th June EDD 15/2/15

iamdivergent ttc #3, heading into cycle 8 (BFP/AF around about 24/08)
MrsPopple29 ttc #1, cycle 5 (August)
Me624 cycle 4 (?)
21questions ttc #2 (cycle 1 august) Age 30
ToriB34 Age 34 TTC #1 (mmc July)
bradders
Siarie, TTC #1, cycle 2 not sure when AF due as last cycle was irregular
LenaW2109 cycle 6
CP1299 I am 35 TTC1 cycle 1
Tylastar TTC #1
Macmissy Age 34 TTC#1 Cycle3 (+ cycle 3MMC Aug 14)

The successful list is getting so much longer - fx for the rest of us!

Also a freaky thing happened. When I got home our clock had stopped. At exactly 10:39am.
Right when we came out of the scan and I told u guys.

Siarie I will be thinking about things.
I mean I could TTC later on, just need to think things over 1st

mums are the best arent they ! You concentrate on yourself for now cupcake . I am always amazed at the strength of women

I love my mom she does help me a lot. :)
And women are incredibly strong. We can get through anything.

Yes, whatever happens you'll be able to get through it. I'm glad you've got your mum to support you.
I do agree with Siarie about your DH. Maybe you could take a bit of time to decide if you really want to have another baby with such an inconsiderate person? Not that it's any of my business of course - I just hate hearing of men not appreciating their DWs! I think you deserve someone much kinder and I'm sure there's plenty out there...somewhere!!

You do deserve someone who is more loving and caring and supportive Cupcake.

You do everything for DS.You do everything in the house.
He gives you no money or support or affection.
He is mean.

And you sound so nice and such a good mum and you are so thoughtful to DH- like on his birthday.

See I don't get DH. I came back from my moms and he had tidied the whole house done all the dishes and had gone to the shop and brought me flowers and had put a beef stew in the oven for tea. Now he's never done that.

Cupcake. My mouth actually dropped then

Invasion of the Bodysnatchers!
Are you sure there hasn't been a 'pod' maturing in your shed or garden over the last few days?

But you see, it shows he does have it in him if he could just grow up! Has he been able to talk to you about it?

Wow !! Am I right in remembering your dh is quite young cupcake ? Maybe hes just got bit of growing up to do and needs to step up to being a husband & daddy . I love the bones of my dh hes 31but theres still many times I think to myself 'come on man up' !!

Not excusing his behaviour ! Hope your able to have a quiet evening together

I'm not even joking the stew was so nice. He can cook more often.

I'm shocked tho! And yes he's very young. Younger than me.
He was very very positive right up until the scan. He had planned to get a scan pic and show his dad and everyone this Saturday. He was very upset about not being able to anymore. We have talked about it now. And we just need to get through this next step with as much positivity as possible.

DH is 35 and more like 15 at times- collects football cards and swops them with his friends, likes the last word, has to be convinced he is wrong and someone else might be right, opens his mouth and puts both feet in it regularly, buys an unborn baby a drum,bendy toy, beanie hat and Bradford City strip.

There are times I could cheerfully kill him but I would miss him terribly- the dilemma of love!

Hope you get some sleep Cupcake after a very tough day. Night night.

Aw bless him lulu! u never know, baby may become a musician with that drum

And yes lulu I got some sleep thank u. Had a little cry first. But I had a good sleep.

Got my mom taking me and DS out today for lunch and Going to mothercare to buy him an outfit for the wedding tomorrow.

I'm just so upset for my baby. Never had a chance to live life or see any of us. Or his or hers big brother. Just sad.

It is very sad Cupcake but don't give up comlete hope yet. I know you have to prepare yourself but keep a tiny bit of hope there. DH is asking after you- he thinks you always stick up for him!

Glad you got some sleep. Have a nice time with your mum and DS. See you later.

It is awful Is your scan on Thursday?

I always thought they had to witness no growth (that's why I thought they scanned twice).

Hope your DH has realised he's a dick and is changing his ways x

Thanks lulu :)

And yes Ducky my scan on Thursday at the same time. And well they saw a little growth. But there wasn't a heartbeat. And the fact baby hadn't grown enough they said it must have stopped growing. They said there should be a heartbeat.
There's a little bit of hope in me that I see a heart beat next week but deep down I know there won't be.

bfn this morning on cd34 which is now officially my longest cycle! argh

My two beautiful cats are being taken to their pet hotel this morning, I'm just waiting for the chauffeur now . Going to miss them loads but I know it's for the best as they will be looked after while we are away. I've got a crazy early start tomorrow like 3/4am! I wonder if that's going to kick the morning sickness in full steam haha.

Last time I actually got MS around the very end of week five so hoping not to feel it until mid next week.

How everyone else doing today? x

Glad you managed to get some rest cupcake and your dh has stepped up to support you. Hope it continues, this is how it should be all of the time

Sorry you got bfn iam how frustrating to have your longest cycle now.

Are you off somewhere nice

sorry didnt finish before posting, still having trouble with this new mobile site

Meant to say are you off somewhere nice and hot Siarie?

I am on cd 20, had spotting from cd18 last 2 cycles. Nothing yet but not getting my hopes up yet.