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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

For those starting TTC in April

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kitkatkaty87 · 09/04/2014 10:46

I thought I'd start a thread for all those who will be starting out TTC this month, I'd be interested to see how other people get on, tips, moral support etc. We'll be starting TTC at the weekend!!
Please join me!

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kitkatkaty87 · 17/04/2014 08:19

Morning all, keeping my fingers crossed for you all this week :) ive still not had a withdrawal bleed and ov sticks say negative still! Poo! Oh well, I am being very impatient! everyone looking forward to the weekend? Going to try and dtd a fair bit whilst we have the time off!
Even every other day dtd seems a lot to me lol. We usually both fall asleep on the sofa at about 10pm - rock n roll - living the dream!

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Ducky23 · 17/04/2014 08:23

Haha rock and roll kitkat!

Ali I have been taking folic acid. Consultant told me it's good if you can get 3 months worth in your system before you get pregnant, it doesn't hurt if you don't I don't think, last time I found out late so only started taking them from 9 - 10 weeks

Eeee AF due tomorrow :-/ desperately trying not to poas today Confused bet my body will be cruel and AF will be late Hmm

tashalou · 17/04/2014 08:32

I've been taking folic acid a few weeks, still no sign of AF! I have work all Easter weekend, nights too so hope everyone else is more successfull at dtd then me! Wink

Prettylady8 · 17/04/2014 08:38

Hi Everyone,
I am new to this thread and this is my TTC 4 but no success yet Sad , I have started taking folic acid 3 months back.
I would really like to join this thread.

Ducky23 · 17/04/2014 08:42

Hi pretty!

When is AF due?
How long have you been trying?

Prettylady8 · 17/04/2014 08:51

Hi Ducky,
I am trying from January 2014 and no luck yet.
I am approaching my Fertile window soon Smile so keeping m fingers crossed. I have work all Ester weekend. This time I am planning to use Balance Active Fertility Gel from boots. I was wondering if it really works?

Ducky23 · 17/04/2014 08:55

Oooh youl have to let us know, I have been looking at concieve plus but will wait to see if AF shows before buying any Smile

How old are your other dc's?

Prettylady8 · 17/04/2014 09:02

Ducky

I am new to the site can you tell me what DC means Confused?

Thanks

Cupcake92 · 17/04/2014 09:07

I'd like a girl seen as we already have a boy be nice to have both but I'm not fussed either way :)

I've been taking folic acid since the day my implant was removed.
And hello Pretty! Hope this month is ur month :)

Ducky23 · 17/04/2014 09:11

Yea I think a girl cus we have all the stuff and it's all brand new. Seems a shame to waste it, and I have the nursery pink and I love it! Would upset me to re decorate it Hmm

It means dear children pretty Grin was wondering if you have a big or small gap between them?

Ducky23 · 17/04/2014 09:12

Ohhh I think I confused myself are you TTC baby number 4 or it's your 4th TTC cycle?

Think I've muddled myself up! Doesn't take much

KatoPotatoSansFollicleBollockl · 17/04/2014 09:16

Hi again!

Well I've had an eventful week which ended up going for emergency minor surgery yesterday under GA.

I told them I was on my 2ww but obv too early for them to test me, so now sort of hoping I get my AF now rather than worrying about everything my body's been through!

Ducky23 · 17/04/2014 09:21

Oh no kato! What happened?!

Even if you are pregnant hopefully it will be ok, the baby doesn't connect to your blood supply and stuff until 6 weeks... I think!!!

alizeeod · 17/04/2014 09:21

Can I just say I might've appeared to be "bragging" when I said we were dtd every night, let me clear this up! Before we started ttc we would do it once a week (or less) and our nights mainly consisted of me falling asleep with my mouth wide open in front of Game of Thrones.
And by dtd, right now it mainly consists of quickies and then me doing a handstand. LOL!

Prettylady8 · 17/04/2014 09:22

Ohh Thanks Ducky.
No this is my 4th TTC cycle. And I am trying for my first one [Big Grin].

Thanks CupCake. How long have you guys been trying ?

Ducky23 · 17/04/2014 09:28

Hahahaha Ali :,)

Noo didn't think you were bragging think were all at it like rabbits but just made me chuckle the way you came in with it, I liked it! Every time we DTD I lie there with me legs up in the air for 20 -30 mins, DH thinks I've lost it! He looks at me like I'm a wierdo!

KatoPotatoSansFollicleBollockle · 17/04/2014 09:31

I had a labial cyst that grew to epic proportions in the space of two days! Sent to emergency ward for an op and I'm doing great now.

tashalou · 17/04/2014 09:48

I lie with my legs in air too!!!!! Kato sorry to hear about that hope you recover quick

kitkatkaty87 · 17/04/2014 09:48

Alizeeod brilliant. That makes me feel less guilty about not dtd every day. Can't beat a bit of game of thrones!
How long did you all have to wait for your withdrawal bleed? I was expecting it in the few days after stopping, but it's nearly a week now and nothing at all.

ducky I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you that a stays well away!

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tashalou · 17/04/2014 09:52

I never got a withdrawal bleed

Ducky23 · 17/04/2014 09:55

Ohhh sounds painful kato!

Prettylady8 · 17/04/2014 10:04

I am going to DTD almost everyday in my fertile days this time Grin and will use balance active gel and will lie with my legs in air for 15-20 mins. Please pray for me. Keeping my fingers crossed.

alizeeod · 17/04/2014 10:18

You mean withdrawal bleed after stopping the pill? Mine came 3 days after stopping and lasted 8 days!!! We've been at it ever since it stopped (1 week ago).
If it doesn't come I'd suggest poas, you never know!!! If its a bfn go see your GP!

cheesecakemom · 17/04/2014 10:24

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alizeeod · 17/04/2014 10:46

What tests are you using? I heard first response are the most reliable. I'd say wait a week and do two of those, the you'll know for sure.