gilster hugs, that must have been hard to take. You would think people would tone it down a bit if they know you're exp problems. otters that must have been difficult too esp when you've had a few wines. Well to add to announcement w/e we got a text from friends we were visiting today warning us that his sister, who would be at gathering,was pg. My dh was a little miffed at the tone of the message as if we're lepers and have to have pity. Unfortunately that's part of the deal when you tell people you're having ttc problems. Anyway, this announcement completes my triumvirate of announcements! It wasn't too bad, my dh congratulated them and I asked a few questions but nowhere near what I would have asked before all of this got so difficult. I find that a quick congratulation and chat then onto other things helps.
We drove back and chatted about how we should just get on and enjoy things and dh said that although this hasn't worked out the way we planned we still have a lot to be thankful for. Our friends are camping in May bank hol and offered for us to go, we think we might as well as the Ivf drama will be over then and it'll be something to look forward to either way. Also, in the spirit of fuck this shit, then why not!!
lady really interesting reading about your situ! May well be happening to me soon! I'm going to have the 'chat' with my boss tomorrow. 
because mn is totally a safehaven. I felt so bad for our recent berry who had to leave because of her partner reading her posts. I do mention some of the funny things on here to dh so he could, in theory, look this up and read it all but tbh I think he has better things to do. It's a bit peculiar that a man is on mn and also that he's hinting to you. Just seems a bit weird. Do please stay on here and don't change your name, hopefully he'll lose interest. After all there are thousands of people that use this site and any one of them could be similar to you. Maybe you should say to him oh no, I don't do mumsnet, netmums is more my thing or just make a big thing of how boring you find social media and how your friend who posts on online forums is a right dweeb, that should throw him off.
parsley like others have said try not to worry too much about one result! our bodies are everchanging so one result doesn't mean doom. Also over googling does not help.
In the spirit of the berry revolution I had a half a cider today and a 
. I also ate all the squishy, creamy and blue cheeses off the board that old pregger pants couldn't. I also hopped (and fell off) our friend's child's space hopper- in your face ttc. Vive la revolution!