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Old birds wanna join the coop???

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Gingerbreadlady1 · 26/01/2014 12:23

Allo ladies! Wondering if there are any other over 35's (apparently the age of fertility suicide, who knew?) ttc for over a year wanting to chat? If so, pour yourself some virtual wine and let the chatting commence!

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Sparrowlegs248 · 06/03/2014 18:51

Good luck tomorrow wuthering, fx for you.

Gingerbreadlady1 · 06/03/2014 19:27

How you getting on notta, you in 2ww now?

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Katnisscupcake · 06/03/2014 19:48

Evening all!!

I'm ttc #2 aswell fankle.

I am feeling slightly better this evening. My hand isn't hurting as much and hasn't spread anymore so I think the antibiotics are finally working.

It's my weigh-in on my diet tomorrow and I'm hoping for a loss, even if it's just a pound. I've bought chocolate chip and maple syrup pancakes for tomorrow, pizzas and white bread for ham sandwiches. Then I''ll start again Monday!! Lol!!

So Wuthering I will be popping on here first thing in the hope that you've got your bfp!!

I'm sending loads of positive baby-dust around. We used to do that on the ttc threads over 5 years ago and they were successful threads, so it's time we start doing it.

Sparrowlegs248 · 07/03/2014 08:43

ginger yes officially tww now though more like 12day wait for me. Bfp due 18th.

katniss i started SW start of feb. Lost 7lbs in 3 weeks then cheated nothing since. 1lb on last week. Grr. Need to get a grip. Had massive spud with butter and cheese last night, then warmed up a double choc muffin and had it with ice cream!!!

Sparrowlegs248 · 07/03/2014 08:44

I feel like we have put in a much better effort this month but then think I will be much more disappointed if i don't get a bfp.

WutheringTights · 07/03/2014 08:49

Well tested first thing (mornings are manic aren't they!) and BFP!!!! Hooray! Hopefully this is the start of a lucky streak for all of us. Trying not to get too excited because it's very very early days but not managing much.

Glad you're feeling better Katniss and enjoy those treats! Good luck with the weigh in.

Mampam - how are you feeling now?

Good luck and lots of baby dust to you all.

Sparrowlegs248 · 07/03/2014 09:02

Oh blumey wuthering!!! Congratulations!!! Woo hoo!!

Sparrowlegs248 · 07/03/2014 09:06

Blimey not blumey......

Katnisscupcake · 07/03/2014 11:22

That is fantastic news Wuthering!!!!! Congratulations!!!

Fingers crossed another will come along soon!!

Another 1lb weight loss so 13lbs Altogether.

Gingerbreadlady1 · 07/03/2014 16:32

wuthering, a massive congrats to you! Yay, a march bfp, hopefully we'll get more soon.

katniss well done on the weight loss.

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Sparrowlegs248 · 07/03/2014 16:44

Ooh well done katniss!! Almost a stone!

Gingerbreadlady1 · 07/03/2014 17:08

Anyone else read the article earhat recommended, it's really, really eye opening, please read it!

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Earhat · 07/03/2014 21:12

Wuthering - CONGRATULATIONS! fantastic news, I hope you have a wonderful pregnancy x

Katniss - I conceived whilst in the middle of a course of two different types of antibiotics (which is why bfp came as such an extra surprise). Spoke to doc who said there were no risks and it could even have helped as the drugs may have lowered body's natural defense system to invaders, if you know what I mean?! Not sure if that is true but the drugs themselves didn't get in the way of conception.

Some good news in the press - Then:

metro.co.uk/2011/05/08/kate-silverton-pregnant-naturally-after-failed-ivf-attempts-4165/

And now!
www.telegraph.co.uk/culture/tvandradio/bbc/10597035/Kate-Silverton-announces-second-pregnancy-with-thumbs-up-scan.html

mampam · 07/03/2014 21:13

Wuthering that's fantastic Grin well done I'm really pleased for you. Hopefully it will be the start of a lucky streak for this thread.

I'm still getting the belly pains on and off. Dizziness has stopped and feeling sick isn't quite so bad so I'm convinced I'd just picked up a viral thingy. Funnily enough my boobs are not sore which they always are on the lead up to AF but I know bodies can be cruel so I'm thinking mine is trying to trick me Smile

Really want a bfp more for dh's sake than for mine. He's quite down at the moment mainly because his parents are being shits........a long story which I'll bore you with another time..........so a bfp would really cheer him up.

I'm also trying to lose weight but this week I've had pancakes, a donut, pie, flapjack, chocolate although I have got an excuse for that as I couldn't refuse a chocolate nest with mini eggs that the children at work had made for me! I've also eaten lots of bread so not good but I will try harder next week Grin

Gingerbreadlady1 · 08/03/2014 14:07

Mmmmm. You're post is making me hungry mampam, we'll post food fest/2wk residential course and AF I've lost 2.5 pounds this wk which is a result! My work trousers were so tight I was bordering on camel toe! Blush, not a good look. Anyone doing anything exciting this weekend? I'm off to pals house in an hour to meet her baby!

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Gingerbreadlady1 · 08/03/2014 14:09

mampam I also fantasise about telling dp we're pregnant, it'll be lovely when it happens.whens AF due?

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mampam · 08/03/2014 19:36

Hi Gingerbread camel toe never a good look! [Grin] Sorry to have made you hungry with my list of naughties.....haha. Have just had a feta and olive salad for my dinner so getting back on track.

I think my AF is due on Tues/Wed but as it has been irregular since November I'm not really sure. Have bought 30 cheapy tests from ebay, POAS this morn but bfn will test again on Wed unless AF shows up beforehand.

How did it go meeting your friends baby? We've not done anything exciting so far this weekend just enjoyed the sunshine in the garden Smile

Katnisscupcake · 08/03/2014 20:10

Evening all!!

We've had a busy day! Dd and I went to a 2nd birthday party this morning and then met up with a load of her friends from school and their mums this afternoon at a local pub with a big outside play area. We all sat outside and enjoyed the sunshine - it was lovely!!

Tomorrow dd has another horse-riding lesson followed by lunch at my sister's pub. Dd is really excited because her childminder and her daughter are coming to watch her and come to lunch with us.

No real ttc news. I think I'm only 7dpo so wouldn't expect anything yet.

Mampam, I've got a funny feeling that might be your month... fingers crossed!!

mampam · 08/03/2014 20:41

Ooooh Katniss I hope you are right Grin. Probably should'nt be sat here with a HUGEglass of red wine in my hand then!

Hope your dd has a fab riding lesson tomorrow and enjoy your sisters pub! And the sunshine x

Gingerbreadlady1 · 09/03/2014 11:21

katniss you're life sounds lovely, very darling buds of may!

mampam friends baby is a wee stunner but pathetically made me quite sad. Soooo want it to be my turn Sad

Where have all the other old birds got to? You alive ladies?

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Fankletastic · 09/03/2014 16:41

Hello all
Glad to hear of the bfp wuthering. Congrats. How long have you been ttc? Let's hope that this is the start of a trend but I personally don't have a track record that inspires particular hope. Statically, I wonder if my chances are actually getting lower each month.

But enough of that negativity! Have been having a delightful busy weekend so not had chance to keep up to date. How lovely is this spring sunshine?! Makes me feel rather cheery Smile

Am trying to get my head in a more sane more chilled out place this cycle. We shall see how that goes....

Tranquilitybaby · 09/03/2014 16:45

Joining! I'm 36 and about to start TTC no. 3!

PaulaFletch14 · 09/03/2014 18:18

Hi gingerbread

This old bird still here. Had a busy weekend been wedding dress shopping in Liverpool and found the most beautiful perfect dress. Took my mind off miscarriage and TTC.

mampam · 09/03/2014 19:30

I'm still here too!

Ginger fx it will be your turn soon

Welcome Tranquility how old are your dc?

Paula when are you getting married? Very exciting, what is your dress like?

DH started world war 3 in this house today by switching the broadband off and making teenage dd go outside for some sun and fresh air Grin as you can imagine it went down like a lead balloon! Apart from that, had a lovely day spent in the garden. Back to normality tomorrow and I'm still filling in the blimmin application form for a new job....... find it so hard trying to sell myself.

Gingerbreadlady1 · 09/03/2014 19:30

Hi tranquility, welcome to our little thread. Tell us a little bit about yourself, we're all 34+, ttc #1 to #4 and are a friendly lot.

fankle, the piece that earhat recommended has made me feel alot more positive. Please read it if your down. Also statistically we must be near our bfp! That's what I'm telling myself anyway Smile

paula sounds like you've had a lovely day. When you getting married, details please!

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