The Elderberry Pavlovas: still chasing that 'copter in the hope of a festive BFP. Thread 16 (the one where Happy was left in charge!!)

[happylass]

Here we go again.....

The smallprint –
Berries have a strict entrance criteria (TTC #1, over 30, TTC for 6+months, NO instadiffers, must have a special pot) and def no mention of baby dust or baby dancing UGH !!! Ooooh aren’t we strict!

Huge congratulations Feather!!

Just going to try and add myself to this list...

RevoltingPeasant - 34, ttc since May, AF due Nov 17
BecauseIsaidS0: TTC May 2013, AF due 17th Nov
Bunny - 33, TTC since June 12, had lap 3 weeks go, next step DH sperm freeze and IVF/ICSI
Happylass, 35, TTC since August 2012 but currently on a break. Still waiting to see consultant at FC. Appt Dec 19th
Sidney, 38, TTC since July '12. Polyp to be removed 18Nov then on to private IVF appointments, to start cycling in Jan, if no BFP by then.
Gillster, 39, TTC since March 12, FC appointment on 5th, fibroid removal op on 20th.
Birdy - 30, TTC since Dec 2010 (- a few months in 2012 when world was ending) 1st FC appt 15 Nov.

Feather, ttc since Sept 11. One fallopian tube, 6 rounds of clomid. Thought there was no hope, then finally a bfp on 2 Nov 2013.
Ladybunnikins - 34, IVF instadiffer, EDD 14/7/14
Foodylicious - TTC Nov 2011, MC May 2013, BFP 2nd Oct 2013.

RevoltingPeasant - 34, ttc since May, AF due Nov 17
Bunny - 33, TTC since June 12, had lap 3 weeks go, next step DH sperm freeze and IVF/ICSI
Happylass, 35, TTC since August 2012 but currently on a break. Still waiting to see consultant at FC. Appt Dec 19th
Sidney, 38, TTC since July '12. Polyp to be removed 18Nov then on to private IVF appointments, to start cycling in Jan, if no BFP by then.
BecauseIsaidS0: TTC May 2013, AF due 17th
Gillster, 39, TTC since March 12, FC appointment on 5th, fibroid removal op on 20th.
Birdy - 30, TTC since Dec 2010 (- a few months in 2012 when world was ending) 1st FC appt 15 Nov.
Boodle-
Barking-
Yorkie-

Feather, ttc since Sept 11. One fallopian tube, 6 rounds of clomid. Thought there was no hope, then finally a bfp on 2 Nov 2013.
Ladybunnikins - 34, IVF instadiffer, EDD 14/7/14
Foodylicious - TTC Nov 2011, MC May 2013, BFP 2nd Oct 2013.
Puppymummy- 9+2 here, nothing to report except im getting fat cos im always hungry and time is going extremely slowly until scan!
Tally - 16w already, Hyperemesis finally gone into hiding, yay!
Merkin-
Thunder-
Boom-

Who is missing?

Oww my head really hurts!

Please can you add me to the list:

Yorkie, 35, ttc since Sep 2012. mmc Dec. Failed iui cycle. Next step ivf in Jan

Lovely story feather I often think about how DH would react, I hope I find out one day.

Check out all the pg berries popping in, don't be strangers ladies x

tally so so happy to hear you are feeling better

RP I'd be really pissed off in that situation, if they usually come and swim with kids whilst you and OH do your think its very unfair to just assume its ok without asking! Grrrrrrr on your behalf

barking how is the YBR coming along? I'm def not on it today, AF in full flow and its raining

Adding a hungover Yorkie and me

RevoltingPeasant - 34, ttc since May, AF due Nov 17
Bunny - 33, TTC since June 12, had lap 3 weeks go, next step DH sperm freeze and IVF/ICSI
Happylass, 35, TTC since August 2012 but currently on a break. Still waiting to see consultant at FC. Appt Dec 19th
Sidney, 38, TTC since July '12. Polyp to be removed 18Nov then on to private IVF appointments, to start cycling in Jan, if no BFP by then.
BecauseIsaidS0: TTC May 2013, AF due 17th
Gillster, 39, TTC since March 12, FC appointment on 5th, fibroid removal op on 20th.
Birdy - 30, TTC since Dec 2010 (- a few months in 2012 when world was ending) 1st FC appt 15 Nov.
Boodle-
Barking-
Yorkie- 35, ttc since Sep 2012. mmc Dec. Failed iui cycle. Next step ivf in Jan

Feather, ttc since Sept 11. One fallopian tube, 6 rounds of clomid. Thought there was no hope, then finally a bfp on 2 Nov 2013.
Ladybunnikins - 34, IVF instadiffer, EDD 14/7/14
Foodylicious - TTC Nov 2011, MC May 2013, BFP 2nd Oct 2013.
Puppymummy- 9+2 here, nothing to report except im getting fat cos im always hungry and time is going extremely slowly until scan!
Tally - 16w already, Hyperemesis finally gone into hiding, yay!
Merkin-19+6, edd 25 march. Team pink
Thunder-
Boom-

Lovely news just filtered through to my overtired post-hen-do brain, congratulations feather and lady!

Bunny have lots of to get you back in the mood for the YBR. And I love your organised list (as ever) I shall fill in my space forthwith!

RevoltingPeasant - 34, ttc since May, AF due Nov 17
Bunny - 33, TTC since June 12, had lap 3 weeks go, next step DH sperm freeze and IVF/ICSI
Happylass, 35, TTC since August 2012 but currently on a break. Still waiting to see consultant at FC. Appt Dec 19th
Sidney, 38, TTC since July '12. Polyp to be removed 18Nov then on to private IVF appointments, to start cycling in Jan, if no BFP by then.
BecauseIsaidS0: TTC May 2013, AF due 17th
Gillster, 39, TTC since March 12, FC appointment on 5th, fibroid removal op on 20th.
Birdy - 30, TTC since Dec 2010 (- a few months in 2012 when world was ending) 1st FC appt 15 Nov.
Boodle-
Barking-
Yorkie-

Feather, ttc since Sept 11. One fallopian tube, 6 rounds of clomid. Thought there was no hope, then finally a bfp on 2 Nov 2013.
Ladybunnikins - 34, IVF instadiffer, EDD 14/7/14
Foodylicious - TTC Nov 2011, MC May 2013, BFP 2nd Oct 2013.
Puppymummy- 9+2 here, nothing to report except im getting fat cos im always hungry and time is going extremely slowly until scan!
Tally - 16w already, Hyperemesis finally gone into hiding, yay!
Merkin-
Thunder-
Boom- 16w and so far so good!

YBR being built through tears at present Bunny, I'm having a bad day. Not necessarily in ttc terms, just woke up feeling very emotional. Had a brief exchange of words with DP and we very, very rarely argue so afterwards I got upset and started crying. His immediate reaction to me crying is to say 'don't cry' which makes me worse. If I'm feeling sad and I've removed myself to a separate room so I'm not doing it in front of him why can't I bloody cry?!

He's been and apologised but I'm still crying and don't even know why. Desperately hoping it's because AF will finally arrive tomorrow (I always have an irrationally emotional day the day before AF). It's been more than 60 days and I've had 6 doses of Provera so you never know....

On my phone as usual so can someone please add me to the list?

34, 23rd month ttc, clomid bfp in August, AF awol 60+ days since mc in Sept. On Provera to find AF then another 5 rounds of clomid before next FC appointment in March.

RP if you do take them, make sure she gets them changed and showered, my 3 year old niece hates the shower but loves swimming!
Yorkie here's some

Oh Barking, hopefully it is a sign of AF

RevoltingPeasant - 34, ttc since May, AF due Nov 17
Bunny - 33, TTC since June 12, had lap 3 weeks go, next step DH sperm freeze and IVF/ICSI
Happylass, 35, TTC since August 2012 but currently on a break. Still waiting to see consultant at FC. Appt Dec 19th
Sidney, 38, TTC since July '12. Polyp to be removed 18Nov then on to private IVF appointments, to start cycling in Jan, if no BFP by then.
BecauseIsaidS0: TTC May 2013, AF due 17th
Gillster, 39, TTC since March 12, FC appointment on 5th, fibroid removal op on 20th.
Birdy - 30, TTC since Dec 2010 (- a few months in 2012 when world was ending) 1st FC appt 15 Nov.
Boodle-
Barking-34, 23rd month ttc, clomid bfp in August, AF awol 60+ days since mc in Sept. On Provera to find AF then another 5 rounds of clomid before next FC appointment in March.
Yorkie-

Feather, ttc since Sept 11. One fallopian tube, 6 rounds of clomid. Thought there was no hope, then finally a bfp on 2 Nov 2013.
Ladybunnikins - 34, IVF instadiffer, EDD 14/7/14
Foodylicious - TTC Nov 2011, MC May 2013, BFP 2nd Oct 2013.
Puppymummy- 9+2 here, nothing to report except im getting fat cos im always hungry and time is going extremely slowly until scan!
Tally - 16w already, Hyperemesis finally gone into hiding, yay!
Merkin-
Thunder-
Boom- 16w and so far so good!

Oh barking and for you x FX you get the witch soon (whoever thought we'd be wishing AF on someone)

I missed off kitty oops, probably others too, soz!

Question - who has also had laparoscopy/hysteroscopy? Did your AF change? Mine seems to be heavier (and I haven't packed enough supplies), I hope it isn't too much longer!

merk you suggested the digi!!!!

feather totally know what you mean about the copter, the grads have been trying to convince the 'copter-ers' to move to their thread for ages but haven't quite felt up to joining the 'big girls' yet. Promise the copter isn't scary and we're all super experienced in hand holding now . Oh and re ic they might have been positive, it's just REALLY hard to see!!!

lady re feather's outburst, I had a very similar one the day before mine in here! Anyway I effing knew you were diffed then!!!

We are on the most active list

Surely the grads should have moved on to the mothers thread?!?

bunny oh hadn't noticed . My mate said same thing re her hysteroscopy

RevoltingPeasant - 34, ttc since May, AF due Nov 17
Bunny - 33, TTC since June 12, had lap 3 weeks go, next step DH sperm freeze and IVF/ICSI
Happylass, 35, TTC since August 2012 but currently on a break. Still waiting to see consultant at FC. Appt Dec 19th
Sidney, 38, TTC since July '12. Polyp to be removed 18Nov then on to private IVF appointments, to start cycling in Jan, if no BFP by then.
BecauseIsaidS0: TTC May 2013, AF due 17th
Gillster, 39, TTC since March 12, FC appointment on 5th, fibroid removal op on 20th.
Birdy - 30, TTC since Dec 2010 (- a few months in 2012 when world was ending) 1st FC appt 15 Nov.
Boodle-
Barking-34, 23rd month ttc, clomid bfp in August, AF awol 60+ days since mc in Sept. On Provera to find AF then another 5 rounds of clomid before next FC appointment in March.
Yorkie-

Feather, ttc since Sept 11. One fallopian tube, 6 rounds of clomid. Thought there was no hope, then finally a bfp on 2 Nov 2013.
Ladybunnikins - 34, IVF instadiffer, EDD 14/7/14
Foodylicious - TTC Nov 2011, MC May 2013, BFP 2nd Oct 2013.
Puppymummy- 9+2 here, nothing to report except im getting fat cos im always hungry and time is going extremely slowly until scan!
Tally - 16w already, Hyperemesis finally gone into hiding, yay!
Merkin-
Thunder-
Boom- 16w and so far so good!
Kitty 11+4 thanks to iui, 12week scan wed

Boodle I see your temperature went right back up again today, Not that I'm chart stalking.

Adding Yorkie and I back in as we got dropped off

kitty I pointed out ICs don't work for some people and she should try another test

Hugs Barking, everyone has crap days. I know you've had far more than your fair share. Have some cake x

RevoltingPeasant - 34, ttc since May, AF due Nov 17
Bunny - 33, TTC since June 12, had lap 3 weeks go, next step DH sperm freeze and IVF/ICSI
Happylass, 35, TTC since August 2012 but currently on a break. Still waiting to see consultant at FC. Appt Dec 19th
Sidney, 38, TTC since July '12. Polyp to be removed 18Nov then on to private IVF appointments, to start cycling in Jan, if no BFP by then.
BecauseIsaidS0: TTC May 2013, AF due 17th
Gillster, 39, TTC since March 12, FC appointment on 5th, fibroid removal op on 20th.
Birdy - 30, TTC since Dec 2010 (- a few months in 2012 when world was ending) 1st FC appt 15 Nov.
Boodle-
Barking-34, 23rd month ttc, clomid bfp in August, AF awol 60+ days since mc in Sept. On Provera to find AF then another 5 rounds of clomid before next FC appointment in March.
Yorkie- 35, ttc since Sep 2012. mmc Dec. Failed iui cycle. Next step ivf in Jan

Feather, ttc since Sept 11. One fallopian tube, 6 rounds of clomid. Thought there was no hope, then finally a bfp on 2 Nov 2013.
Ladybunnikins - 34, IVF instadiffer, EDD 14/7/14
Foodylicious - TTC Nov 2011, MC May 2013, BFP 2nd Oct 2013.
Puppymummy- 9+2 here, nothing to report except im getting fat cos im always hungry and time is going extremely slowly until scan!
Tally - 16w already, Hyperemesis finally gone into hiding, yay!
Merkin-19+6, edd 25 march. Team pink
Thunder-
Boom- 16w and so far so good!
Kitty- 11+4 thanks to iui, 12week scan wed

Ooh boodle

Congratulations, feather!!!

Barking - when I get that teary I know I'm getting AF in the next day or two. Sometimes it is good to just let all the tears out.

I'm on CD17 and pretty sure I haven't ovulated . Am starting to think my left ovary is bust!

It's not that exciting-if you recall previous charts of mine, I am quite good at dipping in the luteal phase. I'm sure AF will be along in 2-3 days. On spotting watch as of tomorrow!

Just dropping in to say yay yay yay and congratulations to feather and lady! Have got a lot to catch up on the thread so will pop back later and update list then also ! o

Just dropping in to say yay yay yay and congratulations to feather and lady! Have got a lot to catch up on the thread so will pop back later and update list then also ! o

Hi barking how you doing now??
From what I have read and understand about provera most people do not get AF until after the course of provera is stopped and it was referred to as a 'withdrawl' bleed??

Incidentally I had a massive hysterical cry yesterday for about 1 1/2 hrs. I feel so much better for it today. Though I get a bit teary at just about everything, I had not had a proper cry for ages.

Feeling a little more sane now thanks Foody but still in a state of emotional high alert - wouldn't take much to get me going again! Have been out for dog walk so had some fresh air and now hunkered up in the spare room trying to make/design a wedding dress. Hmm. You know when you have those good ideas that seem a little silly when you actually try putting them into practice?! I've never made a dress before (fancy dress doesn't count) so what possessed me to assume I could make a dress for my wedding I don't know .

Oh, and on AF/Provera, I know not to expect it yet, but the irrational emotional state I'm in today (rather than being rationally emotional) usually only occurs the day before AF. I was thinking regardless of Provera maybe my body decided it had kept me waiting long enough?!

Wow barking, designing and making your own dress! very jealous. I cant even hem curtains.
I have lots of little projects that are great in my head but not so easy once I start. DIY related though.

Also I had nearly forgotten (sort of) that me an OH are engaged, one of my brothers asked if we were setting a date soon and for a few minutes I had no Idea what he was talking about!
We are super skint so it won't be happening for a long time. Don't want a big showy affair, but we are struggling to get through month by month at the moment, never mind saving up!

Glad you feeling a bit better x