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Planning ahead for Christmas! December bus starting far too early...

950 replies

barmybunting · 30/10/2013 18:42

Hi All,

Anyone else around for the Dec bus yet? I think AF has managed to kick me off Nov already as she has arrived a few days early, and my cycle will probably mean she is next due at the beginning of Dec rather than Nov.

So does anyone else want to climb on board and help me hang tinsel and drink mulled wine to while away the time until that bfp in Dec?

OP posts:
natwebb79 · 27/11/2013 19:54

Thank you folks! It was literally first try this time! Really surprised me as I'm 34 now and thought things might take a while longer...we're a bit shocked but over the moon. A summer baby it is! Grin

BexBoo12 · 27/11/2013 20:03

Aww what a wonderful early Christmas present. So pleased for you x

HollyBen · 27/11/2013 20:38

Another BFP before the December bus even sets off! This is one lucky bus. Congrats natwebb Fingers crossed for more good news soon

woodwaj · 27/11/2013 20:45

Congrats Natwebb x

laravh · 27/11/2013 21:02

Yours are varying a hell of a lot less than mine karmalaa. mine went from 36.4 down to 35.9, down to 35.85 then up to 36.23 and 36.25!! What the hell is goin on. Always test between half 7 and 8am, always before getting out of bed. Confused.com!

Aisha18 · 27/11/2013 21:32

Hi ladies, could I jump on board please...AF got me this morning so I'm off the November bus (the only good thing about this is I can enjoy a few glasses of mulled wine when the Christmas markets open in Munich this week) Stats are ttc #1 cycle 3 BFP due 24th dec. I can't believe it's cycle 3 already...I (stupidly) thought it'd all be simple for me and I'd get pregnant easily! FX for Christmas BFPs for us all!!

BexBoo12 · 27/11/2013 21:52

Hi Aisha Grin good luck for this cycle. This festive bus is very very lucky so fingers crossed it's lucky for you too xx

sazzlehopes · 27/11/2013 22:01

Ok so the mega bitch kicked me off the nov bus this evening so I'm joining this bus properly now.
Sazzlehopes ttc#2 cycle13 bfp 25th December!

This seems like a very lucky bus already. Im extremely peed off to go past the year mark but hey ho let's hope for a big amount of Xmas pressies for us all!

TanwyddRocket · 27/11/2013 22:08

Babyspice2501 I have no plans to test for a few days to be honest! Although if I manage to be patient enough to wait it will be a miracle! I am trying so hard not to get my hope up too much! X

barmybunting · 27/11/2013 22:31

BFPs!! Keep them coming!
Howly - Nov
DorotheaHomeAlone - Nov
ItsSoFluffyImGonnaDie - Nov
Nulanoo - Nov
Natweb79 - Nov

Lining up for our Bfps!
TanwyddRocket Cycle 15 TTC #1 BFP due any day
greentealeaf ttc #1, cycle 1, AF/BFP due 30/11 - 01/12ish
Owlie84 ttc#1, cycle 7, BFP 30th Nov / 1st Dec
BexBoo12 TTC#1 cycle 1 bfp due maybe 1 dec?
Newlywed2013 Ttc #1 cycle 1 after mc AF/ Bfp due 1/2nd dec
Catface cycle 2 ttc #1 bfp due early Dec.
Littlebear88 ttc#1 1 cycle AF due 1 December
SaraRB123 ttc#1 cycle 1 bfp due 2-4 December
Hyland Cycle 24 ttc #2 BFP due 1st December
Lime19 ttc number 1, cycle 3, bfp due dec 2
Littlemissy BFP on the 3rd Dec after a mmc last month
Kt1991 Cycle 4 ttc #2 BFP due 3/4th December
woodwaj TTC no.1 cycle 15 bfp due 4th December
DuPainDuVinDuFromage TTC #2, cycle 4, bfp 4th dec
Polkadot1 ttc number 2, cycle 3, bfp due 4-5th Dec roughly
PunkyPod Cycle 1 ttc #2 BFP due 5th December
DaisyDoo44 ttc #2 cycle 11 BFP 5th dec
Missvaughan85 Ttc #2 cycle 5 bfp due 5th dec
kirstyd1 ttc#2 cycle 4 bfp due 6th dec
EverythingInMjiniature Ttc #1 cycle 4. Bfp due 6th December
Onelifeonechance, ttc#1, cycle 6, BFP due 6th Dec
barmybunting cycle 2 ttc #1 bfp due around 7th Dec
ThoraNomiki TTC #2 cycle (maybe 4?) too early to tell but will be month 12 by Dec
wispywoo due 8th Dec, ttc #1, cycle 1
crazylady2013 tcc#1 cycle 4 BFP 8 Dec
Finnable TTC #1, hoping for a BFP 8th Dec
ImNotAFlower cycle 2 ttc # 2 BFP due 9th (ish) December
booisgreat 42 ttc #3 cycle 2 mmc sept 13 bfp due 10th Dec
LittleOwlie TTC #1 Cycle 1 bfp due 10 Dec
MovingOnUpduffed ttc #2 cycle 5 bfp due 10th December
Findingme ttc#2 cycle 5 bfp due 10th Dec(ish).
LePetitPont Ttc #1, cycle 5. bfp due 11th Dec
LemonDrizzler TTC #1, cycle 4, BFP/AF due 11 December
allchatnicknamesgone TTC #2 cycle 7. Bfp 11th dec
SoMuchFruit ttc#2. Cycle 5. BFP due 10/12
Cottonwool4brains ttc#2, cycle 9 (chem cycles 4 and 7) Bfp due 12-15th Dec
mama31 TTC #2 Cycle 6 (meh!) BFP due 12th December
millsy105 TTC #1, 7 months bfp due 12th Dec
Karmalaa TTC#1, cycle #2 since mc, BFP due 13th Dec
Cherieblossom Ttc #3, cycle 1, BFP due 13 dec
lucyfluff TTC4, cycle 2 post mc, bfp 13th dec..
Kitkat1985 cycle 1 ttc #1 BFP due 13th (ish) December
Witch25 TTC #1 Cycle 4 Bfp 13th December
skybluegirl33 ttc#1 cycle 5 BFP due Dec 14th
MundayCakes85 ttc #1, cycle 5 BFP due 15th Dec
mumtoacub ttc#2 about to start cycle 7! bfp due 16/12
rubyshoe Cycle 3 ttc #2 Bfp due 17th Dec
JustMarriedBecca TTC#1. BFP due 18 December. Cycle 1
mssleepyhead TTC#1 cycle 2 BFP due 18-19 Dec
ThingsThatGoHumpInTheNight, Cycle #1 TTC #1, BFP due 18th Dec(ish)
crashbandicoot ttc #1 cycle 5-7 bfp due dec 19th
hudyerweesht ttc no3 cycle 5 BFP due 19ish Dec
lessonsintightropes cycle 4, TTC#1, Bfp due 19 Dec
JennyOfOldstones TTC #1 cycle 4 BFP due 19th December
babyspice2501 bfp due 20th Dec
Moffit TTC#2 Cycle 2 BFP 21st December
ImaginaryHat, ttc#1, cycle 7, bfp 22nd December.
Charlie343 cycle 2 TTC #1 with AF/BFP due 23rd December
laravh TTC #1 cycle3 (technically 4, but we're living in different countries for cycle 3) BFP dec23
Spinningirl10....ttc#3 cycle 1 post mc, bfp due 24th Dec!
Aisha18 ttc #1 cycle 3 BFP due 24th dec
Sazzlehopes ttc#2 cycle13 bfp 25th December!
Minnieheehee cycle 14 ttc #2 bfp 25 December
akachan cycle 1 ttc #1 bfp due 25 December (!)
Pocopearl Cycle 4 ttc #2 bfp due 25 December
KnottyKnitter ttc #1. cycle 1 should start 24/11. so bfp due Christmas day if pill hasn't made ovaries misbehave!
Honeybear30 TTC #1, cycle 1 or 2, bfp due 25th December!!
EllisIsland ttc#2 bfp due 25 Dec
flymo79 bfp due 25 Dec
Chumbies cycle 1 ttc #1 bfp due 27th Dec
m33r Ttc #1; cycle 12 - bfp due ?
Thingsthatgobump Ttc #1 cycle 2 bfp New Year's Eve
newforest Trying for baby no. 1, cycle 2(tried in September, though not very well timed) BFP due 31st December.
BeigeBuffet cycle 1 ttc #1 bfp after new year.
Ohfourfoxache TTC #1 bfp due ?
Wineandchoocy ttc #1, cycle #5, bfp December ??
Cherieblossom Bfp Due ??
NurseSapphire bfp due ? Dec
Snowballs bfp due hopefully now!
Monstorsaurus bfp due?
mammabear4 cycle 1/2 bfp due New Year!
MissingBun ttc #1 cycle 3 bfp due 31st Dec
rockin20s 28yrs, TTC cycle 1, AF Due January 8th
DearDinah TTC # 1 Cycle 6 BFP due ?
Doodlekitty TTC number 2. Dc1 just turned 1. Cycle 2. bfp due ?
musicalmrs TTC #2, cycle one.

OP posts:
barmybunting · 27/11/2013 22:32

Congratulations Natweb!! Fabulous news Smile. How are you feeling?

Welcome to all of our new passengers... We are a busy bus!

OP posts:
BexBoo12 · 27/11/2013 22:56

Sazzle sorry to hear that lovely, but that's 1 more AF closer to your wonderfully special bfp - here's hoping for it to be this month xx

mammabear4 · 27/11/2013 23:14

Hi ladies! So I ordered some tests off Amazon and received them today - 1 week to wait until AF but I was stupidly impatient and did the test at about 4pm - BFN :(

I would love a New Year BFP but can't help feeling rather disappointed even though this was first 1/2 cycle of TTC and I didn't REALLY expect anything to happen... There's always that thought of "but I could be...". Should I give up hope now or hold on until expected AF date for this month (1st dec)???

Newlywed2013 · 28/11/2013 01:16

I would def wait and test again when AF is due! It still might be too early to detect any hormone!
I know the feeling I have a test on the bathroom I want to take! But am trying to wait til Monday! I had a bfp last month but it only picked up 4 days after AF was due but bled that evening and lost it! Just wait and see, it's not over til af gets you!

onelifeonechance · 28/11/2013 06:59

Sazzle - just wanted to say a big boo hiss to hearing af arrived, so unfair, was rooting for you Thanks Come&sit near us, we'll budge up. And here have a mulled wine&mince pie, the fluffy blanket is available if required Smile

Lucy, hoping you're ok&getting on with dtd. Any sore nipples yet?! Smile

lucyfluff · 28/11/2013 07:27

Hiya onelife! Yeah all good and on track with eod...no sore nips yet so I dont think ov is here yet im CD 14 today so in next few hopefully!!! I hope we manage it this month Grin

How are you keeping?

Ps sazzle...so sorry the witch got you again Sad I really hope this is your month x

onelifeonechance · 28/11/2013 07:44

Good, good Lucy, yes I hope you do it this month too. I'm fine ta, lying low as been busy&need to get cracking with Christmas stuff, haven't bought a single pressie yet, eek!!

ImaginaryHat · 28/11/2013 07:48

Oh sazzle that sucks, although its lovely to have you here I was really hoping it was your month for a bfp. As onelife says, grab the blanket and hop aboard, and just think if you get a Christmas day bfp all of this will be totally worth it.

Congrats natwebb that's lovely news Flowers

SoMuchFruit · 28/11/2013 07:53

Hi Ladies, had a manic few days so catching up quickly this morning.

Congratulations Natwebb! That's fab!

That's rubbish Sazzle Sad. Reading through I was getting all excited for you. Thanks

I've been trying out FF this month, but it's confusing me Confused .. No idea what it's going on about, this is what it says today!

" You are on Cycle Day (CD) 19. You are now waiting for your ovulation. Make sure to monitor your cervical fluid closely."

Er... but below it says this!

"Your cervical fluid pattern indicates that you may have ovulated between Cycle Day 16 and Cycle Day 18."

Whut ? Hmm

It's moot anyway as OH has been away since Tue (Apparently, OD) so if FF is right, we've zero hope this month sigh.

flymo79 · 28/11/2013 10:15

gah! somuch, that is weird. What does your gut instinct say? Do you use other ways to check for ov? Did you and your OH dtd before he went away? xx

ItsSoFluffyImGonnaDie · 28/11/2013 10:52

Congrats Natwebb!

SoMuch it says that as it hasn't confirmed when O is yet; it wants to see 3 days of raised temps before it will confirm when it was. Confusing huh? Grin You'll get used to it though. Any q's about FF, give me a shout!

Oh sazzle, FX for this month Thanks

allchatnicknamesgone · 28/11/2013 11:05

sazzle i think FF will only confirm ovulation if you either put opk readings in or you are recording your temp. This month I decided to just track my cm, but I'm going to put a few 'cheat' opk readings just so I know my approximate dpo. Also, you may have already done this, but put as much past history data as you can. The more data FF has the better a job it does. Finally, it sometimes takes a few hours to update. I find I sometimes have to close the app, then re-open it for it to catch up.

Last night I had the pinching feel in my left ovary. Do you think that is the release of the egg? Different schools of thought on google. I'm just wondering how many more days I should dtd for. Tempted to do an opk just to see if I've ovulated. I'm trying to be more chilled this month, but not having the tools to help me makes me feel less in control and therefore speculating about everything more. We've dtd the last 2 nights and would like a night off tonight, but I'm desperate to give myself the best chance this cycle. Any thoughts guys?

Karmalaa · 28/11/2013 11:28

sazzle i'm super sorry that af got you this month Sad and I'm sorry if we added to you building your hopes up, as bexboo said, that's one af closer to the BFP. Keep your chin up.

laravh your temps do seem to fluctuate, though I only use a regular themometer which measures to one decimal point, not two, I think maybe i'd see more fluctuation if I used a better themometer!

I'm with you at confused.com I was convinced of ov on CD15/16, I was feeling all smug that we'd dtd at the right time then boom, this morning 36.3 i'm guessing today (CD18) is ov day. Needless to say grabbed OH for a quick dtd before work!!

Rubyshoe · 28/11/2013 11:40

Hi all Congrats natweb! Fab news, really thrilled for you!

Sazzle sorry the witch got you again! I definitely agree with whoever posted a little while ago and said they wished TTC was like a test you could just revise for! We do everything we can every month and then have to leave it to chance once our bodies take over. Fx for next month for us all.

SMF that sounds confusing! Do you have any idea from previous months as to which FF prediction is right? I'm also using FF this month for first time and my temps look like a toddler has gone mad with a crayon so no idea what the software will make of that!

AFM CD10 today and just managing to get rid of lovely thrush! (Sorry if TMI) hoping it can be all cleared up for me to pounce on DH at weekend. We are actually away on holiday so hopefully that may take the pressure off a bit!

allchat one more go maybe?

Rubyshoe · 28/11/2013 11:43

Sorry Karmalaa Cross posts! Hats off to your prework commitment, you go girl!