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Planning ahead for Christmas! December bus starting far too early...

950 replies

barmybunting · 30/10/2013 18:42

Hi All,

Anyone else around for the Dec bus yet? I think AF has managed to kick me off Nov already as she has arrived a few days early, and my cycle will probably mean she is next due at the beginning of Dec rather than Nov.

So does anyone else want to climb on board and help me hang tinsel and drink mulled wine to while away the time until that bfp in Dec?

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lucyfluff · 21/11/2013 19:27

YES poas dorothea lol!!! Grin Good luck!!

Ummmm may suggest that to him now...been sat here thinking I went to a lovely spa for my hen do and we could go there again....Grin

mama31 · 21/11/2013 19:29

Definately Lucy! We are heading on a spa break in Feb and I am super excited! Can not wait!!! :)

woodwaj · 21/11/2013 19:30

Test Dorothea!! That's exciting!

Does your DS know you are TTC mama?

Very tired today! People with colds keep hovering around me, Hope im not getting ill!! Hmm

mama31 · 21/11/2013 20:02

Woodwaj he doesn't know exactly but we have had conversations that he will have a sibling at some stage! Hope your not getting the cold....i have a terrible head cold....meh!

Missvaughan85 · 21/11/2013 20:07

Dtd in our house is usually bed time, the occasional morning dtd but not very often.

Well girls, I can't tell anyone else yet as it's bit common knowledge in his work, but DH has got a new job today!!! So excited and pleased and proud!! And just so friggin happy!!! Feel like a bit weight has been lifted and don't feel so worried about money now when maternity leave eventually comes!!

We'll have to have a celebratory dtd session tonight!!

Oh and those pains I was having last month have reared their ugly head again, I've just got constant af type pains low down!! What is going on???

mama31 · 21/11/2013 20:21

Awh great news! Congrats to MrV on his new job ;) not sure what your pains are though!

woodwaj · 21/11/2013 20:43

Congrats on the new job MrV!

That's good I can imagine a DS would prob be much cooler about it than if it was a DD.

Missvaughan85 · 21/11/2013 21:00

Thanks mama and wood, he's playing it very cool. Don't think it's sunk in yet, the pains are strange, there the same as I had prior to af, for three weeks, then af came 2 weeks late, if they continue its another trip to the dr's.

hudyerweesht · 21/11/2013 21:32

Can I join in please? Long time lurker but have decided to stop being shy! Stats are ttc no3 cycle 5 BFP due 19ish Dec.

AF arrived today and I am gutted, was sure it would happen this month. Maybe next time......

DorotheaHomeAlone · 21/11/2013 21:37

Oh my god. Took your advice and poac. It's positive. I am literally shaking. Showed my dh and neither of us can believe it so we've bought another couple of tests to do. I am in total shock. I've had no symptoms at all and thought we'd missed of date last month. This feels totally surreal.

HollyBen · 21/11/2013 21:45

Woo hoo dorothea Congratulations!

woodwaj · 21/11/2013 21:54

ahhh Congrats that's brilliant, I love hearing of no symptoms it gives me hope!

ImaginaryHat · 21/11/2013 22:17

Barmy that will be so nice for you to get an extended period of time together then after all that time apart. Yeah I think it is af on the way not ov, due at the weekend if it arrives on time. Not really been able to tell if I've ovd in November as my opks have been positive for the last 3 weeks after mc so not too sure. Hpts still v mildly positive but almost gone now so hoping opks will go back to normal soon too. We've not dtd at all so just waiting for af to show up so we can start again after that.

Dorothea congratulations, what a lovely surprise!

Well done MrV on the new job, those pains are a bit strange though, back to the docs I reckon if they go on for much longer.

Been on a massive Christmas shopping spree tonight, made a big dent in it and everything else I reckon I can get online. I love crimbo so much but can do without shopping chaos in December!

MundayCakes85 · 21/11/2013 22:50

Congratulations Dorothea- bet your both over the moon!
Well done MrV- hope you enjoyed the celebration DTD!
I've only bought dad and step mum presents so far as seeing him at wkend. I'm not very organised, and working almost every weekend so not much chance of dragging DH around the shops. Thank god for the Internet!

Forgot my stats earlier: I'm 28, DH is 30. We've been together 5 1/2 years- met in Australia, married for 7 months. This will be our first child, would love 2 or 3 but just hoping we can get lucky soon!

Newlywed2013 · 22/11/2013 02:34

Those who have experienced it what does implantation feel like?

Rubyshoe · 22/11/2013 07:13

Congratulations Dorothea and DH! Thrilled for you both.... Blimey the December BFPs have started and it's still Novemeber (ireally a Novemebr BfP I guess but I'm not afraid to hijack good news!) Enjoy your lovely secret guys (unless you've already told people in RL!)

Congrats also to MrV fab timing!

According to my calculations I will Ov this month while we are away on holiday so hopefully some nice relaxed DTD might help take the pressure off and give us our BFP this month!

Rubyshoe · 22/11/2013 07:14

newlywed no experience of implantation bleeds sorry! didn't have one last time so I'm no help..... Sounds promising though if you are questioning it?

akachan · 22/11/2013 07:34

Congrats to Dorothea! A good omen for this bus?!

I feel like I'll get AF today then I can start focusing on this month. I've had a horribly stressful couple of weeks at work but hopefully it will all calm down a bit now.

SoMuchFruit · 22/11/2013 07:51

Congratulations Dorothea! Thats a fab surprise!
Well done to MrV too - hope the celebrations were enjoyed by all Grin

Sorry, Newly, I don't know about it as had neither pain nor implantation bleed with DS.

A spa break sounds lovely.. especially as I have woken up to the Ice Age outside.. it's beautiful but FREEZING!

Further prodding investigation makes me think I am ov earlier this month. Maybe this has been going on every month and I didn't know ? CP is the fabled S.H.O.W this morning. DTD last night so hope OH is upto it again tonight as my plan is to DTD every day while S.H.O.W is present.

I always thought I maybe ov'd a bit late.. maybe I've been wrong and it's been early! The Veno's is working too.. lots of EWCM!

woodwaj · 22/11/2013 09:05

Thats interesting about veno's how much and often are you using it?

lucyfluff · 22/11/2013 09:11

Congrats to dorothea and to Mrv Smile lovely news!!!

Its freezing here again and I have DS2 off school with a temperature Sad so lots of snuggles on the sofa today!!!

MovingOnUpduffed · 22/11/2013 09:15

Can I please join, this is cycle 5 trying for baby number 2, my bfp should be due on 10th December. I am tempting and charting, but something weird is going on, I got af as normal last week, but my temps haven't dropped, they are still high but all tests negative. :-s today's was 36.89!

mama31 · 22/11/2013 09:39

Congrats dorothea!!!! :)

Welcome movingon! I know nothing about temps but someone else might help you with that, good luck for Dec! :)

Ok so the control freak has left the building......had a chat with DH this morning and we have decided not to opk this cycle either.....i don't even want to know when I've ovulated this month! so stress free, enjoying Dec and dtd as we like! :)

SoMuchFruit · 22/11/2013 10:03

woodwaj - I sort of take the reccomended dose on the bottle for a cough! Dunno if I should take more or less so went with that. It's 10ml 3 x day but I usually forget at lunchtime so more like 10ml 2 x day.

I noticed the difference last month when I was actually taking it for a cough. Googled the ingredients and found lots of USA results for the same basic chemical but in the US it comes in tablet form (Mucinex)

Am surprised at the amount of EWCM, far more than I usually have and much more than Evening Primrose Oil created - I was taking EPO for another reason, not ttc, but as it is supposed to create more EWCM I was interested and noted it. Or not, as it didn't do that much for me.

SoMuchFruit · 22/11/2013 10:05

Mama that sounds like a plan Grin .. that's what I plan if no BFP this time.. Christmas time.. no overthought TTC plan. Eat, drink (maybe a sneaky smoke) and be merry!

No Ovulation Detection, no sex plans, no Veno's!