Betty so sorry you are joining us on this thread, but welcome. It is so hard to come to terms with losing what was a perfectly healthy child, so cruel and incomprehensible. Your loss is so recent, I hope you have good, supportive people round you in RL. We lost our long awaited daughter at 34 weeks on Xmas eve 2012.
Ruby so good to hear from you, and to hear that things are going well. Your experience with the useless at the hospital brought back memories for me too, unbelievable! I remember also being told someone would see me TOMORROW (!!) after complaining about reduced movements. The nurse also gave me this pearl of wisdom after I told her how worried I was: "Dont think bad things cos if you do they end up happening". Thank goodness your little bear was fine in the end. I also have had my fair share of utterly stupid comments like your line managers...my next door neighbour said to me "years ago I had a miscarriage at 10 weeks and I was carrying twins - so you see, there is always someone worse off than you". FFS 
Ducky I had acupuncture twice a week in the weeks leading up to our embryo transfer and am convinced it helped. If nothing else it calmed me down, I think it even took the edge off my grief a little bit. I am going every 3-4 weeks now just to "top up" on my qi. Just make sure you find a good one if you decide to go for it though. Did you decide what to do re: the painting smells at work issue? Hope youre feeling ok
Earth hope the house move went smoothly, it is such a massively stressful event! Just got a message from a friend with a 1yr old saying she has given up on the packing (theyre moving too) , thats its absolutely impossible with her daughter unpacking everything that just been packed and climbing into all the boxes! Your consultant sounds like he needs a damn good slap, how dare he refer to F as a "symptom" oh it turns my stomach how cold some of the medical professionals are!
Blue sorry to hear about your experience at the hospital near your work, and that youve had that bit of reassurance taken away from you. Two hours does seem to be a long time to be seen. I think that in the case of an emergency (even if its just that we feel its an emergency) its worth making a fuss if necessary to get seen. Even if you have to fake a faint/pain/bleeding or something, the most important thing is to get seen soon. I havent needed to do it yet. But if the time comes when I have an emergency I will do whats necessary to get in asap! I think its just you and I on nightwatch, I think Earth's stint was while she was pregnant (am I right Earth?) the other day I forced myself to not have any naps during the day so I was reeeaaallly tired at night - didnt make any difference, still awake at 3.50am 
ATM I think any decisions that can help take a little stress from you are good, so not actively TTC sounds like a good thing for a time. Sounds like you are pretty busy too, which can be good for distracting your mind for a while.
Owl so glad the grave wasnt damaged. I had a look on the Net about Sands memorial gardens and was amazed at how many have been vandalised, even a statue of a baby was stolen in one! Just totally unbelievable. Have these peope no human emotions like compassion/empathy left? Hope Owlet is doing well.
AFM went for my 15 week checkup/scan with the obstet yesterday. The 24hr blood pressure thing shows my BP is prefectly normal, even on the low side. So if I had gone ahead and taken the medication she prescribed (over the phone) without comparing my monitor with the Chemist's I really dread to think what might have happened - maybe something serious? But she just fluffed over the issue, even tried to make it look like it was MY fault as my readings had been wrong! Surely she should have called me in and taken a few readings herself before prescribing meds? DH is furious with her, and we are rapidly losing confidence in her although everyone tells us she is the best . Anyway the important part is that the baby is fine, he/she refused to get into a position where we could see the "bits" so we are still in the dark about gender. To be thruthful Im in no rush to find out, as long as he/she is born alive and healthy that will be enough. The obstet says there is no need for another detailed scan between 12 and 20-22 weeks, and that a "normal" scan at every visit (every 3 weeks) is enough until then. But I find that between 12 and 20 weeks I need the reassurance of a proper scan with a sonographer as all the obstet does is a quick once-over and refuses to even tell us the HB frequency, just says "its normal". Am I being over-anxious on the scan front? Last night I really felt like I was going mad with the wait, just no idea how I'm going to ge through the next 5 months :( I have booked myself in for a visit next week with my lovely midwife, just to get some moral support!
Waves to everyone I've missed and any lurkers