Is the October party bus the luckiest bus ever?!?!

[Choccywoccydodah]

26 amazingly wonderful BFP's so far!!

Snowlet BFP cycle 1 post m/c
ThreeFromDesire BFP cycle 9
IBelieveInEngels BFP cycle ?
Clever0110 BFP cycle 1
LucyFluff BFP cycle 2 (chem)
Lililly BFP cycle ?
RaRaZ BFP cycle 4
Liquidamber BFP cycle 4
Ginandstripes BFP cycle 4
MrsDinoRawr BFP cycle 3
Nicenicebaby BFP cycle ?
Hugglemonster BFP cycle 3
MrsRandom78 BFP cycle 1
MarlenaGru BFP cycle 1
VickyVix BFP cycle 2
CooCooCachoo BFP cycle 3
WifeOfGru BFP cycle 1
panicmechanic BFP cycle 11
Argyle socks BFP cycle 11
Girlsgotink
Cottonwoolforbrains
CurlyWurlyM6 BFP cycle 4
HannahC1989 BFP cycle 13
Jessieagain BFP cycle 2
MrsB2013 BFP cycle 3
Jaykay987 BFP cycle 2

39 Awaiting BFPs

Bloumer ttc #1 cycle #3ish? BFP 6th
Funkymonk 31yrs ttc#1 cycle 11 (cycle 3 post Mc) bfp due 6/7 Oct
Pocopearl ttc 2 cycle 2 bfp due 7 oct
Jessewalt Ttc #1, cycle 4, bfp due 8th October.
Charleslingus 31, ttc #3 cycle 4 bfp due 8th oct
sparklesandfizz ttc#3, cycle 1, BFP oct 9th
SuzB83, Cycle 9, BFP due 9th October
Rockstars12 ttc#1 cycle 2 BFP due 11th oct
Springtime26 ttc2 cycle 4 bfp 13th October
Stepawayfromthezebras ttc#1, cycle 2, BFP due 16th Oct
GnomieGrace TTC#1 cycle4 BFP due October 19th
Onelifeonechance ttc#1 cycle 4 BFP due 20th Oct
Flymo79 ttc#1 cycle 4 bfp due 21st oct
Fox82 ttc#1 cycle 11 bfp due 22nd oct
SazzyB ttc #1 cycle 1 due bfp 22nd October
ELR ttc#3 cycle 3 BFP due 24th Oct
fluffythelabcat ttc#1, cycle 3, BFP due 24th Oct
ItsSoFluffyImGonnaDie ttc #1, cycle 1, BFP due 24th Oct
Newlywed2013 ttc#1 cycle 1 bfp End of Oct ? 26th Oct?
Kemie ttc#1, cycle 8!! BFP due oct 26/27th
ExactlyWhat ttc #3 cycle 2 bfp 27th Oct
Mama31 TTC #2 cycle 4 BFP 27th Oct
JellyBeanDavey ttc#1 cycle #4 BFP due 27th
HalfPintLulu ttc #2 cycle 1 bfp due 27th October
NeuroticSweetTalk ttc#1 cycle 2 bfp due 28th oct
Sazzlehopes ttc#2 cycle 10+ bfp due 28th October
Newbie784 ttc#1 cycle 2 bfp due 28th oct
Hev19 ttc#1 cycle 1 bfp due 28th Oct
Flames40s ttc#4 cycle 4 bfp due 29th Oct
JoHull ttc#1 Cycle 2 bfp due 30th
SignoraStronza ttc#3, cycle 2 BFP due 30th oct
ImaginaryHat ttc#1 cycle 6 bfp 30th October
M33r ttc#1 cycle 11 bfp due 31st October
Jbiscuits ttc#1 cycle 3 bfp due end of October
Wineandchoccy TTC #1, cycle number 2, bfp due ?
Laravh ttc #1 cycle 2 bfp due end of October
MissVaughan ttc #2 cycle 3 bfp due ?
LittleBear01 TTC #1, cycle 6, BFP due 3rd Nov (long cycle - 37 days usually)
Lifehasafunnywayofhelpinguout ttc #2 cycle ? Bfp due ?

[VJONES1985]

MrsB Your comment about a month'a worth of poo made me laugh.

[VJONES1985]

MrsB Your comment about a month'a worth of poo made me laugh.

[lifehasafunnywayofhelpinguout]

Congratulations. Jaykay. xx
V.Jones. Not sure how to put this as I do not want to hurt anyone's feelings but I do get where you're coming from when you say you feel envious of all the B.F.P's because rightly or wrongly I am the same even though I am pleased for them. However at the moment it's too early for me to be envious as I could still be pregnant as A.F is not due yet. I don't hold myself out much hope though if any as I've had no symptoms. I am on C.D 22. You do get fed up. You'd be robotic if you didn't. However I am also anxious about getting pregnant in case it's took away again.
Sorry for the moan and what would look like self pitty. Ready to put my happy face back on now. xx

[VJONES1985]

life - Having no symptoms doesn't mean anything as some women fall pg and don't have them for ages. Besides, I had loads of 'symptoms' this time and got a bfn! Think that's a blessing in disguise because it means I won't symptom spot so much this time :)

[lifehasafunnywayofhelpinguout]

Hi V.Jones. I never thought of that. I mean it's certainly not unheard of for women to give birth without ever knowing they where pregnant so obviously they had no symptoms and must have still been having periods. xx

[VJONES1985]

Well, stopping periods is obviously the main sign women get that they are pg and as soon as af arrives, I know I'm not pg and get ready to start a new ttc cycle. It's extremely rare to get periods whilst pregnant. But it's other symptoms vary from woman to woman, such as nausea, headaches, heartburn, sore boobs, etc, so don't get hung up on them.

[m33r]

Thanks mrsb. Lots of info in there so long post much appreciated.

vj sorry you're feeling down and fed up. I'm on cycle 11 (sorry I'm always saying that) but I get so excited for veryone else. Try to think of it as everyone who gets pg on here tells you something you maybe didn't know and are def rooting for you! Also, every month you're not pg means that the next month you're statistically more likely to be pg next month ... Ifykwim

I dunno if that helps. I hope it does. You'll be missed if you're not around but we'll all be hoping you get upduffed regardless!

[m33r]

Also vj at cycle 4, you've got to 2 months within the stats to get pg... Hang in there!

[lifehasafunnywayofhelpinguout]

Sorry to jump in here M33r while you are talking to V.J but can you honestly say you never ever get even the slightest pang of envy of all the B.F.Ps If you don't then that's beyond admirable but by the same token it wouldn't make you the devil if you did. x

[Sparrowlegs248]

Hello al, back for a proper read and catch up - DH was talking at me earlier hence my slightly rushed post!

Hi VJ - so sorry you are feeling low. I know what you mean about taking a break - i have been much less active on here this time. I sometimes think it fuels my craziness. It is good to try to take a step back though, if you can. I am working on the principle that yheres no reason it won't happen and am giving it 6 cycles before i start to 'worry' in theory...

Jaykay and Mrsb - huge congratulations to you both!! How exciting!!

writer i just don't know about testing. I was so sure AF had got me wednesday but literally nothing since thursday morning. And what i did have wasn't heavy. So if that was spotting i am now officially late.

I don't want to get my hopes up. We only dtd twice i think and i am not certain when i ov - just go by average for my cycle length.

Symptoms -

Felt nauseous on tues/weds cd22/23
Headachey all last week
Also had 3 poops in a day (unheard of)
Tired
Dizzy friday a few times.
Poss implantation bleed weds/thurs - pinky discharge then brown stuff. Started weds, gone by thursday mid morning. Nothing on pad just a bit in loo and on loo paper when wiping.

Af due yesterday.......

[Choccywoccydodah]

I'm extremely lol

[Choccywoccydodah]

M33r sorry if I'm being thick but what do you mean 2 months within the stats?

[m33r]

choccy I mean the vast majority of people - can't remember what the percentage is - get pg in first six months.

[VJONES1985]

Choccy - Glad I'm not the only one :)

Notta - I thought about waiting until cycle 6 before I worry as well... but now I'm on cycle 4 and thinking, "Only two cycles away from having to worry about things! Oh no, perhaps there is something wrong! Argh!"

[m33r]

notta have you tested?

[lifehasafunnywayofhelpinguout]

So sorry but I'm not 100% certain that I congratulated Mrsb so congratulations. xx

[Writerwannabe83]

Do a test Notta

Despite me and hubby having had a timetable of planned sex to centre around my predicted ovulation date, it appears that all of that sex was pointless! From all my dating scans it appeared I ovulated 4 days earlier than I predicted and we actually conceived from a 'just for fun' shag that we'd had one evening much earlier in the week than our planned TTC sessions

There is no logic to anything so just because you only 'DTD twice and not sure about ovulation' doesn't mean you can't be pregnant!

[VJONES1985]

Think 80% of women fall within 6 months and 90% within a year.

[VJONES1985]

writer When you say you ov earlier than expected, what were you basing that on? Did you have ewcm or other ov signs?

[m33r]

life I wish I was pg more than anything in the world and when other people get BFPs I think I wish that was me but more BFPs on here won't affect whether I get a BFP or not. Others' BFPs are fantastic and the more there are, the more I think 'that person was distraught last month, now look at them; that's me next I hope' gilly for example was an inspiration to me when she got BFP. Also to be very clear, I was not trying to tell vj what she shouldn't or should feel just the angle I take on things which has got me this far ... With some agonising lows and desperation the like of which I've never known. Again, others' BFPs make me feel better at these times.

[m33r]

Thanks for confirming the stats vj. I'm 90%likely to be pg this or next month. If you were a gambler, I'd be your bet. That's what I'm clinging to.

I hope my last post made you feel better - that's what I was going for. Sorry if it didn't!

[GillyBillyWilly]

Awwww m33r

[GillyBillyWilly]

Notta have you tested?? If not, why?!

[VJONES1985]

m33r - You have helped me, thank you. You're totally right about trying to stay upbeat and take the positives from this situation. And I do know what you mean when you say you take inspiration from people on here. Fx this is your month then!

[VJONES1985]

Gilly - How long did it take you?