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Not even halfway through October and the BFPs are coming fast!

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Choccywoccydodah · 13/10/2013 20:42

14 wonderful BFP's so far!!

Snowlet BFP cycle 1 post m/c
ThreeFromDesire BFP cycle 9
IBelieveInEngels BFP cycle ?
Clever0110 BFP cycle 1
LucyFluff BFP cycle 2 (chem)
Lililly BFP cycle ?
RaRaZ BFP cycle 4
Liquidamber BFP cycle 4
Ginandstripes BFP cycle 4
MrsDinoRawr BFP cycle 3
Nicenicebaby BFP cycle ?
Hugglemonster BFP cycle 3
MrsRandom78 BFP cycle 1
MarlenaGru BFP cycle 1

56 Awaiting BFPs

Flame40s ttc#3, cycle3, bfp 2nd Oct
blueskies19 ttc#1 cycle ? BFP 3rd oct
newforest ttc#1, cycle 1, bfp 5th Oct
Nulanoo ttc#1 cycle 2 bfp 5th Oct
Bloumer ttc #1 cycle #3ish? BFP 6th
Funkymonk 31yrs ttc#1 cycle 11 (cycle 3 post Mc) bfp due 6/7 Oct
Pocopearl ttc 2 cycle 2 bfp due 7 oct
Jessewalt Ttc #1, cycle 4, bfp due 8th October.
Charleslingus 31, ttc #3 cycle 4 bfp due 8th oct
DuPainDuVinDuFromage TTC#2, cycle 2, BFP due 9 Oct
sparklesandfizz ttc#3, cycle 1, BFP oct 9th
SuzB83, Cycle 9, BFP due 9th October
Rockstars12 ttc#1 cycle 2 BFP due 11th Oct
Choccywoccydodah ttc #2, cycle 2, bfp 12th Oct
WifeofGru TTC#3 cycle 1 BFP due 13 Oct
Springtime26 ttc2 cycle 4 bfp 13th October.
panicmechanic ttc#2, cycle 11 BFP due 16th Oct
Stepawayfromthezebras ttc#1, cycle 2, BFP due 16th Oct
CooCooCachoo ttc#2 cycle 3 bfp due 16 October
Allchatnicknamesgone TTC #2, cycle 4, Bfp due oct 18th
ThisIsMeNow ttc#2 cycle 1 due bfp 18th October
Cottonwool4brains TTC #2 cycle 7 bfp 19th October.
jaykay987 ttc #1, cycle 2 BFP due 19th Oct
GnomieGrace TTC#1 cycle4 BFP due October 19th
Nottalotta ttc#1 C4 (already?!?!) bfp due 19th oct
findingme, ttc #2, cycle 3, BFP due 19th Oct
Onelifeonechance ttc#1 cycle 4 BFP due 20th Oct
MrsB2013 ttc #1 cycle #3 bfp due 21st
Flymo79 ttc#1 cycle 4 bfp due 21st oct
Fox82 ttc#1 cycle 11 bfp due 22nd oct
HisLommel ttc#3 cycle 1, bfp due 22nd October.
Babymamatobe ttc ? Cycle 2 bfp due 22nd October
SazzyB ttc #1 cycle 1 due bfp 22nd October
ELR ttc#3 cycle 3 BFP due 24th Oct
fluffythelabcat ttc#1, cycle 3, BFP due 24th Oct
ItsSoFluffyImGonnaDie ttc #1, cycle 1, BFP due 24th Oct
Jessieagain Ttc #2 cycle 2 bfp 25th October.
Newlywed2013 ttc#1 cycle 1 bfp End of Oct ? 26th Oct?
Kemie ttc#1, cycle 8!! BFP due oct 26/27th
ExactlyWhat ttc #3 cycle 2 bfp 27th Oct
Mama31 TTC #2 cycle 4 BFP 27th Oct
JellyBeanDavey ttc#1 cycle #4 BFP due 27th
HalfPintLulu ttc #2 cycle 1 bfp due 27th October
NeuroticSweetTalk ttc#1 cycle 2 bfp due 28th oct
Sazzlehopes ttc#2 cycle 10+ bfp due 28th October
JoHull ttc#1 Cycle 2 bfp due 30th
SignoraStronza ttc#3, cycle 2 BFP due 30th oct
ImaginaryHat ttc#1 cycle 6 bfp 30th October
M33r ttc#1 cycle 11 bfp due 31st October
Jbiscuits ttc#1 cycle 3 bfp due end of October
VJONES1985 ttc#1 cycle3 bfp due ?
Wineandchoccy TTC #1, cycle number 2, bfp due ?
Laravh ttc #1 cycle 2 bfp due end of October
MissVaughan ttc #2 cycle 3 bfp due ?
LittleBear01 TTC #1, cycle 6, BFP due 3rd Nov (long cycle - 37 days usually)
Lifehasafunnywayofhelpinguout ttc #2 cycle ? Bfp due ?

OP posts:
Newbie784 · 16/10/2013 23:19

Hi ladies, trying to catch up on all the posts so congrats to anyone who got their Bfp and sorry to hear those that af got!!

Just wanted to say thanks for the advice r.e. opk's-finally got a positive opk tonight (cd17) so can shortly join you guys for the 2ww :)

VickyVix · 16/10/2013 23:41

Woohoo! Good news newbie good luck to you :)

panicmechanic · 17/10/2013 00:32

I can't quite believe this after all of my tears earlier I just got a BFP !!! Honestly can't believe it. Did two CB tests and got a pregnant 1-2 weeks !!!! So excited but worried now that my bday drinks might have done some harm last week. Haven't told DH yet as he is with friends

lifehasafunnywayofhelpinguout · 17/10/2013 00:52

Congratulations Panic. I'm very pleased for you. xxx

HisLommel · 17/10/2013 01:06

Ahhh panic that's fantastic!! Hurray!! Smile

panicmechanic · 17/10/2013 01:08

Thank you much ! I can't sleep x

jaykay987 · 17/10/2013 05:21

Congratulations panic! Yay! Exciting!

Details, details?

You were brave to do a CB at nighttime - must be a "strong" one!Smile FX!

jaykay987 · 17/10/2013 05:47

bfn on ic for me thus morning. dpo13.

after most my symptoms disappeared yesterday morning, they started back last night. I also have a new symptom of odd boobs. They are sore because they feel tight, rather than heavy. I almost want to pop them to release the pain. this is new for me.

so can anyone give me a bit of help and reassure me they got bfn on dpo 13 on an IC 10mlu test, but went on to get their bfp? Im starting to think at dpo13 I should lower my expectations - but my body is still telling me otherwise!

jessieagain · 17/10/2013 05:49

Wow panic congratulations!! I'm so happy for you :) :) have you told your dh yet?

jessieagain · 17/10/2013 06:19

jaykay I am sure many people would fall into that category! It is still early days for you. I know it is not easy but try and distract yourself from thinking about it. Make some plans for the weekend. In a couple of days you will have your answer (hugs) to you Brew

jaykay987 · 17/10/2013 06:29

Thanks Jesse. DH is away from tomorrow morning until Wednesday. So I need to try and distract myself, which will be very difficult!

Dr google says - one in three pregnant women get a negative test on dpo13. And that's still one in four on day AF is due. Fascinating ( and possibly delusional. Smile)

Im trying to work out what'll be more stressful, getting AF and finding out Im not pregnant, or getting AF and having to deal with the fact I have many pains, aches and complaints two weeks in every five AND I am a grumpy irritable b*tch most of the time! I've no idea how DH puts up with me!

jessieagain · 17/10/2013 06:47

That still leaves a quarter of women getting negatives!

You don't have any dc yet, is that right? Go and makes some plans that would be impossible to do with small dc in tow. Day trip somewhere. Hair cut. Nails done. Cinema. Make some plans so your weekend is so full you have no time to think about it Wink start planning now!

ScienceGeekGirl · 17/10/2013 06:54

Congrats panic that's absolutely amazing news you must be over the moon!

jaykay987 · 17/10/2013 06:54

Yep ttc #1.

I have to stay in until 2pm Saturday, as I am expecting a delivery.

But you're right. I need to get the rest of my empty weekend filled up

jaykay987 · 17/10/2013 06:58

18 amazingly wonderful BFP's so far!!

Snowlet BFP cycle 1 post m/c
ThreeFromDesire BFP cycle 9
IBelieveInEngels BFP cycle ?
Clever0110 BFP cycle 1
LucyFluff BFP cycle 2 (chem)
Lililly BFP cycle ?
RaRaZ BFP cycle 4
Liquidamber BFP cycle 4
Ginandstripes BFP cycle 4
MrsDinoRawr BFP cycle 3
Nicenicebaby BFP cycle ?
Hugglemonster BFP cycle 3
MrsRandom78 BFP cycle 1
MarlenaGru BFP cycle 1
VickyVix BFP cycle 2
CooCooCachoo BFP cycle 3
WifeOfGru BFP cycle 1
panicmechanic ttc#2, cycle 11

52 Awaiting BFPs

blueskies19 ttc#1 cycle ? BFP 3rd oct
newforest ttc#1, cycle 1, bfp 5th Oct
Nulanoo ttc#1 cycle 2 bfp 5th Oct
Bloumer ttc #1 cycle #3ish? BFP 6th
Funkymonk 31yrs ttc#1 cycle 11 (cycle 3 post Mc) bfp due 6/7 Oct
Pocopearl ttc 2 cycle 2 bfp due 7 oct
Jessewalt Ttc #1, cycle 4, bfp due 8th October.
Charleslingus 31, ttc #3 cycle 4 bfp due 8th oct
DuPainDuVinDuFromage TTC#2, cycle 2, BFP due 9 Oct
sparklesandfizz ttc#3, cycle 1, BFP oct 9th
SuzB83, Cycle 9, BFP due 9th October
Rockstars12 ttc#1 cycle 2 BFP due 11th oct
Springtime26 ttc2 cycle 4 bfp 13th October
Stepawayfromthezebras ttc#1, cycle 2, BFP due 16th Oct
Allchatnicknamesgone TTC #2, cycle 4, Bfp due oct 18th
ThisIsMeNow ttc#2 cycle 1 due bfp 18th October
Cottonwool4brains TTC #2 cycle 7 bfp 19th October.
jaykay987 ttc #1, cycle 2 BFP due 19th Oct
GnomieGrace TTC#1 cycle4 BFP due October 19th
Nottalotta ttc#1 C4 (already?!?!) bfp due 19th oct
findingme, ttc #2, cycle 3, BFP due 19th Oct
Onelifeonechance ttc#1 cycle 4 BFP due 20th Oct
MrsB2013 ttc #1 cycle #3 bfp due 21st
Flymo79 ttc#1 cycle 4 bfp due 21st oct
Fox82 ttc#1 cycle 11 bfp due 22nd oct
HisLommel ttc#3 cycle 1, bfp due 22nd October.
Babymamatobe ttc ? Cycle 2 bfp due 22nd October
SazzyB ttc #1 cycle 1 due bfp 22nd October
ELR ttc#3 cycle 3 BFP due 24th Oct
fluffythelabcat ttc#1, cycle 3, BFP due 24th Oct
ItsSoFluffyImGonnaDie ttc #1, cycle 1, BFP due 24th Oct
Jessieagain Ttc #2 cycle 2 bfp 25th October.
Newlywed2013 ttc#1 cycle 1 bfp End of Oct ? 26th Oct?
Kemie ttc#1, cycle 8!! BFP due oct 26/27th
ExactlyWhat ttc #3 cycle 2 bfp 27th Oct
Mama31 TTC #2 cycle 4 BFP 27th Oct
JellyBeanDavey ttc#1 cycle #4 BFP due 27th
HalfPintLulu ttc #2 cycle 1 bfp due 27th October
NeuroticSweetTalk ttc#1 cycle 2 bfp due 28th oct
Sazzlehopes ttc#2 cycle 10+ bfp due 28th October
Newbie784 ttc#1 cycle 2 bfp due 28th oct
JoHull ttc#1 Cycle 2 bfp due 30th
SignoraStronza ttc#3, cycle 2 BFP due 30th oct
ImaginaryHat ttc#1 cycle 6 bfp 30th October
M33r ttc#1 cycle 11 bfp due 31st October
Jbiscuits ttc#1 cycle 3 bfp due end of October
VJONES1985 ttc#1 cycle3 bfp due ?
Wineandchoccy TTC #1, cycle number 2, bfp due ?
Laravh ttc #1 cycle 2 bfp due end of October
MissVaughan ttc #2 cycle 3 bfp due ?
LittleBear01 TTC #1, cycle 6, BFP due 3rd Nov (long cycle - 37 days usually)
Lifehasafunnywayofhelpinguout ttc #2 cycle ? Bfp due ?

HisLommel · 17/10/2013 07:01

I'm sure lots of women have BFNS at 13dpo jaykay but can understand if you're worried BrewThanks Fx crossed for you for tomorrow.

I don't even know if I've got a line this morning. I thought it was a bfn so I subjected the test to my torch treatment and if I shine the light behind it I can see a line. Still not pink though so I'm not counting that either. Will try again later with my ICs when they arrive. Should be okay if I don't drink anything for 4 hours before. DF reckons I smell pregnant this morning lol!

onelifeonechance · 17/10/2013 07:03

Panic! Fab news!!! Smile Love waking up to hear of a BFP, congrats!

Sorry to Notta&Vjones, hugs. Notta, I would def also recommend opks, i'm finding them really useful and like others say they make you feel you're actively doing something to help the process. I was the same as mama, didn't use them first two cycles then when started realised we hadn't been dtd at the right time. Think you'll benefit as you'll be able to target your 'sex plan' to your peak days, good luck Smile

Morning to everyone else Smile Jaykay, keep the faith, know it's hard, but as ever it ain't over til the fat lady starts singing.

10dpo here, a v small bit of creamy cm seen yst (sorry tmi), none since and other than that zilch. However I am very excited about tmrw's party, going to start my preparations, nails to be done, legs to be waxed....

jaykay987 · 17/10/2013 07:09

I'm also excited about the party.
I've just updated the RSVP. 18 attendees so far.....anyone taking bets on how many bfp party bags we need? Grin

laravh · 17/10/2013 07:13

Congratulations panic! Awesome news to wake up to!! ??

m33r · 17/10/2013 07:30

panic amazing! And gives me hope that 11cycles doesn't mean it can't happen which is how I feel lots of the time at the moment.

Details please!!! Symptoms? Dtd days? Cycle lengths etc??

Congratulations again!

GinandStripes · 17/10/2013 07:46

Oh Jaykay - I know exactly how you feel, that was me - My cycle was going period, 1 week of feeling awesome & dtd, then 2 weeks of feeling like crap and then BFNs at the end of it all. I was really starting to question what the heck was up with my body and my mind.

BUT - my BFP came. Smile and yours will too.

Sadly because I have stupid willpower and only poas (well actually piac) after AF was late, I can't help to reassure you about BFNs on dpo13. But it's still very possible.

Maybe your BFP is holding out for the party?

x

GinandStripes · 17/10/2013 07:47

Congratulations Panic Thanks

onelifeonechance · 17/10/2013 07:52

Gin, how many dpo were you and how long after af was due when you tested?

onelifeonechance · 17/10/2013 07:53

Ashamed at my poorly formed sentence [hangs head]

allchatnicknamesgone · 17/10/2013 07:54

Amazing panic. Woop woop.

Me help. I just tested. Dpo14 today and AF due. Had so many stomach pains in the night that I 'remembered' and 'felt familiar'. I was sorting expecting a line to pop up, but IT DIDN'T. I've got a fucking bfn. Suppose I've got to wait and see what happens today, but the statistics are huge for having the Bfp today right???? I'm sure there are some that don't, but my heart is shattering again.

What does anyone think? I'm using those 'one step pregnancy' 10mu strips?????