Happy St Patrick's Day everyone!
I'm once again trying to catch up with the thread! Since I got back from the funeral in Ireland I've had a respiratory infection,cough/sore throat/fever that's just about going now and with work etc to contend with too I've not had much time or energy for Mumsnet though I've tried to skim over the last few pages.
Calendergal I'm so sorry to hear your news,glad it hasn't been physically too bad but I know the emotional side is whole different story,look after yourself x
JBrd ,congratulations! Has the news sunk in yet? You must be delighted!
Isabeller how are you feeling? You are going through such a difficult time.
Isadorable ,what a great opportunity for your DD to be bilingual! We've visited Toulouse, it's a lovely place. Your hip sounds painful,hope it settles down soon.
gum I'd like to join your knitting club,not that I can knit, but it sounds a lovely way to spend an afternoon with friends chatting and drinking wine and eating cake,mmmmm!
CaliBee ,congrats on your official engagement! Life is such a rollercoaster though, it must have been a shock to hear your DD is pregnant, when is she due? I can see you must feel torn between moving with DP or staying in the UK with your kids/grandkids, but N Ireland isn't really that far away for them to come and see you or you to get back over. How long would the posting be for?
I also empathise with your thinking about stepping back from obsessively ttc and just enjoying sex. My 12 months using my Duofertility monitor finishes in May. That £500 seemed a small price to pay at the time when it guaranteed a full refund if I wasn't pregnant in 12 mths. Now of course after a few miscarriages the guarantee is invalid and I still have no baby.I don't know if I can justify any further payments really so I'm thinking of going "off piste" so to speak and forgetting temping,trying to take a more relaxed approach. I still don't want to stop trying and at least having tracked my cycles for a while I can spot the symptoms of impending ovulation better.
It was my due date for the last baby I lost today,we were going to call him Patrick if he was a boy though all my babies are late so it probably would have been next week rather than on St Pat's Day. I don't know if things will get easier now all my due dates are past,it still feels so raw .I deliberately tried not to remember the dates of the miscarriages but they're stuck in my mind too, it's just coming up to a year since my first miscarriage. I was talking to a friend last week, one of the very few people who realizes I'm still affected by the losses, but she had two mc, one late, before she had her DC so she understands.
The anniversary for the last baby she lost is coming up soon, 10 years later the grief is still there though she finds it a lot easier to deal with now.
It doesn't help that AF arrived yesterday after a few days of soaring temps, which I knew really were due to the fact I was ILL but I still couldn't help getting my hopes raised!
Sorry for the rant.Life just isn't fair sometimes!
Ah well, brand new cycle, everything to aim for, here we go again!
Hello Morien Green notsoold DrWho Sparkly and everyone else!
Good luck with your scan this week Diege.